The Vary Necessary Podcast

Hosts: Sue, Yosh, & Von 

This week on The Vary Necessary Podcast, we finally welcome our new friend Angel aka “Kim” from last week’s episode We sit down for a candid conversation about marriage, divorce, starting over, and what it looks like to be single, free, and living life in your 40s.

And then there’s dating… Chile, it’s no longer a dating pool. It’s a SWAMP.  We talk about learning to enjoy your own company, embracing the freedom that comes with doing life on your own terms, and realizing that being alone doesn’t necessarily mean being lonely.

Because sometimes you’re perfectly capable of doing life alone…

But just in case you want a little company every now and then, that’s alright too

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In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we examine beauty standards, body confidence, and what society considers desirable in 2026.

Whether a woman is a size 6 or a size 26, is she valued for who she is or placed into a category? Is the bigger woman only seen as a good time while the smaller woman is treated like the trophy?

We also discuss men who leave successful, attractive women for someone with fewer resources, more baggage, and no clear direction…yet somehow view her as the greater prize. Is peace more valuable than potential? Does constantly pushing someone to be better eventually make you less desirable to them?

We wrap up with a quick take on Why Did I Get Married Again? and what it says about relationships, standards, and the choices people make.

And stay tuned…a guest may be joining us next week.

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In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, Von’s trip to Jamaica sparks a bigger conversation about perspective, privilege, and the belief that life must be better somewhere else in other countries.

Tourists see paradise, while some locals see limited opportunity. Americans dream about leaving the U.S., while people elsewhere dream about getting here. We discuss the value of the U.S. dollar, foreign ownership, access to basic resources, jobs, and how where you stand can completely change what “better” looks like.

Whether it’s greener on the other side or not… perspective is ultimately what decides this.

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In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we ask: How much do you invest in someone’s potential before realizing they’re not investing in themselves? Time, money, resources, and opportunities mean nothing if the person receiving them isn’t appreciative or willing to do the work. Discernment is knowing the difference between helping someone build and allowing them to ride your wave. And accountability goes both ways: the person taking advantage and the person who keeps investing despite the signs. What are you building as your legacy and are you helping someone build theirs, or becoming their legacy?

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In this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we talk about when providing financially becomes a substitute for actually showing up. What happens when someone wants the relationship and family but still wants the freedom, priorities, and independence of single life? Money, gifts, and grand gestures may fill some gaps, but they can’t replace time, consistency, reliability, or emotional presence. Is it generosity or overcompensation for the parts of the relationship you never really wanted?

The conversation may vary…but it’s definitely necessary.

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On this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we unpack solitude, loneliness, isolation, and the importance of your state of mind Being alone doesn’t automatically mean something is missing. Sometimes it means you’ve finally learned that protecting your peace is necessary. and becoming comfortable with your own company.

Getting older is inevitable; how we choose to move through it is another story. Age may change the rules, but it doesn’t have to take you out of the game.

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On this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we’re talking about what aging gracefully really looks like and it’s about much more than appearance. From surgery versus exercise and physical wellness to Pilates, kickboxing, salsa, pole dancing, flexibility, and finding a fitness routine that actually fits your life, we’re exploring how staying active changes as we get older.

Getting older is inevitable; how we choose to move through it is another story.

Age may change the rules, but it doesn’t have to take you out of the game.

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On this episode of The Vary Necessary Podcast, we sit down with The Scums for an honest, entertaining, and thought-provoking discussion that blends humor, raw perspectives, and unapologetic authenticity about music, magnetism, & magic. Life experiences and relationships to culture, personal growth, and everything in between, nothing is off-limits. If you’re looking for genuine dialogue with plenty of laughs and unexpected gems, this is one episode you won’t want to miss.

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What happened to survival skills? On today’s episode Sasha and Mia introduce two young Ashley and Destiny. Same age. Same 24 hours. Two completely different paths.

Disclaimer: This isn’t about tearing down Gen Z or romanticizing Gen X. It’s about asking a hard question: Have convenience replaced capability?

Join us as we unpack the thought process & life skills many young adults are missing and why resilience, financial literacy, critical thinking, and self-sufficiency still matter.

Same 24 hours. Different choices. Different outcomes.

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​Hey VNP listeners!
​This is Sue, just one-third of the awesome trio behind The Vary Necessary Podcast. This week’s episode is Vary personal for me. As many of you who have been following our journey for years know, we always share our triumphs and discuss our challenges. I truly believe that's why you tune in—because we’re right there with you, navigating this thing we call life.

​For this episode, I ask that you keep an open mind and an open heart as I talk about my VARY SPECIAL 50TH BIRTHDAY!

​In honor of this milestone, I’d love your support for a cause very close to my heart:
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​Thank you all for the love and constant support. Be kind to one another!
​We Out!!

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