The Upshot: A Podcast for Dads Who Try

In this episode of "The Upshot," Jeremy, Kyle, and Shane dive into an often-overlooked topic: the significance of friendship for fathers. While it might seem like a lesser priority, building and maintaining strong relationships with other men is crucial for a dad’s well-being. The trio explores the challenges dads face in forming deep connections, the value of vulnerability in friendships, and how these bonds can be a lifeline in navigating fatherhood. Tune in as they discuss why every dad needs community and how cultivating meaningful friendships can positively impact your life as a father.

In this episode of The Upshot we sit down with Buck Giebelhaus, Lead Pastor of Northpoint Church, to explore the critical role of emotional health in fatherhood. Buck shares his journey of understanding and prioritizing his emotions and how it has impacted his relationship with his sons. He discusses practical strategies for fathers to maintain emotional health and the ripple effects it can have on the entire family. Join us as Buck delves into the importance of self-awareness, vulnerability, and emotional health in becoming a better dad.

In this episode of "The Upshot," we talk with Ryan Lehman about the value of raising kids in the great outdoors. Ryan shares how his mother's final days battling cancer inspired his family to explore parks and natural areas around central Texas. He discusses their decision to prioritize outdoor living and the benefits it brings, especially in a world dominated by screens. Join us as Ryan reveals how these experiences have shaped their family life and the lessons they've learned along the way.

In this episode, we’re thrilled to have Jason Perkins join us to share

On this month's podcast, we are joined by Chris McSorely. A man normally behind the scenes but put on the spot (after being recommended by so many) to share his fathering wisdom. He tells the story of what it was like becoming a dad when he didn't have an example of his own growing up and what it means to win with daughters. Get ready, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you get it right as a dad, in whatever situation or season you find yourself in.

Welcome back dads! In episode 13, we are joined by friend Brandon Rogers. Brandon and his wife Jenn have their own following on Youtube that documents their life journey from Seoul to Maui to Austin while beginning a family. After beginning to settle in Austin, their life took a turn when their new daughter Izzy was diagnosed with an unexpected and rare illness. Brandon shares this painful story with an incredible vulnerability that opens the door for all of us to learn and apply his insight in our own lives as we face unexpected situations in parenthood. We hope his story inspires you as a dad!

In Episode 011 of the Upshot, we are joined by the better halves of our hosts: Jessica Watson & Alana Norcross. One of the most powerful questions we can ask as fathers is: What is it like on the other side of me? Alana & Jessica share their insights on what it is like as moms on the other side of us dads. Lean into what they have to say because part of getting it right as dads, is recognizing our blind spots and leaning into the wisdom given to us from our partners.

Welcome to the Upshot! In this episode, we are joined by a good friend & expectant father, Jordan Geist. As of the recording of this podcast, his first baby is due in just a few days! Jordan shares his perspective on what he has observed in his journey of becoming a father, what he has experienced, heard and learned from other dads in this process and insight from years in student ministry, learning parenting lessons while listening to high school students and their own stories with their parents. Whether you are a brand new dad or you've been a father for years, Jordan shares some great stuff here. Join us as we celebrate him stepping into fatherhood!

Welcome to The Upshot Podcast! In this episode, Shane and Kyle, along with guest Jeremy, explore the pivotal role of fatherhood in children's lives, sharing real-life anecdotes and insights. From the impact of absent fathers to practical tips for intentional parenting, this episode provides a poignant look into fostering emotional availability, creating secure environments, and engaging with teenagers. Join us as we uncover the keys to nurturing thriving homes and meaningful family connections. Subscribe and engage with us as we continue to explore the profound impact of intentional fatherhood.

Timeline:

• 00:00 Introduction

• 05:26 The playscape climb.

• 13:01 Chaotic Christmas Eve games at mother-in-law's.

• 19:14 Prioritizing family time leads to child flourishing.

• 24:33 Recognizing and managing emotions to avoid projection.

• 30:29 Struggling with emotional availability in relationships and life.

• 35:58 Communication challenges between fathers and teenage sons.

• 42:10 Holiday stress is relieved with family moments.

• 43:13 Memories of home and time together.

• 50:56 Kids' environment starts with parental relationship foundation.

• 55:58 Creating meaningful family rituals for quality time.

• 59:32 Prioritizing exercise helps me decompress effectively.

In this episode Shane and Kyle, along with guest Adam Ulatoski, explore the power of traditional rituals and ceremonies in shaping our boys' lives. From childhood experiences to organizing meaningful moments for their kids, they discussed how intentional markers guide boys through different stages of becoming a man. It's not just about masculinity, but about developing truly impactful and strong character traits.

Timeline:

• [00:06:13] Dad moments.

• [00:11:42] Chaotic dad moment.

• [00:15:29] Weekend trip with group of guys.

• [00:17:10] Directions given, problems encountered, failure to act.

• [00:22:15] Boys on journey to becoming knights, and transitions in life.

• [00:26:58] Supporting, coaching, and community are key.

• [00:33:51] Having conversations about following Christ and reflecting on meaningful rites of passage to manhood.

• [00:39:45] Important moment when sons become independent adults.

• [00:45:13] Men working towards common goal.

• [00:47:50] Be a loving, protective, honorable man for your daughters.

• [00:52:19] "Don't dismiss a book based on disagreements."