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We've been lying to ourselves about sexual desire for generations. Hollywood sells us the fantasy that true love means perpetual passion - that if you're really meant to be together, you'll always feel that electric spark of the honeymoon phase. Science tells a different story.

This episode explores the surprising paradox of desire. Our hosts break down the science behind the famous "honeymoon phase," reveal why desire naturally evolves in long-term relationships, and discuss how different attachment styles shape our intimate connections. You'll discover the concept of "sexual communal strength" and learn how successful couples maintain their spark over time. We tackle sensitive topics like attraction outside relationships and the impact of major life changes on desire, all while examining how societal expectations influence our intimate lives. Whether you're curious about the psychology of desire, looking to understand your own relationship patterns, or seeking evidence-based insights for maintaining long-term passion, this episode offers valuable perspectives on one of humanity's most fundamental experiences. Backed by current research and delivered with empathy, this discussion provides practical takeaways for nurturing healthy, satisfying relationships.

Sexual desire's complex role—how it can connect yet also divide those in a romantic relationship

The interplay between sexual desire and relationship functioning

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