What happens when someone crashes your meticulously planned event? In this candid and entertaining episode, we dive into the social minefield of uninvited guests and unexpected plus-ones. From childhood birthday parties to elaborate weddings, our host shares personal stories of party-crashing incidents—including a memorable tale of "Jason from down the road" attempting to infiltrate their 13th birthday celebration. The conversation evolves into a heated debate about setting boundaries, respecting invitations, and navigating the awkward moments when someone shows up unannounced.

## Timestamps & Key Takeaways:

**2:15** - Childhood memory of an uninvited guest at the host's 13th birthday party
*The roots of "Petty Betty" were formed early in life*

**5:40** - The debate begins: Is it ever acceptable to bring an unexpected plus-one?
*Clear division between those who accommodate versus those who enforce boundaries*

**8:22** - Tando's perspective on her upcoming event and how she handles uninvited guests
*Even the seemingly flexible have their limits when it comes to seating and food*

**10:45** - Caller insights: "I've budgeted for twenty people, not twenty-one"
*Financial considerations are a major factor in the plus-one debate*

**12:30** - Cultural perspectives on guest lists and family obligations
*How community expectations in Black families can complicate event planning*

Whether you're planning your next big celebration or have been guilty of bringing an unexpected guest, this episode will have you reconsidering your RSVP etiquette. Listen now to join the conversation that's dividing listeners across the city—are you Team Accommodate or Team Boundaries?

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