Intelligent Intoxication

The Three-Ring People-Pleasing Circus


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Cheers to you, my brilliant friend!
 
Welcome to the Intelligent Intoxication podcast - where I’ll get you smashed on success without the buzzkill of burnout. 
 
When you are in the “people-pleasing habit”, what are you thinking?
“If I say NO, he/she won’t like me.”
“I want him/her to think that I’m a good friend, daughter, person, worker, etc.”
“I don’t want to be rejected or excluded.”
“I have to earn my worth by pleasing others.”
“I can’t disappoint them or let them down.”
What are you feeling when you rush to please?
Anxious?
Inadequate?
Unworthy?
Grasp-y?
Ignored?
Invisible?
Desperate?
Afraid?
What are you actually DOING?
Do you…
say YES regardless of whether or not you want to?
lie about what you really believe or feel?
pretend to agree with others when you really don’t?
sacrifice your own needs to meet the needs of others?
hide parts of the “real you” in order to be palatable to others?
“like” posts you think are total crap?
walk on eggshells?
avoid conflict or confrontation?
take responsibility for the feelings of others?
 
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Intelligent IntoxicationBy Terri Bradway

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