What happens when the plan you’ve followed your whole life no longer feels right?
Lets meet Jessica Gatt.
She shares the quiet unraveling of a life that looked perfect on paper; high school success, university plans, a path that everyone around her celebrated. But underneath it all, she was deeply unhappy. Leaving uni felt like failure. Choosing a different path felt like disappointing everyone.
Together, we explore:
• The weight of people-pleasing and silent burnout
• What it really feels like to quit the “dream plan”
• How fear and self-doubt show up in smart, capable young people
• Why following your curiosity isn’t failure - it’s freedom
• What it means to choose a life that’s truly yours
This is a powerful conversation for parents supporting teens through major decisions, and for young people who feel stuck in a life they didn’t choose.
Jess’s story reminds us:
You don’t owe anyone the life they expected from you.
If you’ve ever felt like changing paths means letting people down, or that your worth is tied to being impressive, this episode is for you.
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If you'd like to reach out to Jess, her Instagram is @jessicagatt_ ; I know she'd LOVE to hear if you resonated with her story and answer any of your burning questions.
Chapters:
1:04 - Who Is Jess Without The Plan?
3:25 - Being 'Gifted' Means Uni, Or So I Thought
6:54 - When You’re No Longer the Smartest in the Room
8:57 - The Weight of Expectations (Even When You Want Out)
9:33 - You Don’t Have to Know What You Want at 18
14:40 - Trying to Push Through Something That’s Breaking You
19:49 - The Pathway To Getting The Right Support
22:03 - Leaving Uni, Feeling Lost, and Starting Again
23:10 - Why McDonald’s Taught Me More Than Uni Did
26:32 - If You Don't Know What Job To Do, Try This
29:45 - TAFE, Shame, and Rewriting the Script
33:34 - Redefining Success After Letting People Down
37:51 - I Don’t Drink Anymore, And I’m Okay With That
43:03 - From Craft Hobby to Three Businesses Later