Welcome to episode 6 and part two of this juicy three-part series where I'm diving deep (and yes, it’s getting a little controversial!) into some of the worst dating advice floating around for women over 40. Today, I'm taking on the concept of "divine feminine energy" and why this advice, while alluring, might be the very thing holding you back.

In this episode, I’ll share some personal stories and insights from my journey—not just as someone who has navigated this advice herself but as a spiritual teacher who’s worked in the energy healing world for decades.

I totally get why “finding your divine feminine” sounds like a magic solution to all our dating woes. We’ll talk about why it feels so shiny and seductive, especially if you've been told that embracing a “feminine” energy is the key to finally meeting your soulmate.

Beneath this advice is often a subtle (or not-so-subtle) message that something about you isn’t good enough. I’ll break down how this mindset can make you feel unworthy and how it turns dating into an exhausting performance instead of an authentic connection.

Instead of chasing a prescribed “feminine energy,” I’m going to show you how to attract genuine connection by being fully present, authentic, and unapologetically YOU. I’ll explain why your most attractive quality is not about how well you "do" feminine but how deeply you show up as yourself.

The "Let Love In" Technique

If this resonates, I’ll share a bit about the “Let Love In” method I teach in my "Pinch Me Love" course. This isn’t about fixing what's “wrong” with you; it’s about peeling back the layers to get to your true, whole self.

Remember, you don’t have to become anyone other than who you are to find love. The most powerful thing you can do is embrace your real, messy, beautiful self—and show up with an open heart. I can’t wait to hear what you think about today’s episode, so tune in, and let’s get real about finding love over 40.

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