Valentine’s Day can feel romantic… or really overwhelming.In this episode, we talk about the pressure behind February 14th — the expectations, the disappointments, and the silent resentment that can build when needs go unspoken. Why does one day carry so much weight in marriage? And how can couples shift from performance to presence?We unpack:• Why unspoken expectations lead to hurt• How fear of “getting it wrong” creates distance• Why comparison (especially on social media) makes it worse• How to actually celebrate love in a meaningful wayValentine’s Day doesn’t define your marriage — but it can reveal where you need connection, communication, and growth.If you don’t know your Enneagram type, take our free assessment on our website.Website: https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/Merch: https://imperfectlymarriedpodcast.com/storeInstagram: imperfectlymarried_thepodcastTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@imperfectly_married