Matt Enns is a transformational men’s coach, creator of the Archetypal Integration and Depth Coaching system, and founder of Sovereign Man Coaching Company.
He specializes in helping men save their marriage from the brink of divorce — if when their wife says it’s over — and has several additional coaching programs focused on masculine self-development.
In this episode, we explore the journey of mature masculinity through personal responsibility, the power of self-reflection, and the significance of understanding one's emotional landscape. Matt shares his personal story of transformation, emphasizing the need for men to confront their shadows and build a kingdom that reflects their true selves. The conversation delves into the four masculine archetypes—King, Warrior, Magician, and Lover—and how they can guide men in their personal development and relationships. The episode concludes with practical advice for men to write their origin stories as a means of self-discovery and growth.
More from Matt:
His new book: Divorce-Proof Man: Nine Laws to Own Your Role, Win Back Her Respect, And Unlock Lasting Love
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Sovereignmancoaching.com
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to the Well-Worshipped Man Podcast
01:35 Matt Enns: A Journey of Transformation
03:48 The Power of Personal Responsibility
05:49 Building Your Kingdom: A Personal Overview
07:57 The Lion King Analogy: Archetypes in Masculinity
11:46 Facing the Shadows: The Path to Self-Discovery
15:47 The Importance of Humility in Growth
17:43 Recognizing Weeds: Proactive Self-Management
21:22 Learning from Pain: The Role of Reflection
23:27 Navigating Relationships: Commitment vs. Compatibility
29:07 Navigating Emotional Stability in Relationships
33:37 The Importance of Vision and Personal Goals
42:20 Understanding Masculine Archetypes
49:44 Balancing Archetypes for Personal Growth
56:34 Awareness and Transitioning Between Archetypes
01:00:45 Understanding Intensity in Communication
01:04:01 The Impact of Masculine Energy on Relationships
01:07:31 Recognizing Fear in Relationships
01:11:37 The Complexity of Male Emotional Fears
01:14:47 The Importance of Emotional Awareness
01:18:35 Homework for Self-Discovery
01:21:03 Resources for Personal Growth