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The Stretchy Pants Surrender

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Episode 5: 

The Stretchy Pants Surrender

I was the stylist who swore by the mantra: “Leggings aren’t pants" until I became a mom 

I lived by it, preached it, and believed it with every fiber of my being. But then, life happened. I became a mom, and let me tell you, those beliefs flew right out the window the second I got pregnant.

Suddenly, soft pants became my lifeline.

Becoming a mom can totally wreck your pants game. First trimester? Bloated. Postpartum? Rocking the pooch. Pants are tough, but they don’t have to be torture. In this episode, I’m sharing my journey of surrendering to stretchy pants and accepting my new body. Because let’s be real: postpartum pants struggles are real. From the frustration of trying to squeeze into pre-pregnancy jeans to the emotional spiral of tying your self-worth to your style, I’ve been there.

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Here’s what we’re diving into:

 

  • The Pants Struggle is Real: I dive deep into the emotional spiral that comes with trying to fit into pre-pregnancy jeans. From the frustration of buttons that won’t close to the self-worth issues tied to clothing sizes, I share my personal struggles and how they’ve shaped my perspective.
  • The Stretchy Pants Surrender: Why soft pants (leggings, sweatpants, drawstring pants) are the ultimate lifesaver for moms (or anyone going through body changes). I break down the stigma around these pants and why it’s time to embrace them unapologetically.
  • Body Changes are Normal: A reminder that your body is supposed to change, it’s part of being human. I share insights on how to shift your mindset from punishing yourself for these changes to celebrating the incredible things your body has done, like growing and birthing a whole human.
  • Postpartum Pants Categories: I break down the best types of pants to get you through this stage of life, from chic leggings to stylish sweatpants and even drawstring jeans.
  • Permission to Feel Good: You don’t have to wait until you “bounce back” to invest in clothes that fit and make you feel amazing. I talk about the importance of surrendering to this stage of life and giving yourself permission to feel good right now, even if your body is still changing.

  • A New Perspective on Style: I share how my journey as a mom has transformed my approach to fashion. It’s not about perfection anymore, it’s about finding clothes that make you feel comfortable, confident, and aligned with your new identity.

  • Practical Tips for Shopping: I offer actionable advice on how to shop for pants during transitional periods, including budget-friendly options, versatile styles, and how to prioritize comfort without sacrificing style.

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    Episode Highlights:

     

    “You are worthy of new clothes no matter what stage your body is in.” ​

    “Leggings are pants if you decide they’re pants. We’re not going with these fashion rules anymore, they’re limiting and judgy, and we’re letting those go.”

    “The sooner you accept that you’re having a normal human experience with your body changing, the sooner you can stop spiraling and start feeling good again.”​

       
     Resources Mentioned In This Episode:

     


    ⬇️ **FREE DOWNLOAD**:  Postpartum Pants Mini Guide

     Or you can download it for free at style.laurenmessiah.com/episode5

     

     

     Connect with Me:

    Are you on board with the stretchy pants surrender? Let me know!​ Shoot me a DM on Instagram (@laurenmessiah) or email me at [email protected] and tell me you surrender. I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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            See you next time!
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            XO,


            Lauren

             

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