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  • He Didn’t Feel Ready. God Called Him Anyway with Dan Parr

    In This Episode, You Will Learn

     

    • Why Dan calls himself a reluctant Bible publisher and narrator
    • How God used loss, disruption, and uncertainty to redirect his life
    • What reading the Bible out loud revealed about the love and character of God
    • Why grace can be harder to receive than people think
    • How Scripture became a lifeline instead of just a project
    • What to do when you feel spiritually tired or far from God
    • Why prayer, the Word, and Christian fellowship still matter so much
    • How to stay faithful when you do not feel qualified
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      Time Stamps

      00:00 Intro and why this conversation is for the weary

      00:28 Meet Dan Parr and the scope of the Bible project

      01:35 The story of Dan’s mother choosing life

      04:49 A flood, an unexpected gift, and the road back to church

      06:54 “The Bible read me” and Dan’s turning point

      08:21 Learning grace instead of trying to repay love

      10:20 Reluctance, self-doubt, and obeying anyway

      14:23 What reading Scripture out loud taught Dan about God

      16:36 Why this became a lifeline, not just a literary project

      17:16 Losing a Fortune 500 career three weeks before Christmas

      19:35 How Dan’s media background prepared him for this calling

      21:12 What walking by faith has looked like in real life

      22:43 What to do when you are tired, drifting, or need to come back

      24:48 Where to find Dan and the Easy to Understand, Read Bible


       

      Key Takeaways

      • God often calls people who do not feel qualified
      • Grace is a gift, not something you pay back
      • Scripture does more than inform you. It exposes, heals, and redirects you
      • From Genesis to Revelation, God keeps making a way back to Himself
      • Loss can become the doorway into calling
      • When your faith feels worn out, start simple
      • Prayer, God’s Word, and Christian community are still the basic anchors
      • Obedience does not always feel dramatic. Sometimes it just looks like staying faithful today

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        Connect with Dan Parr

         

        🌐 Website: https://www.parrdanmevoices.com

        🎧 Listen to the Easy to Understand, Read Bible on Audible: https://www.audible.com/author/Dan-Parr/B0C9H1C21Q

        📱 Social: LinkedIn


         

         

        Connect with Jim

        🌐 Website: http://www.leadwithjim.com

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        28 min
      • Busy Isn’t the Same as Productive with Mister Productivity™

        In This Episode, You Will Learn

         

        • Why overwhelm is often bigger than a time management problem
        • How Mister Productivity™ defines productivity in real life, not internet life
        • Why you need your own definition of productivity for your current season
        • How to stop defaulting to “I can’t” before you have even tried
        • A simple analog way to reduce distraction and protect your focus
        • Why rest can be productive too
        • How to tell the difference between being busy and actually moving forward
        • Why reading the Word before touching your phone changes the tone of your day
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          Time Stamps

           

          00:00 Intro: Faith and focus in a distracted generation

          00:57 What Mister Productivity™ actually helps people do
          01:58 How Mister Productivity™ got started
          04:33 When productivity became more than to-do lists and apps
          07:11 The first step for people who feel scattered
          08:35 Defining productivity in seasons of illness or limitation
          10:55 Stop defaulting to “I can’t”
          15:33 The easiest way to fight distraction is to go analog
          19:17 What to do when you are not feeling it
          21:52 Busy is not the same as productive
          23:12 How Mister Productivity™ stays grounded in Christ
          25:42 Where to connect with Mister Productivity™

           

          Key Takeaways

           

          • Productivity is personal, and it has to fit your real life
          • You do not have to copy somebody else’s system to make progress
          • “I can’t” is often a default response, not a proven fact
          • Writing things down on paper can help break the cycle of digital distraction
          • Sometimes stopping is wiser than forcing bad work
          • Being busy and being productive are not the same thing
          • For believers, staying grounded starts with prayer and the Word
          •  

            Connect with Michael Struczewski A.K.A. Mister Productivity™


            🌐 Website: ⁠https://misterproductivity.com/ 

            📱 Social: ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠YouTube,⁠ ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn, X.com, ⁠TikTok

            💪 Free Productivity Scorecard: Available on his website

            🎤 Podcast: The Mister Productivity™ Podcast


             

             

            Connect with Jim

            🌐 Website: http://www.leadwithjim.com

            🎙️ Ask a Question: https://www.leadwithjim.com/ask

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            29 min
          • If You Never Heal It, It Will Show Up in How You Lead with with Greg Woodard

            In This Episode, You Will Learn

            • Why self-awareness is one of the foundations of healthy leadership
            • How personality, wiring, and past experiences affect the way you lead
            • What happens when trauma goes unaddressed in a leader’s life
            • Why unhealthy inner wounds always spill into relationships
            • How Greg built sustainable rhythms during high-pressure military service
            • The difference between spiritual practices for others and spiritual care for yourself
            • Why leaders must protect their own soul instead of waiting for someone else to do it
            • How perfectionism and fear keep people from moving forward
            • Why action matters more than endless preparation when it comes to growth
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              Time Stamps

               

              00:00 Intro and why internal leadership matters

              00:27 Meet Greg Woodard and his background in military chaplaincy

              02:58 Greg’s new book, Leadership From Within

              03:46 The gap between who you are and how you lead

              04:20 Why knowing your wiring matters in leadership

              06:25 Tools like DISC, Enneagram, StrengthsFinder, and self-awareness

              07:19 How childhood experiences and attachment shape adult leadership

              09:05 Trauma, unhealed wounds, and the impact on relationships and leadership

              12:53 Self-imposed pressure, transition, and slowing down after military life

              15:30 Walking, reflection, and making space for healthier rhythms

              16:48 Why Jesus modeled a slower, more intentional pace

              17:36 Why leaders must prioritize their own soul care

              18:42 Greg’s framework for rhythms and sustainable leadership

              20:15 The four rhythms: relational, physical, emotional, and spiritual

              22:15 False rhythms and doing spiritual work for others while neglecting yourself

              22:56 What to do when you feel stuck, limited, or afraid

              23:24 Why leaders have to move before clarity fully comes

              24:27 Perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and finishing what you start

              26:16 Where to connect with Greg and learn more about the book

               

              Key Takeaways

               

              • Healthy leadership starts with knowing yourself.
              • Your personality, past, and wiring affect how you lead.
              • Trauma that is never addressed will leak into leadership and relationships.
              • Sustainable leadership requires intentional rhythms.
              • Leaders must care for their own soul instead of waiting for permission.
              • Spiritual activity is not the same as spiritual health.
              • Perfectionism can quietly keep you stuck.
              • Sometimes the next step is not more thinking. It is movement.
              •  

                Connect with Greg Woodard

                🌐 Website: https://www.gregwoodard.com/leadership-from-within 

                📱 Social: ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn,⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ ⁠


                 

                 

                Connect with Jim

                🌐 Website: http://www.leadwithjim.com

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                Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leadwithjim

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                29 min
              • I Thought Hating Myself Would Change Me with Jonathan McLernon

                 

                In This Episode, You Will Learn

                 

                • Why emotional eating is often about pain, not food
                • How shame can keep self-sabotage alive for years
                • What Jonathan means by being a “cerebral Christian”
                • Why a distorted view of God can block real healing
                • The difference between behavior control and heart-level change
                • Why compassion felt dangerous to Jonathan at first
                • The question that exposed the root of his self-hatred
                • How small actions can begin rebuilding self-worth
                • Why progressive healing is more realistic than instant change
                •  

                  Time Stamps

                   

                  00:00 Intro: The brain, the body, and healing

                  00:43 Meet Jonathan McLernon and the work he does

                  03:16 Trauma, gifts, and the suffering that reshaped his life

                  05:12 What it means to be a “cerebral Christian”

                  07:23 Moving faith from the head to the heart

                  12:54 When coping mechanisms stop helping you cope

                  14:41 Why willpower and tight control kept failing

                  17:08 Why compassion felt soft, risky, and unsafe

                  19:13 The question that changed everything

                  21:04 “He gave him a robe, not a straitjacket”

                  22:16 How to begin healing when you do not have support

                  23:40 The power of small actions that rebuild worth

                  26:14 Why healing is usually progressive, not instant

                  27:00 Near-death trauma, betrayal, and rebuilding again

                  29:19 Jonathan’s “x-ray vision” and seeing people’s potential

                   

                  Key Takeaways

                   

                  • You cannot shame yourself into lasting change.
                  • Emotional eating and addiction are rarely just about the behavior.
                  • A harsh inner world often hides under high performance.
                  • More control is not always the answer. Sometimes it is the trap.
                  • Compassion is not weakness. It is often the doorway to healing.
                  • Small actions can begin changing a deeply damaged identity.
                  • Faith can stay trapped in the mind when the heart still fears God.
                  • Healing usually happens step by step, not all at once.
                  • People need understanding more than condemnation.

                  •  

                    Connect with Jonathan McLernon

                     

                    🌐 Website: https://jonathanmclernon.substack.com/

                    📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/BTBA_podcast

                    ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BTBA_podcast


                     

                     

                    Connect with Jim

                    🌐 Website: http://www.leadwithjim.com

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                    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leadwithjim

                    Support & Engage with the Show

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                    34 min
                  • How to Fight for Your Teen When They’re Falling Apart with Jenn Robb

                     

                    In This Episode, You Will Learn

                    • How to recognize when a teen’s struggle is more than “just a phase”
                    • Why moms often lose themselves while trying to save their child
                    • What healthy advocacy looks like during a mental health crisis
                    • Why finding the right counselor matters more than finding the fastest one
                    • How to support your child without forcing them to tell you everything
                    • Why self-care is necessary for caregivers, not optional
                    • What surrendering control to God can look like in a real crisis
                    • How faith can hold when your family is walking through pain
                    •  

                      Time Stamps

                      00:00 Intro

                      00:18 Meet Jenn Robb and her background in medicine

                      01:08 Her daughter’s mental health struggle begins

                      02:53 Trauma, depression, PTSD, and anxiety hit hard

                      03:39 Why mothers often become the voice for their child

                      04:31 Warning signs that it was more than a phase

                      06:28 How Jenn almost lost herself trying to keep her daughter alive

                      07:14 Why you cannot pour from an empty cup

                      08:20 Jenn shares the heart behind Warrior Mom Rising

                      10:06 Where God was in the middle of the crisis

                      10:51 The moment Jenn realized she had to surrender control

                      12:38 Wrestling with anger, pain, and trusting God

                      13:33 Finding purpose in pain

                      15:01 Helping a child live, trust, and keep faith after trauma

                      17:14 The lies moms tell themselves in the middle of the battle

                      19:39 The first steps for moms whose child is struggling right now

                      20:40 Why the right counselor matters so much

                      21:27 Why parents do not need to know everything said in therapy

                      22:51 The “mousse cake” code word and a practical support tool

                      24:27 Does the counselor need to be Christian?

                      26:22 How this journey changed Jenn’s prayer life

                      27:47 Where to find Jenn, her book, and free resources

                       

                      Key Takeaways

                       

                      • A child’s mental health crisis can quickly become a caregiver crisis too.
                      • Losing interest in what they once loved can be a major warning sign.
                      • Moms often carry guilt that does not belong to them.
                      • You can advocate hard for your child without trying to control every detail.
                      • The right therapist fit matters more than choosing the first available option.
                      • Your child needs a safe place, not constant pressure to explain everything.
                      • Taking care of yourself helps you care for your child better.
                      • Surrender is not quitting. It is trusting God while still doing your part.
                      •  

                        Connect with Jenn Robb

                        🌐 Website: ⁠https://warriormomcoach.net/ 

                        📱 Social: ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Threads,⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ , Pinterest

                        📘 Book: Warrior Mom Rising 🎁 Free resources: Tips for finding the right counselor and tools to help moms feel more equipped


                         

                         

                        Connect with Jim

                        🌐 Website: http://www.leadwithjim.com

                        🎙️ Ask a Question: https://www.leadwithjim.com/ask

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                        Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leadwithjim

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                        31 min
                      • When Your Whole Life Changes Overnight: Rebuilding After Loss with Michelle Bader Ebersole

                        In This Episode, You Will Learn

                        • Why grief is not only about death, but any major loss or life change
                        • What to say, and what not to say, to someone who is grieving
                        • Why healing is not about time alone, but what you do with the time
                        • How Michelle moved from widowhood into purpose-driven ministry
                        • The difference between stuffing grief and actually processing it
                        • Why faith does not erase pain, but can steady you through it
                        • How Widow Goals is helping widows survive, heal, and thrive
                        • Why churches need to do more to support widows and grieving families
                        •  

                          Time Stamps

                          00:00 Intro to grief, healing, and rebuilding life after loss

                          00:35 Michelle shares who she is and the mission behind Widow Goals

                          01:34 Michelle’s background in entrepreneurship and teaching

                          05:03 The emotional shift from a vibrant life into grief and loss

                          05:50 Luke’s cancer story, amputation, and the family’s long road through illness

                          08:13 Raising children while facing terminal cancer in the home

                          10:48 Jim asks about faith, bitterness, and blaming God

                          11:30 Michelle shares the moment God reframed her pain through the idea of being chosen

                          13:27 What not to say to someone who is grieving

                          16:38 Why grief support needs to be practical, specific, and present

                          18:32 The turning point from personal pain to serving other widows

                          19:03 How the Widowed Too Soon podcast and Widow Goals nonprofit began

                          21:29 Why grief does not heal just because time passes

                          22:12 What grief work actually looks like

                          23:36 Michelle explains her book, workbook, and church support program

                          25:10 A challenge to churches to better care for widows

                          26:20 Where to find Michelle, her books, podcast, and local groups

                           

                          Key Takeaways

                          • Grief changes your life, but it does not have to end your purpose
                          • Time by itself does not heal grief
                          • People need presence and practical help more than empty phrases
                          • Faith can hold you steady even when life makes no sense
                          • Healing requires honesty, not suppression
                          • What you feel, God can heal
                          • Widows need real community, not silence
                          • Pain can become ministry when it is surrendered and stewarded well

                          • Connect with Michelle Bader Ebersole

                             

                            🌐 Website: WidowGoals.org 

                            🎙️ Podcast: Widowed 2 Soon 

                            📚 Book: Widow Goals 

                            📱 Social: Facebook, Youtube, Tiktok, Instagram


                             

                             

                            Connect with Jim

                            🌐 Website: http://www.leadwithjim.com

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                            📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leadwithjim

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                            Thanks for listening!

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                            29 min
                          • Survival Mode Made This Feel Normal with Mark Dolfini

                             

                            In This Episode, You Will Learn

                            • Why “smart + hardworking” can become a trap without discernment
                            • The difference between work-life balance and work-life harmony
                            • How Mark’s business collapse led to a near-death wake-up call
                            • Why delegation often fails when pride, fear, or survival mode is driving
                            • How personal vision becomes the “circuit breaker” for everything else
                            • Why low self-worth makes vision work feel impossible for some people
                            • A simple way to think about your future that does not feel overwhelming
                            •  

                              Time Stamps:

                              00:00 Intro: When business starts stealing your life 

                              01:27 Meet Mark Dolfini: Marine, entrepreneur, strategist 
                              03:50 The “bare minimum” years and the early strategy mindset 
                              05:53 Navigation, discipline, and why details started to matter 
                              07:45 Quietly drowning in activity: 92 rentals and too many fires 
                              09:05 The real problem: no discernment, no delegation 
                              11:42 The revenue drop and survival mode taking over 
                              13:24 Hospital story: “I literally worked myself to death” 
                              16:20 The wake-up moment that forced boundaries and clarity 
                              19:31 Where do you start if you cannot slow down? 
                              20:19 Low self-worth and why vision can feel impossible 
                              21:51 A better approach than a “100th birthday speech” 
                              23:19 Marriage, faith, and putting God back in the center 
                              25:30 How to connect with Mark and the book offer 
                              27:21 The core warning: business vision without personal vision


                               

                              Key Takeaways

                              • Smart entrepreneurs often assume every problem is theirs to solve. That mindset creates burnout fast.
                              • Discernment is not optional. It is how you decide what you do, what you delay, and what you hand off.
                              • You cannot build a healthy business if you never learn to value your time correctly.
                              • Survival mode will make you proud of things that are actually destroying you.
                              • Personal vision comes first. Otherwise, you end up building a life that serves the business.
                              • Low self-worth makes “vision work” feel threatening rather than inspiring, and it needs to be addressed with care.
                              • Faith is not a side note here. For Mark, it is the starting point for clarity, identity, and direction.
                              •  

                                Connect with Mark Dolfini

                                 

                                🌐 Website: ⁠https://strategicboardroom.com 

                                📱 Social: ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠LinkedIn⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠ 

                                🎁 Special offer mentioned in the episode:
                                https://strategicboardroom.com/unshakable (“The Time Wealthy Advantage” + guides + a 30-minute conversation)


                                 

                                 

                                Connect with Jim

                                🌐 Website: http://www.leadwithjim.com

                                🎙️ Ask a Question: https://www.leadwithjim.com/ask

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                                31 min
                              • You Can Forgive Someone and Still Not Trust Them with Donna Tashjian

                                 

                                In This Episode, You Will Learn

                                • What Donna means by a “hidden leader”
                                • How to handle being minimized without becoming resentful
                                • Why forgiveness is not trust, not access, and not a feeling
                                • How unforgiveness can keep you trapped in trauma and limit your growth
                                • What it looks like to partner with the Holy Spirit in deeper healing
                                • Why self-forgiveness is often the first step forward
                                • Three practical ways to begin moving from pain into purpose
                                •  

                                  Chapters:

                                  00:00 Intro 

                                  00:45 Meet Donna Tashjian and Vibrant Living International 
                                  01:23 What is a hidden leader? 
                                  03:53 How to stay free from resentment when others minimize you 
                                  07:21 Misconceptions about forgiveness 
                                  08:35 Why forgiveness is not trust or emotion 
                                  12:37 Partnering with the Holy Spirit in healing 
                                  14:00 Forgiveness as layers and deeper freedom 
                                  17:15 How unforgiveness affects purpose, identity, and success 
                                  20:27 First steps for getting unstuck 
                                  23:26 Where to find Donna and her free gift

                                   

                                  Key Takeaways

                                  • Forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling.
                                  • Forgiveness is not the same as trust or restored access.
                                  • Unforgiveness can keep you tied to pain and disconnected from purpose.
                                  • Triggers may reveal a deeper layer of healing God wants to do.
                                  • Self-forgiveness, surrender, and support are often the first steps forward.
                                  •  

                                    Connect with Donna Tashjian

                                    🌐 Website: https://www.ivibrantliving.com/ 

                                    📱 Social: Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook 
                                    🎁 Free gift: “Walking From Pain Into Purpose” (message Donna on social to receive it)


                                     

                                     

                                    Connect with Jim

                                    🌐 Website: http://www.leadwithjim.com

                                    🎙️ Ask a Question: https://www.leadwithjim.com/ask

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                                    26 min
                                  • Why Success Can Hide Spiritual Burnout with Jason Heinritz

                                    In This Episode, You Will Learn:

                                    • What it looks like when God interrupts worldly success
                                    • How to recognize when achievement becomes identity
                                    • Why surrender brings peace that striving never can
                                    • How Sabbath, boundaries, and morning rhythms reshape a life
                                    • What to do when faith feels dull or stagnant
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                                      🌐 Website: WakeUpJesusPeople.com 

                                      📘 Book: Wake Up Jesus People 

                                      🔥 40 Forge Challenge 

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                                      27 min
                                    • When God Asks You to Lay It Down (And Gives You Nothing Next) with Anna McLaughlin

                                      In This Episode, You Will Learn:

                                      • First-Generation Faith & Breaking Cycles
                                      • When God Asks You to Lay It Down
                                      • The Hidden Grief of Obedience
                                      • Identity: Who You Are vs. What You Build
                                      • Deep vs. Wide Impact
                                      • Pruning, Waiting, and Trusting God’s Timing
                                      • Resilience in the Quiet Seasons
                                      •  

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                                        🎙️ Podcast: Overwhelmed to Overcomer

                                         📺 YouTube: Anna McLaughlin


                                         

                                         

                                        Connect with Jim

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                                        31 min

                                      About The Unshakable Life

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                                      Do you feel called to make a huge impact—to lead, create, and build what God has put on your heart—but find yourself feeling stuck, scattered, or spiritually off track?