“Mental health problems don’t define who you are. They are something you experience. You walk in the rain and you feel the rain, but, importantly, YOU ARE NOT THE RAIN.”

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Parents have let go of the wheels of parenting and now the world has taken over that responsibility. We need to go back to the drawing board and now is the time.

Whose responsibility is a child's upbringing ?

Disapointments are inevitable and not all goals will be achieved but learning to stay afloat of the consequences is key. This episode sheds light on understanding the cycle of disappointment.

There are things we will never know about ourselves until life pushes us to the edge, there are innate characters that will only be known to us when deep frustration comes in. Sometimes, delays , denials and frustrations can open your eyes to the positive violence you need to engage in .

The strongest men out there aren't the ones hitting the gym 7 days a week and 6 hours a day .It's the ones who have gone through life defining moments, and has either come out as survivors or winners.

I am a firm believer in walking by principles and rules, they never disappoint. A great quote from this episode is " Half the price gets you to half of your destination .... " and that sums it all up, take a listen.

Life is complex, life can be unfair, different strategies unlocks different levels in the life series. Understanding the strategy of pattern in engaging life remains a top tier key to figuring out the future.

Frijot Capra once said ' Understanding of Life begins with the Understanding of Patterns' , we must all pay attention to P-A-T-T-E-R-N-S!.

Psychology has described humans as having different personalities, however , one caveat that we have not been exposed to well enough is making life decisions  from a safe distance and not necessarily on our personalities. Personalities can be deceptive , the rule of safe distance is able to exert a level of control over life outcomes and personalities. 

Choose to be a safe distance life sojourner .