Dad Tired

The Subtle Sins We All Ignore & Building a Life of Integrity| 467


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What do you do when something isn’t technically sin—but still doesn’t feel right? In this episode, Jerrad shares a vulnerable story from his week that left him convicted, even though no clear line was crossed. He unpacks the concept of “inner, middle, and outer circle behaviors”—a tool from recovery circles—and challenges Christian men to evaluate the subtle patterns that quietly lead to sin, disconnection, or hidden shame.

If you’re a husband or father wrestling with old habits, emotional isolation, or unspoken compromise, this episode gives practical language to your inner conflict—and a gospel-centered path toward integrity and healing.

What You’ll Learn:

  • How to identify subtle behaviors that lead to sin
  • The difference between self-care and numbing
  • Why “middle circle” habits matter for Christian men
  • Practical steps for radical honesty in marriage
  • How to confess without spiraling into shame
  • Why healing starts with small, honest steps—not perfection


Mentioned in the Episode:

  1. The “Inner, Middle, Outer Circle” tool from recovery work
  2. Dad Tired Retreat (September – signup at dadtired.com)
  3. Kids' News Sponsor -World Watch News 

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