Dr. Michaela Bucchianeri, shares valuable insights and strategies for navigating the challenges of stepmotherhood.

Anxiety, Michaela reveals, serves a function by keeping us safe and prepared for the future. However, it can also hijack our strengths and manifest in negative ways such as rumination or excessive checking. The goal is to notice how anxiety hijacks our strengths and find ways to nurture and reclaim them.

Michaela discusses the different manifestations of anxiety, including diagnosable anxiety disorders such as generalized anxiety disorder, specific phobias, OCD, and panic disorder. It is important to note that anxiety is a part of the spectrum of human experience, and everyone experiences it to some degree.

Disruption to daily life and two key factors, ambiguity and control, can contribute to anxiety. Ambiguity, particularly in the stepmom role, creates a moving target and lack of clarity, while control provides a sense of order, predictability, and security.

The concept of runaway worry is introduced, where anxiety can be triggered by certain situations such as the anticipation of the kids being dropped off at a stepmom's house.

Michaela explains that in these situations, a stepmom can choose to push through the anxiety, double down on worry, or avoid the problem altogether.

However, both of these alternatives can exacerbate the issue. Runaway worry not only affects the initial trigger but can also impact other areas of life and lead to anticipatory anxiety throughout the week.

To hear the entire interview with Dr. Michaela Bucchianeri, join us at www.TheStepfamilySummit.com

Mike Haney shares his expertise and insights on the unique challenges that stepdads face in blended families.

Mike, an experienced stepfather himself, understands the complexities of navigating relationships within a stepfamily and is passionate about helping men understand their roles and improve their blended family dynamics.

Throughout the interview, Mike shares the importance of the man and woman's relationship, building emotional bonds with stepchildren, addressing loyalty conflicts, and so much more.

Whether you're a stepdad seeking guidance or simply interested in learning about stepfamily dynamics, this interview is for you.

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Monica Chaney shares her insights and personal journey as a stepmom, offering valuable advice and support to our listeners.

Monica explores the dynamics within a stepfamily and the complicated emotions that can arise when attention shifts from one parent to another. Monica delves into the importance of setting boundaries, communicating expectations, and understanding the root of our beliefs and attitudes.

She also discusses the overwhelming feeling of being an outsider and how it impacts stepmoms. Monica sensitively explores the negative effects of this mindset and offers empowering strategies for self-compassion, self-care, and creating new routines.

Don’t miss Monica’s full interview at http://www.TheStepfamilySummit.com . Remember, it’s free to attend.

Dr. Sonia Cann-Milland talks about the importance of acknowledging and challenging one's feelings and thoughts during transitions.

It's okay to feel a mix of emotions, including sadness, relief, and guilt, when leaving your step/children. She emphasizes the need to examine the narrative and mindset one is operating on and reflect on what went well and what didn't go so well during the road trip with the kids.

The connection between thoughts, feelings, and bodily reactions in relation to worry and anxiety is explored, and self-care activities such as walking the dog or releasing energy in healthy ways are suggested. Open communication is key in addressing resentment towards stepchildren, as it often stems from unresolved conversations between biological and stepparents.

Having a healthy mindset to promote discipline strategies is crucial, as one can often get triggered by their children's behavior and respond angrily. Seeking support and counseling is encouraged for those dealing with overwhelming issues in their relationship with their children.‌

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Susan Haworth discusses stepfamily dynamics and the importance of taking responsibility for one's own emotions and actions.

We explore the common tendency to blame the bio mom for stepchildren's behavior and how both stepmoms and biomoms are often easy targets for blame in stepfamily situations.

The interview highlights the need to own and process emotions to avoid negative impacts on relationships.

Forgiveness is also emphasized as crucial in stepparenting, including forgiving oneself and others for their actions.

The discussion then shifts to handling relationships with ex-partners, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries, limiting exposure, and maintaining a transactional relationship.

The sanctity of the relationship with one's partner is emphasized, including the need to avoid discussions about the ex-partner in the bedroom.

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Susan Lancaster discusses the importance of consideration and effective communication in relationships.

She highlights how lack of consideration and unhealthy discourse can disrupt relationships and hinder growth.

Susan delves into the impact of thoughts and emotions on our ability to listen and understand, and emphasizes the need for active listening and understanding in a relationship. She suggests putting aside our own emotions and interpretations to fully focus on what the other person is saying.

The ultimate goal is to encourage a shift in mindset towards growth and a shared vision for the future, specifically in the context of a stepfamily.

Susan touches on the transition from being a spouse to being a single parent, recognizing the challenges and importance of explaining the situation to children.

To hear the entire interview with Susan’s, join us at http://www.TheStepfamilySummit.com .

Drawing parallels to a training ground for individuation, Tracy Poizner highlights the importance of owning one's identity without relying on external validation or comparison.

While acknowledging the potential scariness of this concept, Tracy emphasizes the great opportunities that can arise. In the age of social media and societal pressures, detaching from comparison and conformity is crucial.

Listeners are encouraged to create their own rules and give themselves permission to take charge of their own lives.

Loneliness is identified as one of the hardest parts of being a stepmom. Tracy highlights the difficulty of finding role models or mentors who reflect the stepmom life situation, as every stepfamily is unique.

Many stepmothers struggle with finding their identity and often compare themselves to traditional or Instagram stepmoms.

Tracy challenges stepmoms to unplug the GPS of maternal instincts and navigate the complexities of being a stepmom with a sovereign mindset.

Listen to Tracy’s full interview at https://www.TheStepfamilySummit.com

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