The Vary Necessary Podcast

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von 

Is it REAL LOVE… or are you just somebody’s rebound?

Getting into a new relationship after a breakup can feel exciting, but what happens when your ex is still living rent-free in your mind? Are you genuinely ready to love someone new, or are you using a new person to help you get over the old one?

On this episodeYoshi and Von visit the Relationship Status Podcast for an unfiltered, hilarious, and sometimes TOXIC conversation about starting over after a breakup.

We’re talking about rebound relationships, emotional baggage, exes who refuse to leave the past in the past, and the red flags people ignore when they want a relationship to work. Is moving on quickly a sign that you’ve found your person, or does it mean you’re afraid to be alone?

And you already know we couldn’t have this conversation without turning up the toxicity! Get ready for messy relationship scenarios, brutally honest opinions, and advice that might hurt your feelings—but somebody needs to say it!

THE ADVICE LETTER: THE POSSIBLE PLACEHOLDER

One listener thinks they may be dating someone who hasn’t fully moved on from their ex. He calls every day, wants to spend time together, and talks about a future—but he still checks his ex’s social media, gets emotional when he sees her, and compares his new partner to the woman before her.

Is the listener being insecure, or are they somebody’s rebound? Should they give the relationship more time or RUN?

Yoshi and Von bring the heat with their unfiltered responses, while Yusuf challenges them to consider whether someone can be over an ex without completely disconnecting from their past.

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On this week's episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast,  the ladies check in  discussing their week, coworkers, cartoons,  and naps? It's  officially Scorpio season!  A Vary Happy birthday  to Yosh with the Most!  Listen as Yoshie talks about why her sign is the best sign!
The ladies talk alittle sports talk. Sue pulls in our engineer who has a better insight on the topic of basketball. 
Breaking News..... there has been a change in the cuffing season schedule. Von, Yoshie, and Sue disect the new changes and talk about what is expected during the season. Is it even necessary to have a season. What happen to just dating?  For now, let the cuffing begin!

We’re taking it ALL the way back to one of those episodes you definitely don’t want to miss! ️

On this week’s re-airing of The Vary Necessary Podcast, the ladies of VNP needed Benson & Stabler from SVU because BABY… things got REAL!

The trio traveled to the Queen City to support local talent at a comedy show—and let’s just say Von was VIOLATED! Tune in as the ladies break down what happened and give their unfiltered point of view.

At the end of the day: RESPECT PEOPLE’S BOUNDARIES!

One time for the Mighty Men of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc. as the ladies showed their support during the 83rd Grand Conclave! The ladies definitely had a TIME that night!

And wait… Glodine reunited with Gerald!

Plus, the ladies dive into the question: What are some things that make you say, “Okay… you’ve gone too far”? From television and radio to everything in between, VNP keeps the conversation going about the things that have crossed the line.

Missed it the first time? Here’s your chance to catch it again!

Tune in, laugh with us, and tell us what YOU think!

Send the ladies your thoughts!

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von 

This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast, we finally welcome our new friend Angel aka “Kim” from last week’s episode We sit down for a candid conversation about marriage, divorce, starting over, and what it looks like to be single, free, and living life in your 40s.

And then there’s dating… Chile, it’s no longer a dating pool. It’s a SWAMP.  We talk about learning to enjoy your own company, embracing the freedom that comes with doing life on your own terms, and realizing that being alone doesn’t necessarily mean being lonely.

Because sometimes you’re perfectly capable of doing life alone…

But just in case you want a little company every now and then, that’s alright too

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Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von 

In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we examine beauty standards, body confidence, and what society considers desirable in 2026.

Whether a woman is a size 6 or a size 26, is she valued for who she is or placed into a category? Is the bigger woman only seen as a good time while the smaller woman is treated like the trophy?

We also discuss men who leave successful, attractive women for someone with fewer resources, more baggage, and no clear direction…yet somehow view her as the greater prize. Is peace more valuable than potential? Does constantly pushing someone to be better eventually make you less desirable to them?

We wrap up with a quick take on Why Did I Get Married Again? and what it says about relationships, standards, and the choices people make.

And stay tuned…a guest may be joining us next week.

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In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, Von’s trip to Jamaica sparks a bigger conversation about perspective, privilege, and the belief that life must be better somewhere else in other countries.

Tourists see paradise, while some locals see limited opportunity. Americans dream about leaving the U.S., while people elsewhere dream about getting here. We discuss the value of the U.S. dollar, foreign ownership, access to basic resources, jobs, and how where you stand can completely change what “better” looks like.

Whether it’s greener on the other side or not… perspective is ultimately what decides this.

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In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we ask: How much do you invest in someone’s potential before realizing they’re not investing in themselves? Time, money, resources, and opportunities mean nothing if the person receiving them isn’t appreciative or willing to do the work. Discernment is knowing the difference between helping someone build and allowing them to ride your wave. And accountability goes both ways: the person taking advantage and the person who keeps investing despite the signs. What are you building as your legacy and are you helping someone build theirs, or becoming their legacy?

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In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we talk about when providing financially becomes a substitute for actually showing up. What happens when someone wants the relationship and family but still wants the freedom, priorities, and independence of single life? Money, gifts, and grand gestures may fill some gaps, but they can’t replace time, consistency, reliability, or emotional presence. Is it generosity or overcompensation for the parts of the relationship you never really wanted?

The conversation may vary…but it’s definitely necessary.

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On this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we unpack solitude, loneliness, isolation, and the importance of your state of mind Being alone doesn’t automatically mean something is missing. Sometimes it means you’ve finally learned that protecting your peace is necessary. and becoming comfortable with your own company.

Getting older is inevitable; how we choose to move through it is another story. Age may change the rules, but it doesn’t have to take you out of the game.

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On this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we’re talking about what aging gracefully really looks like and it’s about much more than appearance. From surgery versus exercise and physical wellness to Pilates, kickboxing, salsa, pole dancing, flexibility, and finding a fitness routine that actually fits your life, we’re exploring how staying active changes as we get older.

Getting older is inevitable; how we choose to move through it is another story.

Age may change the rules, but it doesn’t have to take you out of the game.

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