"Basically, as soon as you have access to a handheld device, you have access to pornography." Social media lawyer, Emma Sadleir, tells it like it is. In the second part of our interview with her, she deals with porn, screen addiction (ours and theirs), cat-fishing and more and has some very relevant advice for all of us who are battling with the toxic combination of our kids and smartphones.

Our kids, their phones and social media. What are they up to? Are they being scarred for life? How do we control it? It’s a whole new world of pain and panic our parents never had to deal with and a world we don’t always understand. Social media law expert, Emma Sadleir’s new book, "Selfies, sexts and smartphones", is aimed at teens, but is packed with insight and information to help you get a handle on what's going on. Here’s the first part of her conversation with Vanessa.

The Village was born in February 2017 to parents Vanessa Raphaely and Megan De Beyer - one an editor, the other a psychologist, both mothers of teenagers who were beginning to drive them crazy. Talking about things together seemed to help. They started The Village on Facebook to see if anyone else wanted to join in. They did. In this, the first edition of The Village Live Podcast, we find out more about how it all started.