Becoming Your Spouse's Biggest Supporter :: [Ep. 271]

This week we explore how marriages deteriorate when the "we" transitions into "me, my, and I" as couples pursue individual interests rather than championing each other.

We will talk about the following:

• Couples often forget God's main purpose for marriage and prepare themselves for marital defeat
• We often champion our children's interests without hesitation but fail to do the same for our spouse
• Practical ways to champion your spouse include being shoulder-to-shoulder in their interests
• Giving your spouse margin to pursue their goals shows you value what matters to them
• The consequences that arise when spouses don't champion each other
• The gap in marriage grows wider when couples don't support each other's God-given missions
• Our selfish agendas often prevent us from championing our spouse's interests

We hope you will be encouraged and helped in being your spouse's champion!

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How to Revitalize Your Marriage :: [Ep. 270]

In this week's episode we are exploring the concept of powerful pursuit in marriage, moving beyond the roommate mode to intentionally chasing after our spouse's heart with Christ-like love and passion.

We will be hitting the following:

• Breaking out of the "roommate mode" that many couples fall into during challenging seasons
• Shifting from being critical observers to becoming rescuers in our marriage relationship
• Understanding that true pursuit must be motivated by Christ's example of relentless love
• Recognizing that God uses us as tools in our spouse's life to display His pursuit of them
• Identifying where and when our spouse needs us to pursue them most effectively
• Confronting self-focus and fear as primary obstacles to powerful pursuit
• Embracing obstacles as opportunities to demonstrate commitment rather than excuses to give up
 

We hope you will join us and be encouraged and helped in better loving your spouse! 

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Finding Hope in a Troubled Marriage :: [Ep. 269]

This is part 2 of our Irreconcilable Differences series. We pray this episode will offer hope to marriages that seem broken beyond repair. We will explain how God's grace extends to every relationship regardless of how toxic or damaged it may appear. 

In this episode, we will cover the following:
• No marriage is beyond reconciliation when brought to God for help
• Transformation can begin with just one spouse, even if the other isn't on board
• God created marriage with a bigger purpose than just survival
• Six commitments for marriage restoration
• Practical actions to implement in daily life

As always, we hope and pray you are encouraged and helped by what you hear! 

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Rethinking Irreconcilable Differences :: [Ep. 268]

Have you reached a point where you think your marriage is beyond repair? Well, we are so glad you are here because in this episode we tackle the critical crossroads many couples face when considering divorce due to "irreconcilable differences" and offer (encouraging!) biblical wisdom for those feeling their marriage is beyond repair!

In this episode, we are covering the following:

• How couples develop a "my way or the highway" dynamic through unspoken rules and expectations
• Using the biblical story of Jonah to understand God's perspective on seemingly hopeless situations
• Six crucial questions to ask before considering divorce
• Understanding that God's grace covers both your sins and your spouse's sins
• How to correct incorrect thinking
• Recognizing that many marriages that seem beyond repair can be restored through God's intervention!

Listen today! Join us again next week as we talk more about Irreconcilable Differences where we'll explore six commitments to help save your marriage.

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How Our Selfish Demands Sabotage Our Marriage :: [Ep. 267]

We are exploring the happy wife, happy life concept in marriage on this week's episode! We are talking about how demanding our way in marriage creates a prison of pride that damages relationships and rejects God's design for mutual service.

We will touch on the following:

• Pride makes us label things as "mine" and expect others to maintain our standards
• Phrases like "happy wife, happy life" enable selfish demands rather than godly love
• God warns of consequences but often allows us to experience what we demand
• Humility is the antidote - shifting from "meet my needs" to "how can I serve?"
• Understanding your spouse's heart helps prevent the demand cycle
• Consistently affirming and serving creates an environment where demands become unnecessary

Come listen today and be encouraged in building a biblically healthy marriage!! 

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In this week's episode, we reveal a powerful three-step process for rebooting your marriage when it's bogged down. Our hope is to teach you how to better help your marriage thrive.

We will cover the following points:
• The importance of honesty and honestly reassessing our hearts
• Recognizing pride and its effects
• Remembering who God is and who we are in Him 
• What creates and makes a divided heart 
• What walking in freedom looks like and requires

If your marriage needs a reboot, we hope you will join us and find hope and encouragement today!

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Reboot Your Marriage: Clearing the Spiritual Clutter :: [Ep. 265]

Just like smartphones need background apps cleared to function efficiently, our spiritual lives and marriages require periodic rebooting to address undealt-with baggage. In this week's episode, we're talking about a three-step process for spiritual renewal through reassessing our hearts, remembering God's truths, and remaining in His Word.

We will discuss the following:

• Identifying what's "running in the background" of your life that needs addressing
• Understanding that most spiritual clutter comes down to sin
• Recognizing the ongoing battle between our renewed nature and sinful flesh
• Learning to come to God boldly yet humbly, asking Him to examine our hearts
• Practical questions for self-examination
• Remembering that God has given us everything we need for godly living

We hope you will join us and be helped and encouraged. Be sure to join us next week as we continue our "Reboot" series!

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Beyond Self-Esteem: Finding Worth in Christ :: [Ep. 264]

Last week, we started the conversation about Self-Worth and Self-Esteem. This week, we are concluding that conversation. In this episode, we are learning just how a biblical perspective on self-worth can transform hearts and marriages. Rather than embracing the world's definition of self-esteem, we are discovering that our true value comes from being made in God's image and chosen by Him.

We will cover the following:

• Satan manipulates our self-perception to damage our marriages, convincing us we deserve better than our spouse
• The "I am who I am" mentality creates a false comfort zone that prevents growth and transformation in relationships
• Biblical confidence means thinking of ourselves less rather than thinking less of ourselves
• How to transition from being "puffed up" to being "filled up" with God's truth and how that transforms how we serve our spouse

For further study on this topic, listen to our previous broadcasts titled "Idols of the Heart," read John 13, 1 Corinthians, or Tim Keller's "The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness."

Happy listening!!

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When "Be Yourself" Backfires: A Christian Perspective on Self-Worth :: [Ep. 263]

Self-esteem is a concept that is celebrated by our culture but may be leading us away from God's design for our lives and marriages. God calls us to find our worth and our confidence in His love and design for us, not in our uniqueness or accomplishments.

In this episode, we will cover the following:
• Self-esteem is based on comparison and puts our focus on ourselves instead of God and others
• The Bible never instructs us to focus on self-love - it assumes we already do this naturally
• Jesus demonstrated his understanding of worth through service and sacrifice, not self-focus
• The true measure of our worth

Join us today! And come back again next week for part two of this series as we dig deeper into what the Bible says about self-worth, pride, humility, and how these concepts affect our marriages.

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How Your Marriage Can Leave a Lasting Legacy :: [Ep. 262]

What kind of legacy are you building through your marriage? We are exploring just how our love and marriage relationship can grow a beautiful legacy that can be passed down from generation to generation. This episode will cover the following:

- Address heart issues behind communication problems in marriage
- Reflect on the legacy we leave: good or bad, spiritual or material
- Provide practical steps for listeners to begin crafting their personal legacies 

Join us in this insightful discussion and be inspired to make actionable changes in your relationships! Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review!

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