Genesis 2:18, 20-25 (ESV)
Then the LORD God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”
The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him. So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the LORD God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. Then the man said, “This at last is bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.”
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.
Explanation:
In the beginning of Genesis, we see a magnificent God create everything by simply speaking. He then gave life to the pinnacle of His creation: man. However, our Creator knew that man would need a physical companion to carry out all He had planned and to reflect His perfect love. Our passage in Genesis tells us of the day that God brought all the animals before Adam to be named, and it was obvious that none would be a suitable helper for him. In a miraculous creative act, God took a rib from Adam and made woman. God could have just breathed another human being into existence, but there was significance, both to Adam and to us, that woman was made “bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh.” By using part of Adam, the two were made part of each other, and through marriage, the joining together of both the spiritual and physical, they would be made one again. The ultimate union. The ultimate opportunity to express love. Interestingly, the Hebrew word for helper is “Ezer k’negdo” which literally means “Helper opposite him.” In God’s perfect plan, woman was the “opposite” of Adam…the perfect fit. By walking in sacrificial love, they would fill in the areas where the other had need, and together they would point creation toward the character of God.
Application:
1. Sometimes our differences in our marriages can be a source of friction, but verse 18 shows us that God’s perfect design is that our differences would be to our benefit.
Spend some time praying about the differences between you and your spouse. Ask God to help you see how to use those differences as a blessing to each other.
2. Verse 24 tells us that in light of this perfect union, man shall leave his father and mother, and hold fast to his wife. Take an honest assessment of yourself and how you prioritize your marriage. Could you use some help putting your relationship with your spouse first? Ask God for help in how to move forward.
3. Even if you aren’t married, you can still appreciate the different ways God created us. Take some time today and think about your personality and how God uniquely designed you.
Prayer Prompt:
• Spend some time in prayer, if possible, with your spouse. Ask God to help you both to glorify Him in your service of each other. Men, ask God to fine tune your leadership toward Christ and your sacrificial heart toward your wife. Women, ask God to soften your heart toward submission as you walk out in love, being the best help mate to your spouse.
Devo Plus:
• “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." (Ephesians 4:2)
• “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins." (1 Peter 4:8)
• “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you." (John 15:12)