Mark 10:35-45 (NLT)
Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came over and spoke to him. “Teacher,” they said, “we want you to do us a favor.”
“What is your request?” he asked.
They replied, “When you sit on your glorious throne, we want to sit in places of honor next to you, one on your right and the other on your left.”
But Jesus said to them, “You don’t know what you are asking! Are you able to drink from the bitter cup of suffering I am about to drink? Are you able to be baptized with the baptism of suffering I must be baptized with?”
“Oh yes,” they replied, “we are able!”
Then Jesus told them, “You will indeed drink from my bitter cup and be baptized with my baptism of suffering. But I have no right to say who will sit on my right or my left. God has prepared those places for the ones he has chosen.”
When the ten other disciples heard what James and John had asked, they were indignant. So Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must be the slave of everyone else. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
Explanation:
Jesus is still training the 12 disciples He selected to follow Him. It’s interesting that each of the disciples with Jesus in this story had all responded to the same invitation of Jesus, “Follow Me.” That is how they all became a group that would have a front row seat to Jesus’s life; His character, His personality, His theology, His teaching style, His manners, His family relationships, His means of travel, His food choices, His humor, His power, His discernment, His prayer life, His compassion, AND His leadership style.
But something hasn’t connected for James and John. As fast as a question can be asked, their hearts were revealed. James and John wanted honor and position. They wanted the spotlight and the visibility. They wanted attention and to be esteemed. They wanted recognition and distinction. They wanted tribute and homage. Jesus knows they have no idea of the cost of their desire. When He tells them what will be required to sit at the right hand of the Father, they flippantly commit. They declare “We are able.”
This story reminds us of the cost of leadership: honor in the kingdom of God will be through surrender and serving, not through influence. We cannot even evaluate our own place, for it is the Father who grants us our role, often with accompanying suffering that will feel like anything but honor.
Jesus concludes our passage today by breaking it down for the 12 leaders He is leaving behind. They are going to have to serve others, just as He has done, and be good with being last and uncredited. Their hearts will have to find life in putting others first, and being God’s hand extended to the world.
Application:
1. Have you ever struggled with feeling slighted or overlooked for good things you have done? How does our passage today help you regroup from that feeling? What perspective gets realigned after reading Jesus’s words…especially since He knew He had Calvary ahead?
2. Why do titles and position matter? Could it be we want stake in acknowledgment rather than service? It’s a cultural vice we get wedged in when we forget we are here to serve others instead of being served.
3. What if we collectively abolished titles and position yearning, and aspired to being “wherever there is a need, I’ll fill it” people? Can you imagine the strength of our churches and communities?
4. There are two types of people. There are “here I am” people and there are “there you are” people. Jesus was a “there you are.” Will you follow His example?
Prayer Prompt:
I once knew a beautiful old man who had served God and the local church faithfully for years. When people would ask him what he did in the church, he would call himself “putty,” filling any crack needed.
“Lord, never before has our world needed people willing to serve others like we need today. Help us have a vision for the needs of our neighborhoods, communities, workplaces, and world. Give us eyes to see, ears to hear, and hands to do. Illuminate ways we can do practical things to help others. Work generosity in our hearts and energy in our bodies to fill the needs of those we encounter today. We ask You to create a longing to be putty in Your hands, for Your kingdom’s sake. Amen.”
Devo Plus:
For God is not unjust. He will not forget how hard you have worked for him and how you have shown your love to him by caring for other believers. (Hebrews 6:10, NLT)