2 Corinthians 1:3-12 (NLT)
All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us. For the more we suffer for Christ, the more God will shower us with his comfort through Christ. Even when we are weighed down with troubles, it is for your comfort and salvation! For when we ourselves are comforted, we will certainly comfort you. Then you can patiently endure the same things we suffer. We are confident that as you share in our sufferings, you will also share in the comfort God gives us.
We think you ought to know, dear brothers and sisters, about the trouble we went through in the province of Asia. We were crushed and overwhelmed beyond our ability to endure, and we thought we would never live through it. In fact, we expected to die. But as a result, we stopped relying on ourselves and learned to rely only on God, who raises the dead. And he did rescue us from mortal danger, and he will rescue us again. We have placed our confidence in him, and he will continue to rescue us. And you are helping us by praying for us. Then many people will give thanks because God has graciously answered so many prayers for our safety.
We can say with confidence and a clear conscience that we have lived with a God-given holiness and sincerity in all our dealings. We have depended on God’s grace, not on our own human wisdom. That is how we have conducted ourselves before the world, and especially toward you.
Explanation:
Of all the things God gives us to steward, pain is in the top five, along with our heart, time, money, and mouth.
Pain in God’s hands is gold. Pain squandered is spiritual quicksand.
Talk to a saint who has endured suffering with God's help, and you will be conversing with someone who has a hope-sparkle in their heart and a vitality in their spirit. In fact, once those sufferings have passed, there can actually be a longing for that special time, because the season was so permeated with God's love and power. I have a friend, Cheri Wellington, who shared this exact sentiment with me when recalling the year her husband Jim was dying from cancer. She obviously did not want to relive his passing, but she longed for that extra intense connection one has with God when all depends on Him. When you are in delirious pain, your senses are heightened, you hear God’s voice clearer, see Him in the smallest things, and feel His presence in the most physical way. When all our earthly props are removed, there remains the right hand of God, upholding and embracing us in ways that are unimaginable. It stays with you for life and becomes your bedrock.
An outgrowth of those experiences is an increased ability to empathize with others in a spiritually healthy way. The way pain becomes gold in God’s hand is He uses it to school you in how to help others.
When people are in intense times of suffering, God’s will is still being done, and it is important not to interfere.
No one needs:
✔️For you to fix it.
✔️For you to silver line it.
✔️For you to minimize it.
✔️For you to “one up them” with your pain.
✔️For you to “at least it’s not”…
✔️For you to scripturize it for them.
They need comfort from God… and you… saturated in grace that produces listening ears, prayerful lips, and eyes that notice.
In this passage, Paul is talking about suffering in rather glowing terms because he knows the value of suffering successfully for Christ. I too have learned suffering's value, and I make it my daily goal not to unlearn what I learned.
May we all highly value our intense times, knowing God's will is being done. May we learn what He wants us to learn, all the while becoming better comforters in the process. That’s spiritual gold.
Application:
1. Being soft and strong is a winning combination that only comes from suffering. Why do you think suffering accomplishes that?
2. How can pain be wasted?
Prayer:
My prayer for all readers and listeners today:
If you are in the fire of loss… may you allow God to fill your void with His Holy Spirit in ways you thought impossible.
If you are in the sorrow of grief… may God soothe your lacerated heart and draw you close to His. It’s the warmest place for healing.
If you are in the agony of a toxic relationship… may you trust God to lead you out and away - HIS WAY - to freedom.
If you are gripped in fear and anxiety… may learning to fully trust and rely on God be your 2022 miracle. It is an abundant life.
Amen; so let it be!