Episode 19; 

The LOVE Episode...

-what is an appropriate Vday gift? Can you get your girl household goods? Is that really a gift for her? Example: cookware ... a vacuum 

-Expectations for men vs women on Vday. Should women be held to the same standards? 

-How important is saying “thank you” in a relationship?

-How comfortable are you telling your spouse/significant other what you want? 

-Once you’ve argued or talked about an issue, should it die there never to be brought up again? If someone brings it up again, how should the other person respond? 
   *should you ignore them? 

-How do you make sure you don’t take your spouse for granted? What are some good practices to make sure they feel valued?


-What is the hardest thing to let go of once you’re in a relationship? Can this self. Sabotaging your current relationship?

-Should you “teach” you man or your woman how to be the best man or woman for you or should they already know or want to be that for you? Is it true that if a man wants you he’ll do anything and everything for you? With that being said, how will he know what do do if you don’t show him 🤔

-Are there any “tests” you put your potential significant other through to find out if they are worth while? 

-Can you judge a book by its cover? If so, does that hinder your ability to truly get to know someone? 
—— Should you judge a person by their past? Can a person change? For instance, “once a cheater always a cheater”.

Episode 18

Women fighting their man’s battles. Thoughts? 
-example is Court side Karen.
-is it best to lose your battle than to have your woman fight for you or with you?
-when is it okay for her to jump in?

Lil Uzi Vert got a 25 million dollar pink diamond attached to his forehead... 

What is something someone said to you in the past, that has stuck to you to this day?

A moment in Love:
How would you approach being bored on a date? Are you blunt with the person? Do you make an excuse to leave? 

Are Phones allowed into the first date? Do you keep it in your car or pocket? 

Child support isn’t always fair. If mom works 20-25 hours a week making $10-$14 an hour and dad is working 40+ hours a week making $20 an hour... and he takes up a second job to offset the child support payment he has to make... what do you think the child support amount should be? Should his finances be hit harder than what mom can make because he has a better paying job? What checks and balances should be put in place?


What struggle can you see within Black officers and their profession? Do you think the public makes it difficult for them to be able to find a “happy medium”? Or should minorities go into the profession already knowing what they will face and with a strong sense of self? 

Fan Question:
How much is too much when asking your significant other about their ex? How far is too far?

Episode 17

Guest speaker is EJ who is back with a new view on life, religion, and relationships.
 enjoy the show.

Episode 16:

Do you believe, as a “race” African American people play the victim? 

-yes or no? Elaborate. 
-define what “playing the victim” is to you.
-do you? If you don’t, why not?
-do you believe this belief is ingrained in your mind at an early age? Is it detrimental to your future?
-is it detrimental to your mental health?

What will you do, for the next generation to ensure this isn’t something they carry with them?


A Moment in Love:
-speak on the importance of your significant other being your biggest hype man/woman.
-do you see yourself as being your spouses biggest fan? 

Do you think some women are too hard on men? Expect too much maybe? Do their past negative experiences get in the way of them finding a “good man” and having a “good relationship “? 

Do you think you can have a successful relationship if you re NOT physically attracted to the person? Say, for example, you got to know someone on a friend level and you just clicked... can you actually Vibe that way? Enough to have a successful relationship? 

Inauguration:
-did you think it was gonna be any different? Drama? 
-overall thoughts? 

Keeping it Lite: 
-Alex AKA Kobe asked-what is something you can’t live without? For example, music, cheese...

What do you wish you had more time for? 

Thoughts on the upcoming Joshua Anthony and Tyson Fury fight?

Episode 15

Looking back at childhood, what did you come to find out about adulthood that just doesn’t sit well with you 

What’s something you couldn’t wait to do when you were young that you are OVER ow, as an adult?

What’s something your parents told you growing up, that you look back at now and know it was a damn lie!? 

Simply put: 
-Do you believe in aliens? 

Health:
What do you consider self care and do your think some may consider it “selfish”?

What are some good self care practices you would recommend ?


A moment In Love:
-Make up sexy, what are your thoughts?

-How involved should your family be in your relationship? How much is too much? 
•For example, if you guys are in a fight should they be involved?

-If your spouse lost their memory, suddenly, what memory would you tell them about first? 

-where do you draw the line in terms of physical change in your significant other, whats a deal breaker? Too much muscle? Too thin? Too many tattoos? Bald? 
•if they do make a sudden change, how do you approach it?

Keeping it lite:
-go to top 3 Saturday morning cartoons 
-if you could wake up tomorrow and have one ability what would it be? Not super powers, something like play an instrument, speak Japanese, know how to fly a plane, know karate...

Also Featuring Jared

Soho Karen:
⁃ what happened?!?!?
⁃ Is age an excuse? She keeps saying “I’m a 22 year old girl”.
⁃ Should serve time for what she did?
⁃ How different would the outcome have been if the roles were revered?

Capital Terrorism
⁃ Capital Riot
⁃  Would things be the same if they were Black and Brown?

A Moment In Love
⁃ What do you do if you leave the room, at a party or get together, and you come back and your girl is sitting on her "male friends" lap.  Is she “free” to do whatever she wants “with her body”?
- Do Women want a man to take charge?
more questions and answers...

Episode 13:

-COVID-19 variant B117. First case has been reported in Colorado. What will this due in terms of quarantine? The economy?
-Digital passport in LA as proof of Covid vaccine.
~Do you think this will be a prerequisite to travel to other countries?
-Will this change your decision to vaccinate?

Some companies are working to create apps for your phone or systems for you to upload information about COVID-19 tests and vaccines that can create a virtual pass that could be used to let you onto flights or into sporting events, concerts or movies.
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  -Soul the movie. Impression?

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-Master P buying Reebok for $2.4 Billion
-Stimulus check $600 or $2k ... what will this actually do for ppl? What would you rather be “given” instead of a one time check?
-Tyrese recently had his Range Rover stolen and then turned around and tried to bail out the men/kids that did it. He said he understood them trying to make their money. Would you do the same?

Life:
-what is something you like about yourself that you wish other ppl recognized?
-who do you call when times get rough.
-2021 resolutions and goals!

A moment in Love:

How much do our social groups affect and mold us?

When you look in the mirror do you see yourself or your imagined self
Has your partner influenced you to change anything about yourself? Big or small

Things were done with in 2021:
-Uber, Door Dash and them! We are not paying your benefits!
-Paying for multiple streaming services! We can’t/won’t pay for every single outlet!
-Wasting time and effort, being fearful to take chances!
-Taking your mental health for granted!

A moment in Love:
-Do you think a marriage between ppl with the same religion is more successful ?
-Has any tv/movie relationship influenced your idea/perspective of a successful relationship?
-What would hit you harder? Your significant other cheating or if you found out they were financially supporting someone else?
-What do you believe is worse? Physically or emotionally cheating?
-Is it justified to sleep with another person if you warned your significant other that they don’t do it for you (physically) anymore.
-How do you handle life stress in your relationship? Do you ask for help or do you keep it out of the household? Do you manage in your own or does your spouse/significant other help?

Life:
-what is something you were/are terrified of that you have come to accept/come to terms with?
-If you had to sum up the Human Species, in 3 words, what would those three words be?
-Do you think ppl from Vastly Different cultural backgrounds can live together peacefully? 
——more specifically, in the same household? 
-Do you think cell phones have negatively affected society? How?
-What do you think is the most beneficial and most destructive emotion?

            Life

• Normally we see “new year new me” posts ... have you noticed the lack of?  Should ppl look forward to 2021?
• What is something you are into/enjoy that you think black men are afraid or embarrassed to admit? 
• Discuss black ppl getting super powers in the 21st 
• Early 2000’s trends you miss.
• You are about to attack the Death Star... what song is playing ?
• What topics did you feel were the “manly” things to know/talk about growing up? Does that stand to this day?

~A moment In Love~
• there is a post going around online about toxic relationship being normalized. Do you think they’ve been normalized? The idea is that men and women are openly looking for a significant other with toxic traits. 
• Another post, by a woman, claims men know within 6 months if they want you for the rest of their lives. Is this valid? If not, what do you think the time frame is for men?
• Who do you shares more sexual details with their friends... men or women?
• What relationship advice did your parent(s) give you growing up or now as an adult? Was it good or bad advice?
• Will your relationship advice be the same for your daughter and son?
• Are men intimidated by “independent women “?

Black mean and Health:
• Has the black community weakened the negative stigma behind prorate exams ? Do we need to contribute to open the forum for an open conversation? Is it still taboo to talk about this?
Family:
• when do you think it’s the “right time” to start a family?
• Are you quicker to cut off friends or family?