Photographer Amy Anaiz doesn’t just take beautiful pictures — she tells layered, intentional stories through light, movement, and emotion. In this episode, Fallon sits down with the artist behind the lens to talk about:

• What couples think they want vs. what actually works

• How to manage wedding day expectations

• Tips for working with large wedding parties + outfit changes

• Amy’s lighting philosophy and how it transforms her work

• Her approach to styling engagement sessions

• And how her new brand, Ozaiz, is reshaping the gifting experience

Whether you’re planning your wedding or just love photography that feels like art, this episode is a deep dive into the why behind the image.

This is The We Do Collective —

where we do weddings together.

On this week’s episode of The We Do Collective, Fallon Carter takes you behind the scenes of a summer wedding at Dover Hall in Virginia — and it was anything but smooth sailing. From navigating sound setups across four different spaces to managing a large wedding party in 95-degree Southern humidity (with a surprise thunderstorm!), Fallon shares candid reflections, lessons learned, and the moments that pushed her to the edge (literally crying in a corner before the ceremony).

You’ll hear her thoughts on:

• Why she’s team no wedding party (or at least team more support staff)

• How sound logistics can make or break the vibe

• The critical importance of a weather plan (not just for rain!)

• How Minted’s concierge program saved the stationery game

• Why she’s now prioritizing sound vendors and meteorologists

This is a raw, honest, and yes—therapeutic—episode about how even "easy" weddings can turn chaotic, and why calm, clarity, and contingency plans always win.

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Planning a wedding in a raw space sounds dreamy—until you realize you’re basically building a venue from scratch. In this solo episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of Emma & Tucker’s wedding: a beautiful hilltop celebration filled with joy, logistics, and a whole lot of lessons.

From vendor meals that missed the mark to managing sound between toasts and band breaks, I’m sharing the real deal of what worked, what I’d do differently, and why buffer time is your best friend. We’re talking rentals, generators, first-look regrets, and how to protect your clean reception shots from early guests and rogue purses. If you’re a couple or a planner considering a raw space, this one’s for you.

✨ Plus: the little sentimental touches we always save for our couples, and why they matter more than you think.

On this episode of The We Do Collective, we’re joined by the brilliant Dami of By Dami Studios — a stationer, designer, and creative visionary behind some of the most unforgettable wedding branding and gifting moments. From custom invitations to curated welcome gifts, Dami shares how she transforms paper and print into personal storytelling.

We dive into how to brand your wedding from the ground up, how to approach gifting with meaning, and why texture, innovation, and intention should lead your design choices. Whether you're a couple looking to elevate your event or a planner ready to think outside the box, this episode is packed with inspiration and practical tips.

🎧 Tune in to learn:
– The three questions to ask when branding your wedding
– How to push past Pinterest and uncover your true style
– Paper and print techniques that go beyond traditional
– Tips for meaningful, elevated gifting
– Advice for the DIY couple who still wants that luxury look

This is The We Do Collective — where we do weddings together.

In this episode of The We Do Collective, Fallon sits down with fine art wedding photographer Alicia Rinka to explore the magic behind the lens. From how she got started to what she wishes couples knew about decor, portraits, and the photography process, Alicia shares her artistic approach to capturing weddings around the world. We talk about how to feel confident in front of the camera, how to navigate unpredictable weather, and how Alicia finds the most breathtaking locations for her shoots. Whether you’re a couple planning your day or a creative partner in the wedding space, this episode is full of insights to help you feel seen, comfortable, and beautifully captured.

In this episode of The We Do Collective, Fallon sits down with one of her favorite floral artists — Drew Rios of Rogue & Fox — to talk about florals that speak. Known for her unexpected and emotionally driven approach to design, Drew shares how her upbringing shaped her floral philosophy, why installations are more than just big moments, and how real storytelling starts with how flowers make you feel.

Together, we explore:

• The difference between a florist and a floral designer

• How to build a floral plan that feels true to you — not Pinterest

• What to prioritize in your floral budget (and what to skip)

• The truth about installations, candle costs, and using fruit or silk in sustainable ways

• Why lilies are that girl and how Calla lilies made their comeback

• Questions to ask your floral designer that go beyond “what’s your minimum?”

Whether you’re planning a ceremony that feels lush and romantic or minimalist and wild, this conversation will help you clarify your floral vision, avoid the trends, and create beauty that lasts far beyond the wedding day.

🎧 Press play to rethink what your flowers can say.

Hey friends—I’m back! I took a little break to plan some beautiful weddings in France, and now that I’ve returned, I wanted to hop on and share a few things I’ve learned. In this quick solo episode, I’m talking about the key differences between French and American weddings—and what that means for anyone planning a destination celebration.

From currency conversions and staffing surprises to the slower pace of a multi-course French dinner, I’m breaking it all down so you know what to expect, what to prepare for, and how to keep your cool when planning abroad. If you’re even thinking about a wedding in Europe or anywhere outside the U.S., this one’s for you.

What if your guestbook could talk back?

In this episode of The We Do Collective, we chat with the founders of After The Tone — the wedding voicemail guestbook that’s changing how couples capture memories.

We dig into their journey from idea to launch, how they navigated early challenges, and the heartwarming messages that keep them inspired. Whether you’re deep in wedding planning or just love a great business origin story, this one’s for you.

 Learn how After The Tone works

Hear their proudest moments

Get tips on how to make your wedding more personal

Follow @afterthetone.co and visit afterthetone.co to learn more.

Your DJ sets the tone for your entire wedding — but how do you know if they’re the right fit? In this episode of The We Do Collective, Fallon sits down with the incredibly talented DJ Neza to break down everything you need to know before hiring a wedding DJ. From creating a vibe-driven playlist to understanding what equipment to expect, we talk about the difference between a DJ, emcee, and host, how to keep the energy flowing from ceremony to after-party, and the red flags couples should watch out for.

Whether you’re looking for someone to keep the party going or just trying to figure out what “bringing sound” even means, this conversation will help you set the right tone — and volume — for your big day.

https://nezamusic.com/

In this episode of The We Do Collective, Fallon sits down with renowned hair and makeup artist Sharon Becker of SB Beauty to talk all things wedding beauty. From skincare prep to how to structure your wedding morning glam schedule, Sharon shares her expert insight on what really works—and what couples often forget.

We cover:

• How early to start skincare and hair prep
  

• When to book your hair and makeup artist
  

• The best way to prepare for your trial
  

• What to consider when planning looks for your wedding party
  

• Products that actually last through tears, dancing, and all-day wear
  

• Whether or not to keep your artist on-site for touch-ups
  

If you’re trying to feel confident and look like yourself—but elevated—this one’s for you.