The Thinking Thick Podcast

Fall is here and that means pumpkin spice lattes, brisk autumn days, cozy sweaters and cuffing season! Oh its that time when the weather is getting colder that we start wanting to warm up with someone, at least for the winter months. 

In this episode of "The Thinking Thick Podcast," Amaris & Lola discuss "Cuffing Season." Get ready because we are talking about everything you ever wanted to know about this relationship season; from why we start to crave someone to cuddle with to how long we expect these relationships to realistically last. 

We are ready to officially enter Cuffing Season 2020 and if this year has taught us anything is that anything can happen. 

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The post-breakup stage can be difficult to navigate, especially when it comes to figuring out whether or not to stay friends? What would that look like? Are you strong enough to emotionally handle it? Do you stay in contact? What about social media? Lets talk about it! 

In this episode of "The Thinking Thick Podcast," Amaris & Lola discuss what post-breakup looks like and how to handle even contemplating the idea of maintaining a friendship with an ex. 

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Let's talk about having "Friend Crushes!" When was the last time that you met someone new and thought to yourself, "I want to be their friend!"?

How do we develop friend crushes? What do we do when someone rejects being our friend? In the latest episode of "The Thinking Thick Podcast," your hosts Amaris & Lola talk about their friend crushes, how they approach trying to become friends with someone new and what are the qualities in a person that caught their eye! 

Take a listen and make sure to follow "The Thinking Thick Podcast" on Instagram @thinkingthick. 

GET READY because we are tackling the age-old question, "can guys and girls just be friends?"!

In this episode of "The Thinking Thick Podcast," your hosts Lola & Amaris are talking about having platonic friendships with people of the opposite sex, how Hollywood contributes to the idea that men and women cannot JUST BE friends, and our thoughts on how we would feel if our partners had opposite-sex best friends! 

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Why does being unfriended on social media hurt so much? We don't want to admit it but let's be honest, social media holds more weight in our lives than we would want to give it. So if unfriending in real life hurts, why wouldn't unfriending on social media be the same? 

In this episode of "The Thinking Thick Podcast," Lola & Amaris discuss about their experiences with being unfriended on social media and doing the unfriending! Hear our thick thoughts and make sure to follow on Instagram @thinkingthick.

WE WERE ON A BREAK! If you don't know that infamous phrase, we got you covered! On this episode of "The Thinking Thick Podcast," Amaris & Lola are discussing the idea of "taking a break" from a relationship and our thoughts on "entanglements." 

From what the experts say, to making up plausible scenarios that might lead to couples wanting to "take a break" to even our OWN personal experience, lets talk about it all! Are we agreeing with famous couples like Will & Jada or are we saying that taking a break is one step away from a breakup? Tune in to find out! 

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In the newest episode of "The Thinking Thick Podcast," Lola & Amaris are excited to welcome another guest, Joe, who is joining us to talk about "hooking up."

This brave soul agreed to talk to us about the guys side of hooking up and using online dating apps for hookups. We grill him on ghosting, ask him why guys always say "I'm not looking for a relationship right now," and got him to tell us some horror dating stories! 

Tune into the episode and don't forgot to subscribe and rate! 

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In this episode of "The Thinking Thick Podcast," Lola & Amaris are excited to welcome their guest, Adam, to talk about long distance relationships. 

Adam joins us and opens up about his feelings and "thick thoughts" on how he felt about long distance relationships before being in one and what it is like to be in a committed long distance relationship. From how it all started to what is the hardest part of dating someone who lives in a different state, we talk about it all. 

Make sure to follow Adam and listen to his podcast "Perpetually Dissatisfied Podcast" @ perpetuallydissatisfiedpodcast on Instagram. 

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We don't really talk about them but it doesn't mean they don't hurt. Friendships play a very significant role in our lives and when a friendship ends, whether mutually or in a catastrophic way, we are experiencing a breakup that is equal to that of a romantic relationship. So how do you process going from "You will definitely be one of my bridesmaids when I get married," to being strangers? How do we navigate learning to let go of people who played such an important role in our lives? In this episode of "The Thinking Thick Podcast," Amaris & Lola talk about the tough friendship breakups they have had to endure, how they survived and what they learned, not only about themselves, but about friendships in general. 

Listen to "The Breakup You Never Saw Coming: Friendships," to hear our thoughts about what it is like when the friendship is over. 

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We need to talk about what happened to George Floyd. Once again our country is being confronted with images of Black Americans being killed at the hands of the police and dialogue is crucial, now more than ever. 

In this episode of "The Thinking Thick Podcast,"  Lola & Amaris talk about the devastating death of George Floyd and what this means for the Black community and other communities of color. In this episode, we talk about how our experiences as a person of color in America helped shape our views on racism, interactions with the police and how we grieve the loss of another black man. 

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