So many people find themselves stuck, disillusioned, unmotivated, and prematurely giving up on their dreams.
Think about this before we answer that: do you measure your success against the progress you’ve made, or against the perfect ideal you have in mind for it to eventually be? Your answer could be your hurdle.
It is all about staying out of the GAP! That’s what we’re talking about in this week’s episode.
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Feature Presentation:
- PICTURE or VISION of a possible future
It does not exist outside of our mindsAs you move toward it, it moves further awayThe IDEAL is our perception of PERFECTION- These represent our actual achievements, accomplishments, and state in life
You embark on this journey, and you do so from a starting point … a beginningEach goal you achieve along the way represents a new current realityHere is where the breakdown happens
- I leave my starting point with specific goals in mind
My sense of value and accomplishment goes flying out of the window as I see myself through the eyes of having fallen short of perfection … again.This thrusts us into a deeply negative attitude and mindset:
FrustrationLow Self-esteemGuilt/ShameDepressionDisappointment“Comparison is the thief of joy.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
- What if you measured yourself against PROGRESS instead?
What if, instead of comparing where you are with where you ultimately WANT to be, you compare where you are against where you have COME FROM?Doing this keeps you in a POSITIVE mental and spiritual attitude and stateSatisfactionConfidenceHigh Self-esteemOptimismEnjoyment and FulfillmentMotivation and EnergyAbundance and Joy- You become intentional about having a positive focus
Every day, you celebrate the WINS and the PROGRESS you have madeYou choose to focus on what you DID get doneRetrain your brain, and get out of the GAP, once and for all.