The WE Corps Podcast: Global Reinvention for Trailing Spouses, Diplomats, Expats

How do highly successful and positive people live their lives?

What are they doing on a day to day?

They manage their internal state for success. They know how to will themselves to do the hard work, to summon their best thoughts, to slow down when things are getting too hectic. They are incredible managers of the emotions. In your life, decide on one personal change you would like to make.

What do you believe about this positive change?

What do you think you might struggle with?

What is the story you tell yourself about yourself?

What will you do differently to get different results?

This is the ‘Inner Work’ that must be done to achieve long-term sustainable success. You can do it! It’s possible. It takes practice. Do the work. Let me know how it goes!

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For any other questions, you can email [email protected].

Be Bold. Be Positive. Take Action, Everyday.

In this episode, I share with you a simple framework for designing a successful day.

I call it the "3Ms" - Morning, Movement, Mission.

Rather than having your to do list, think about having a to be list.

Who must you BE in order to achieve all that you want?

3M Framework:

1) How do you start your mornings?

2) How do you move your body everyday?

3) How do you connect to your mission? Looking for more inspiration?

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To contact me directly, you can e-mail [email protected]

Be Bold. Be Positive. Take Action, Everyday

In this episode, I interview a friend and colleague, KYLA MITSUNAGA, a Mind-blowing Results Coach, Healer, and Subconscious Expert. In this gem-filled interview, she talks about her framework for helping clients make progress, how she stays positive despite difficulty, her definition of success, and many more awesome insights.

GEMS FROM THIS EPISODE:

3A Framework: Awareness, Acceptance, Action

This can help you understand where you are, what you need to accept, and what you can actually take action on. In Kyla’s words “You can’t act on something you don’t accept. You can’t accept something that you are not aware of.” So, self-growth happens in this order: AWARENESS > ACCEPTANCE > ACTION. Acceptance being the most difficult, yet important step. 

Facing Society’s Definition of Success vs. Facing Your Definition of Success

“Reframe the way in which you understand success…whose definition of success are you looking at?” 

JUDGMENT and FORGIVENESS SEESAW

 “When your judgment of self and others is high, your forgiveness of self and others is low.”  

“When your judgment of self and others is low, your forgiveness of self and others  is high.” 

For the high achievers, forgive yourself more in your life’s journey. Being forgiving is just as important as achieving. 

WINNING RESULTS vs. BONUS RESULTS

Swimming everyday is a bonus result. 

Forgiving yourself when you don’t go swimming is a winning result. 

Wanting to grow through fear is a winning result. 

Achieving the income goal is the bonus result. 

Value winning results more, or in other words, value the internal wins, the mindset wins where you are talking kindly and lovingly to yourself as you move imperfectly through life. 

SALLY SAYS “You’re enough” :) 

 Kylalilities Vocabulary

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LEARN MORE ABOUT KYLA 

KYLA MITSUNAGA is a multi-talented Mind-blowing Results Coach, Healer, and Subconscious Expert. She started out her journey as a Global Happiness Coach teaching workshops internationally, until she fell into a deep depression due to her Mother’s diagnosis of depression. This led to a year of inward reflection that led to an awakening of her inner power. She hired a life coach, took a trip to Bali at a Surf and Yoga Retreat and met a healer, which changed the trajectory of her life. Aside from inspiring, teaching, and coaching others to their full potential, she travels, loves Matcha Lattes, and swimming everyday. 

To connect with Kyla, check out her website: https://www.kylamitsunaga.com/about.html

Or you can check out her books:

On Growing

WITH vs. AT

Where are you playing it safe? 

Where are you not trying your best? 

Where can you level up in your life? 

Where can you choose growth and excellence over complacency? 

In this episode, I share a piece of life advice I received from a former boss when I was an undergraduate student at UCLA. He simply said Never Accept Mediocrity. After years of changing jobs and moving countries, I learned that in order to become a better version of yourself, you must go beyond your ‘average’ to see what you are capable of. 

If you seek greatness, aliveness, and growth in your life, you must step out of the comforts of what is known, and choose the harder path of challenge, leveling up, and skilling up in your life. It is when you choose excellence over the status quo that you begin to experience breakthroughs in life and work. 

If you’d like to get more guidance, you can access my free resource, The LifeMap Mini Course. 

In this episode, I share the concept of mapping out your life. The goals, the dreams, the ideas, the adventures...and really taking the time to think and plan what you'd like to do in your life. What qualities do you want to develop? What adventures do you want to have? What contributions do you want to make? What do you want to accomplish - map it all out!

For more inspiration and guidance on your life's success journey, please join my weekly success newsletter   here.

In this episode, I share a few thoughts on how to reflect on life's lessons in the moment. You see, all that you experience, from amazing relationships to hardships, from slow days to hectic days, it is all teaching you something. Your role, in your life, is to see it, be present, observe, and ask What is this teaching me? What do I need to learn? Who must I grow into to go through this challenge? 

I hope this episode inspires you and helps you see the beauty and also the struggle that life has to offer as you progress into this next chapter of life. 

What are you good at? What can you share with the world? What are your natural inclinations? 

In this episode, I share my simple framework for finding one’s purpose through my life experiences. 

To sum up, my one piece of advice is to find the threads in your life, the patterns, the moments that light you up. 

When you are enjoying yourself, when you are in wonder and awe, when you are feeling good or positive vibes, these experiences, spaces, and life moments are direct clues to your purpose. Your purpose is not just what you do, but who you are and how you show up in the world. Purposeful people live with a sense of joy and curiosity. 

So, what are the threads and patterns in your life? 

Share your insights with me on Instagram @domnarciso. 

In this episode, I share my thoughts on the four main elements that will drive the purpose of work in a post-pandemic world. If you are a leader or business owner trying to retain talent, these are a few questions to consider in order to keep employees engaged, committed, and motivated to serve your organizations' mission and vision. Or if you are a high performing professional seeking clarity around your current career path, these questions will help you think and reflect on the purpose of work in your life.

1. Does work satisfy an intrinsic motivation?

2. Does work create an environment of belonging and community?

3. Does work provide personal growth opportunities? (Not just growing professional skills, but developing a more holistic mindset around success, high performance, excellence, and congruence).

4. Does work provide a path towards senior leadership? Does the leadership reflect the employees, is there a future for leadership positions?

If you are considering a career change, seeking to develop into a high performing leader, or you lead a team and need a high performance coach, sign up for a here.

THE POWER OF SECRET IDENTITIES

In this week’s episode, I interview Pete Mackintosh, a Profitability Coach for Female Entrepreneurs on the power of secret identities.

Pete shares the framework of Todd Herman’s The Alter Ego Effect, where the power of secret identities removes the need for discipline, because you just become the person you want to be gradually over time by acting as your secret identity. Think Clark Kent and Superman - changing in the telephone booth - and suddenly taking on this new superhero identity.

Pete also shares the importance of carving out time for self-reflection to start unpacking your dreams and desires. He also suggests getting around a community of like-minded people trying to achieve the same goal for motivation, accountability, and inspiration.

You can CONNECT ON FACEBOOK at Pete Mack 50 or EMAIL - [email protected].

And finally, join Dom's Weekly Newsletter for more coaching, guidance, and strategies to stay positive and stay successful.

Until next week! 

Be bold. Be positive. Take action everyday!

In this episode, I teach you about discipline. Discipline is what separates the dreamers from the doers. It is the essential ingredient to your success in health, in wealth, in business, in family. How consistent are you in choosing to do the hard work of success?

Two main takeaways: Decide to be disciplined; and Do the work required for success. There are no shortcuts to discipline. It is the simple choice of acting in alignment with the life and future you desire. It is doing the hard work of putting in the hours, the practice, the reps, the habits of success.

And if you want more coaching, trainings, and guidance on how to live a successful life, SUBSCRIBE to my weekly newsletter at http://domnarciso.com and receive a free copy of the 5 Elements of HAPPY SUCCESS.