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🎙️ I’ve Got a Lot of Upsides

What do you do when the people from your past only know the rough draft of you?

Maybe they remember the bad decision.
The relationship you mishandled.
The version of you still trying to earn love, prove worth, or survive pain that came out sideways.

But healing is not getting everyone to agree you changed.

Growth is the next decision. 🙏

In this episode of The Unseen Truth, I talk about:

• 🧠 Why everybody brings issues into a relationship
• 👨‍👧‍👦 Why my kids do not need a perfect father—just a present one
• 🎵 What it means to stop needing the past to clap for your progress

You may not get to go back and rewrite the old chapters.

But you can make the next one better.

You have flaws. You have regrets. And you still have upsides.

Maybe it’s time you stopped asking the wrong people to hold the mirror.

🎧 Listen now—and if it hits, send it to someone who needs to remember they are more than their worst chapter.

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What happens when an experience with death changes the way you see life… and everything beyond it?

In this special Halloween episode of The Unseen Truth, Ashley shares a deeply personal account of surviving a life-threatening experience—and the unsettling encounters that followed.

From apparitions and unexplained moments to the fear, confusion, and lasting questions that came with them, this is not a ghost story written for entertainment. It is Ashley’s firsthand account of what she says she experienced.

Joffrey brings the conversation back to the human side of it all: what happens when something shakes your sense of reality, how do you find peace again, and what do you do with a story that still stays with you years later?

🎙️ In this episode:

• Ashley’s life-threatening experience
• The strange encounters that followed
• Apparitions, fear, and unexplained moments
• How those experiences affected her life
• Where she stands with it all today

⚠️ Listener discretion advised: This episode includes a firsthand account of a life-threatening experience and unsettling paranormal encounters.

Some stories leave you with answers. Others leave you with wonder.

#TheUnseenTruth #HalloweenEpisode #ParanormalStories #NearDeathExperience #RealStories #Podcast

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We’re all screwed up. Some are just more screwed up than others.

A lesson from a Macy’s manager at age 21 became a truth that took me decades to understand. This episode is about the difference between mercy and grace—and how we can forgive people without pretending what happened was okay.

In this episode:

• 🧠 Why “we’re all broken” should never become an excuse
• 🙏 Mercy: not getting what we deserve
• ✨ Grace: receiving goodness we did not earn
• 🧱 Why boundaries and forgiveness can coexist
• 🪞 The hardest person to extend grace to: the one in the mirror
• 💬 How to stop keeping score and start seeing people as human

You can hold a line without holding a grudge.

You can forgive someone completely—and still know better than to hand them the same access again.

Because we are all still becoming.

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🎙️ Learn What Life Is About

At thirteen, sitting in the car with his mom and feeling like life had personally betrayed him, Joffrey heard words he would spend the rest of his life trying to understand:

“Some people will go their entire life and never learn what life is about.”

From Zack Morris aura and Orange Julius dreams to losing his dad, becoming a father, chasing success, and discovering that “happy moments” can end up on monthly payments. This episode is a unfiltered and honest look at the difference between looking like you’re living… and actually learning how to live.

In this episode:

🚗 The wisdom his mom gave him in a car at thirteen
🎸 Why growing up isn’t the same as figuring life out
🕳️ Why opinions are like potholes and how they can throw off your alignment
💥 Owning your mistakes without letting your mistakes own you
📞 Why your calling is yours and you’re the only one who can pick up that call

You won’t get a signed permission slip from life. You have to move. You have to try. You have to fail forward.

The Unseen Truth: You may never have every answer, but you can still have the courage to live your answer.

If this episode made you think of someone still trying to figure out what life is about, send it to them. 🤍

#TheUnseenTruth #LifeLessons #Purpose #Calling #Faith #PersonalGrowth #Podcast #FailForward #Alignment

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Have you ever felt like everyone else is getting what they want. Stop scrolling and start listening. 

🐶🐘 The dog had puppies—again and again.

The elephant was still carrying.

Not because nothing was happening…

But because what she was carrying was bigger.

In this rapid-fire Unseen Truth, we talk about:

• Why someone else’s quick win doesn’t mean you’re behind
• The difference between being delayed and being developed
• Why big dreams require a bigger version of you
• How to stop comparing your process to someone else’s timeline
• The reminder you may need today: your dream may be taking longer because it was never meant to be common

Don’t rush what God is growing in you. Keep carrying it. ✨

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🎧 The Song That Still Lingers

What happens when an old song comes on… and suddenly you are 16 again?

On a late-night drive home, with his kids asleep in the back seat, Joffrey’s playlist becomes a time machine. Each song take him from first loves and Hollywood drives to beach days, career ambitions, trips with his dad, loss, family, and the man he is still becoming.

This is a birthday reflection on the songs, people, pain, and joy that become the ingredients of a life.

In this episode:

• 🚗 The songs that take us back to who we used to be
• 🎶 First loves, late-night drives, and the magic of being young
• 👨‍👦 A father-and-son soundtrack—and why ordinary moments become sacred
• 💼 What happens when you finally get what you worked for
• 🌀 The labyrinth of life: twists, detours, loss, growth, and discovery
• ✨ Why remembering the past does not mean living there
• 🙏 Faith that your best days—and your next favorite song—may still be ahead

Some things do not have to linger.

But maybe some things are worth letting linger.

Happy birthday. 🎂

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Have you ever felt sick and tired of being taken for granted?

You show up 100 times—but somehow, the only time anyone remembers is the one time you didn’t.

That’s the Baseline Myth: the more consistently you give, the easier it becomes for others to stop seeing it as a gift and start treating it as the minimum.

In this raw and surprisingly funny episode of The Unseen Truth, we explore:

• 🍽️ Why feeding someone every day can create expectation—not appreciation
• 🏰 How Disneyland becomes “So…what are we doing tomorrow?”
• 💸 When a special dinner at Morton’s becomes the new entry fee
• ❤️ The difference between a difficult moment and a destructive pattern
• 🚧 How to give with boundaries without becoming bitter
• 🔄 What happened when the shoe landed on the other foot
• 🙏 Why being justified in saying no doesn’t always make no the right decision

Sometimes protecting yourself is necessary.

But sometimes resentment disguises itself as self-protection, and we withhold kindness just to make someone finally feel our absence.

The action you take may not change them.

But it might change you.

Listen before you cancel Morton’s, choose Applebee’s, or ask Joffrey to buy you another cinnamon churro. 😏

🎧 Listen now—and share this with someone whose kindness has quietly become expected.

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It started with a few dollars outside an AMPM in Anaheim.

It ended with Pitbull, pickle juice, Viagra, and one of the strangest health consultations I've ever received. 😂

But somewhere in the middle of laughing, I realized something:

I thought I was the giver in this story. Turns out, I was supporting cast.

In this episode of The Unseen Truth, we talk about:

💵 The moment that made me turn around after initially walking past

🌎 How a homeless man from New York somehow decided I looked like Pitbull

🥒 Why he prescribed pickle juice to “keep my shape”

😂 The health advice I definitely wasn't expecting

👀 How quickly we assign people roles based on what they have, what they do, or where they are in life

🙏 Why God sometimes hides valuable lessons in people and places we overlook

❤️ The difference between helping someone and actually seeing them

Sometimes the person holding out their hand isn't the only person receiving something.

Sometimes you think you're the main character…

only to discover you were supporting cast in someone else's story.

And sometimes?

Pickle juice is just pickle juice.

But don't miss the message because you misjudged the messenger.

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What if the thing you’re searching for… is something you already have?

We spend so much of life chasing what’s next that we can become blind to what’s already in front of us.

In this episode of The Unseen Truth, we unpack a powerful old story about love, loss, familiarity, and the things we don’t fully appreciate until they begin to disappear.

🎧 In this episode:

• Why what was once new eventually becomes normal...and what becomes normal becomes numb
• The heartbreaking story of a husband who learns to see his wife again when it may already be too late
• Why familiarity can quietly make us stop noticing the people we love
• How “I’ll do it tomorrow” steals moments we can never get back
• Why some of the things we complain about today are things someone else is praying for
• The question that could completely change the way you look at your life: What have I stopped noticing?

❤️ Your children.
🏠 Your home.
🙏 Your health.
📞 The person who still calls.
🐾 The dog waiting at the door.
🤝 The hand that still reaches for yours.

One day, today’s ordinary life will become a memory.

So notice it while it’s here.

Because what was once new becomes normal…
and what becomes normal can become numb.

Hold on to what you have now, so it doesn’t become just a sad memory in a song.

🎙️ Listen now, and if this episode makes you think of someone, send it to them.

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The Lost Art of Being Still

🚗 What if the answer you've been searching for isn't found in another podcast, another book, another relationship, or another breakthrough...

...but in five minutes of silence?

In this deeply personal episode, Joffrey takes you back to a childhood road trip—an Oldsmobile, a Frank Sinatra cassette, and a quiet desert highway—where boredom became the birthplace of imagination.

From a line at Knott's Berry Farm to Elijah's cave in 1 Kings, this episode explores why we're so uncomfortable with stillness, why we're constantly reaching for the next distraction, and how God often speaks not through the noise—but through the whisper.

If you've been feeling overwhelmed, distracted, anxious, or spiritually distant... this conversation might be exactly what your soul has been waiting for.

✨ In this episode:

• 🚗 A childhood memory that changed the way I think about silence
• 📱 Why constant distraction is stealing more than just your attention
• 🧠 What boredom can teach us that entertainment never will
• ⛰️ The powerful lesson from Elijah's cave in 1 Kings 19
• 🤍 Why God wasn't in the wind, the earthquake, or the fire
• 🙏 A simple five-minute practice to reconnect with God and yourself
• 🌅 How stillness can bring clarity, peace, and purpose back into your life

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Sometimes the loudest answers...

are found in the quietest moments.

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Sometimes five quiet minutes...

can change everything.

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