Does the one really exist? Are you wasting time with the wrong one? What keeps us from finding the one? ​We have been sold a fantasy through movies and media. From an early age we are shown what to look for in a person through cartoons and children's movies.The truth is that the person you may actually end up with may not have the look, money, status, or whatever thing you think they should have. Far too many people end up settling for someone who has the characteristics we believe we want but aren't really compatible with us.

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There are MANY benefits of marriage but be warned! Marriage is NOT an easy task to take on! Marriage is definitely worth it, but there's some SERIOUS, BACK BREAKING , SACRIFICIAL, NEVER ENDING work that has to be put in that most people aren't willing or taught to do!

 

Some of the benefits of marriage are

 

1.) Shared duties, everything is not on one persons shoulders BASED on the commitments that were made!

 

2.) Knowing that you BOTH made a commitment to each other!

 

3.) Being Officially adopted into another family. Added brothers, sisters, moms, dads and many other relationship additions.

 

4.) Allowing a young child to SEE the commitment that Mom and Dad made to stay with each other till death!

 

5.) Carrying the family name on throughout time!

 

Is marriage worth it?

 

1.) There are some benefits to being single.

 

> Being able to go where you want when you want

>Time is basically yours to do what you want

>You can focus on your goals and aspirations

 

2.) Men and women NEED to stop generalizing the opposite sex.

 

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Should you even consider marriage at all now-a-days, or should you just stay single and date? Why are so many people not wanting to get married now-a-days? We talk about all this and more on this episode! 

 

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