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What happens when a 19-year-old Olympic-level athlete suddenly faces a rare cancer with just a 15% survival rate? For Michael Reid Cramer, this devastating reality struck during the height of the COVID pandemic, transforming him from a competitive windsurfer at peak fitness to someone fighting for his life.
Yet this conversation with Michael and his mother, Ashlee, reveals something extraordinary – not just a story of survival, but a masterclass in finding meaning, purpose, and even beauty through life's most harrowing challenges. Their approach to cancer treatment was revolutionary in its simplicity: they brought LEGO sets to chemotherapy sessions, held lightweight workouts in hospital rooms, and even visited the beach between treatments. Shower in your pain," Ashlee wisely shares, "but don't bathe in it.
The journey took them through aggressive chemotherapy, total body radiation, a bone marrow transplant, and ongoing complications from graft versus host disease that Michael still manages today. But alongside these medical realities emerged profound wisdom about what truly matters. Michael's perspective shifted dramatically – from career ambitions to helping others navigate similar paths. Together, they launched the podcast "Michael and Mom Talk Cancer," creating a connection for others feeling isolated in their health struggles.
Perhaps most moving is their return to joy – Michael back on his surfboard despite avascular necrosis in his knees, finding that his relationship with surfing has deepened through absence. "I feel like I'm surfing better than I've ever surfed before," he shares, not because his body performs better, but because his approach has been transformed.
Their message resonates far beyond cancer – it's about living intentionally in the present, expressing love without hesitation, and finding purpose in helping others. As Michael puts it, "Don't wait until you're diagnosed with cancer to do that thing." Listen to their extraordinary story and discover how love, acceptance, and connection can transform even our darkest moments into pathways for growth.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
• Connect with Michael & Ashlee on Instagram
• Michael & Mom Talk Cancer Podcast Website
• Beyond The Blood (Michael's Book on Amazon)
• Cancer Support Group for Carers on Discord
• Cancer Survivor Group on Discord
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