The Voice of Singles

In this episode, we dive deeper into what happened with the woman who went from virgin to single mom and the shock of it all. We also discuss common pitfalls to look out for during the wait. For more and community visit: https://www.bit.ly/safechristiansingles or visit my Payhip store for products: https://payhip.com/RusselynWilliams

Does being single feel like a "test" you haven't passed yet? Many believers feel that marriage is the ultimate stamp of approval on their spiritual maturity—but what if that’s not how God sees it at all?

In this episode, we challenge the narrative that you have to "marry" to prove you've done singleness well. Drawing a powerful parallel to the biblical debate over circumcision, we explore how we often turn marriage into a modern-day "requirement" for Christian identity—forgetting that God’s priority is our obedience, not our relationship status. Visit bit.ly/safechristiansingles.com for supportive community for singles.

In this episode of The Voice of Singles, we are having the "taboo" conversation about sexual compatibility and waiting for marriage. Join host Russelyn Williams and a powerhouse panel of married guests as they peel back the layers on navigating expectations, communicating about intimacy when you have no "experience," and what happens when reality meets the honeymoon.

We discuss:

• Expectations vs. Reality: Honest stories from those who waited (including a male perspective on virginity).

• The Compatibility Myth: How to build intimacy and ensure you are on the same page before the "big night."

• Preparation for Pleasure: Practical advice for a fulfilling married sex life.

• Abigail Brooks: Therapist and author of From Dating to I Do.

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• Sarah de Orlando: Speaker and Chief-Hope-Giver at Sarah de Orlando Coaching.

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• Yvette Henry: Host of the Yvette Unplugged! podcast and founder of Women Unplugged! * Connect with Yvette

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Episode Title: What to Do When You Feel Unseen

“Does anyone actually see me?” In this episode, host Russelyn Williams gets honest about the "unseen" season of singleness. Using her personal testimony of navigating grief and isolation, Russelyn explores why the need to be known is a God-given desire—and how ignoring that need can lead us into toxic cycles.

Learn how to:

• Identify the "noise" that keeps you from hearing God’s voice.

• Walk in "spiritual sobriety" to avoid seeking relief in the wrong places.

• Trust in El-Roi, the God who sees you, even in your darkest moments.

Connect & Grow:Don’t walk this journey alone. Join our Safe Single Christian Community to find a space where you are truly seen and supported.

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