Blame is such a natural human response when things are not going well.  It is the easy way out.  When we blame, we feel better temporarily, and then move on to blame again when that feeling wears off.  This will keep us trapped and will keep us feeling like a victim in our own lives.  Not only can this can happen in our marriage, but it can also happen in any or all other aspects of our lives.  

When we keep ourselves the victim, we wait around for other people to solve our problems, which means we will wait around for a long time, getting more and more frustrated along the way.  In today's episode, we will dive into this topic and explore how a lot of advice out in the world suggests we just blame the different cultures we grew up with and perhaps just walking away from those cultures when a challenge comes up for us adults.  

But running away from anything that we view as challenging instead of learning the skills to handle our challenges just keeps us in a constant cycle of running away and escaping.  But we will offer a new perspective, with 4 tips that will not only allow you to stay surrounded by the cultures that blessed your life but also make you stronger during the process.