Lindsay and I discuss the tension between, effort, fulfillment and meaning. Why dreaming is important and Rob can’t stop thinking about nothing.

Digging Deeper

In this episode, we talked about effort and fulfillment, along with the importance of having dreams. We touched on the following ideas in our conversation:

• Effort: conscious exertion of power
• Nothingness
• Absurdism
• Albert Camus, and The Myth of Sisyphus
• Sheol
• Gehenna

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Join Lindsay and I (Robert) in this informal discussion regarding gender, family and the patriarchy.

Digging Deeper

• The Vox had a pretty good write-up at the time regarding the Spider-Woman cover art. Be warned, some of it is a bit Not Safe For Work.
• Here is a pretty great science article discussing the history and traumas of the patriarchy.
• HIV/AIDS in the 80s

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Lindsay and I sit down to check in and have a loose conversation about being called. It’s doozy. It’s a little bit spicy and a little bit silly. Be sure to have your earbuds in before you start it. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Digging Deeper

Below are some links that we mentioned and even some scripture 😯️.

• The New Evangelicals
• Growing Phenomena of Evangelical Deconstruction Stan Mitchell

“… though they were not yet born and had done nothing either good or bad—in order that God’s purpose of election might continue, not because of works but because of him who calls—she was told, “The older will serve the younger.” As it is written, “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.””

— Romans 9:11-13 ESV

The Purpose Driven Life website asks the following questions:

• What on earth am I here for?
• Why am I alive?
• Does my life matter?

The answer: It’s not about you.

lol. Enjoy.

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This is the 2nd part of our conversation with Joe and Michelle, you can listen to the 1st part here. In this episode we discuss our what our spiritual traumas were and how to re-contextualize them.The questions we asked can be found in our community forums here: https://connect.theweightless.space/t/healing-trauma-with-re-contextualization/26.

After listening, I invite you to add your own thoughts and experiences to the forums too.

Digging Deeper

• What Is Scrupulosity OCD?
• What Is Excoriation Disorder?

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This is part 1 of a 2 part series. In this episode, we sit down for an intimate conversation with our friends Joe and Michelle. Michelle, Lindsay and myself worked together. Until we didn’t. Listen in on what happened.

Part 2 will be a conversation around us recontextualizing our spiritual trauma to be released next week.

Digging Deeper

• Lindsay’s contribution: 10 Key Bible Verses on Evangelism 😉️
• Michelle’s recommended reading on grief: 5 stages of grief: Coping with the loss of a loved one
• The book I barely read: Faith Shift: Finding Your Way Forward When Everything You Believe Is Coming Apart

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In this episde, Lindsay and I talk about our impressions of Trump and the evangelical reponse. This is an informal conversation filled with impressions, obersavations and feeling and thus is not to be listened to as a “record of what happened,” rather, it’s more appropriate to think of it as being included in one of our post dinner or early morning conversations, as we tend to do. I have tried to include relevant links that you can click through as topics come up in the conversation to give more color (and more importantly, accuracy) to our conversation.

Editorial Corrections

• The shooting mentioned was in Charleston (June 2015, not Charlotte) and the event mentioned in question was in Charlottesville (August, 2017) regarding our house church prayer.
• I (Robert) was wrong, the Bible was right side up: Did Trump Hold the Bible Upside Down?

Digging DeeperIntro

• The year was 2015 YouTube Link
• Make Like a Tree and Get Outta Here! YouTube Link
• Trump launches 2015 presidential bid atop the Trump Tower escalator YouTube Link

Character Matters

• The Deeper Reason Trump’s Taco Tweet Is Offensive NPR.org Link
• The Real Record of the Reagans on Gays and AIDS Slate.com Link
• How Trump talks about women - and does it matter? BBC.com Link
• National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey PDF
• Donald Trump criticised for mocking reporter with disability BBC.com Link
• Donald Trump: I could “shoot somebody and I wouldn’t lose any voters” CBS News Link
• Peanuts? YouTube Link
• How Trump talks about his faith: ‘God is the ultimate’ YouTube Link

Was America Great?

• The Newsroom Speech by Jeff Daniels YouTube Link
• Jim Crow Laws end in 1954 Britannica.com Link
• The Equal Credit Opportunity Act Department of Justice Link (When women could apply for a credit card.)
• List of things prohibited to women in the US USAToday.com Link
• Marital rape in the United States Wikipedia.org Link
• Donald Trump’s long history of racism, from the 1970s to 2020 Vox.com Link
• Fidel Castro Britannica.com Link
• Trickle-down economics Wikipedia.org Link

Women’s Issues

• Single women were given the right to birth control 50 years ago today (Mar 22, 2022) TheHill.com Link
• 7 in 10 Women Who Have Had an Abortion Identify as a Christian LifeWay Research Link
• Percentage distribution of U.S. women obtaining abortions in nonhospital settings and of all U.S. women aged 15-44, and abortion index, by selected characteristics, 2014 and 2008 Guttmacher Institute PDF
• Can Endometriosis Increase Your Risk for Miscarriage? Endofound.org Link
• Did Trump Claim Credit for Overturning Roe v. Wade? Snopes.com Link

Guns, Violence

• Civil War (2024) IMDb.com Link
• Gun Laws in Florida Pensacola News Journal
• Inside the Capitol Riot: An Exclusive Video Investigation NYTimes.com Link

Community Connection:

How about you? What was your first impression of Trump? Did you have similar experiences? As always, feel free to discuss this episode on our community forums.

In this episode, Lindsay and I discuss my epiphany after watching the docu-series Love Has Won: The Cult of Mother God on Netflix. Afterward, I realized I could’ve easily fallen for that and likely already had fallen for a cult myself.

Digging Deeper

• Amy Carlson, Mother God
• The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill
• Stanford prison experiment and later, the Heroic Imagination Project
• What makes a cult?

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In this episode Lindsay and I discuss an article published by The Gospel Coalition on the deconversion of YouTubers Rhett and Link.

• Are we culpable for the salvation of others?
• Are we too, Apostles of Unbelief?
• Are we in or out?

These questions and more are discussed.

Digging Deeper

A YouTube Playlist of all of Rhett and Link’s Spiritual Deconstruction Stories

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In this episode Lindsay and I discuss the hole left behind by Christianity.

• Did we fill it?
• With what?
• Did it work?

These questions and more are discussed.

How about you? If you’ve left institutional Christianity, how did you respond to its absence?

Also, there is always help if you need it: https://988lifeline.org/

Digging Deeper

• Our friend Cliff’s website is https://www.cliffravenscraft.com. The episode I mentioned was episode 156 and the gentleman’s name was Tony. 😉️
• More about Peter Rollins can be found at his website: https://peterrollins.com/ and the book mentioned is called The Idolatry of God: Breaking Our Addiction to Certainty and Satisfaction
• More about Richard C Schwartz and IFS can be found at his website: https://ifs-institute.com/introduction-internal-family-systems
• Dave Matthews - The Space Between
• Religions of Bangladesh: 91% Islam

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In this episode, Lindsay and I start with the end.

What was it that drove us away from evangelical Christianity and the church? We also discuss what effect these events had on our faith.

Join us for an intimate conversation.

In the meantime, enjoy this wonderful song by David Wilcox

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