Bless our guests Ryanna and Abbey for talking about all things queer and confusing with us. This episode is bursting with slippery stories, "woopsie" moments, and soul-searching discussions about identity and sexuality. If you've ever felt like a big ol' question mark on the Kinsey Scale, this one's for you (and honestly, for everyone else).

Things to look forward to in this episode:

> "Coming out" and Figuring It Out

> "The first time I encountered a vagina" stories

> Bisexuality stigma > Porn (and Spirited Away) during sex

> Susannah finds out she's a masturbation guru

> Masturbation for the first time at the age of 21

> Praying the gay away

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Vagina owners are more likely to experience vulvodynia in their lifetime than breast cancer (!!). So why aren't we talking more about it? Most of us have probably experienced a lil' pain during sex at one time or another, but chronic, painful sex shouldn't be shrugged off. Our guest Charlotte shares her experience with vulvodynia and how a disorder that makes penetration not-so-comfortable has affected her life: from navigating blind dates to industrial sized lube and vulvar queens. "We don't talk about vaginal dysfunction because they are not supposed to exist. You are supposed to be perfect. We are taught that vulva pain is expected."

If you'd like to learn more:

Dope Article: https://tinyurl.com/Vulvodynia-article

Dope Organization: https://www.nva.org/

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We're baaaaack with our BEST EPISODE YET! Guests Gigi and Billy answer nitty gritty questions about anal and balance helpful advice with stories about anal-gone-wrong. Did you know that anal could be the key to squirting? Gigi can tell you all about it. The heathen millennials are spreadin' their anal agenda to everyone and we are into it. Hear us answer: How is anal sex different for a straight woman vs. a gay man? Is your rusty trombone the same as my rusty trombone? What's rimming like? What's exactly should I do to "prep" for an anal first time? What determines a "poopy butt?"

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CORRECTION CORNER: In the episode, we talk about Cosmo publishing an article about anal that received backlash. It was actually TEEN VOGUE. Which makes a lot more sense, in context. Forgive us.

Ashley unveils her favorite sex story and the gals talk about learning from sex mistakes, featuring Ali Wong (not in person, but hey). Susannah and Ashley go over crucial lessons like overcoming lube stigma, learning about someone else's vulva, getting over performance anxiety, and DON'T PUT THAT HOUSEHOLD ITEM UP YOUR BUTT.

This episode, we make Susannah scream...three times. Susannah, Ashley, and Maya (twixtmynethers.com) answer sex toy FAQs. Cleaning 101, what NOT to put inside your body, how to pick a toy for your penis or your vulva, AND you even get to hear Ashley's personal vibe.

Check out Twixt My Nethers for sex toy guides, reviews, and DEAL$. twixtmynethers.com Facebook/Insta: @twixtmynethers Twitter: @twxtmynethers

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Too much conversation about masculinity and sex for one episode. In a new segment we are calling "Residual Wetness," Susannah, Kai, and Ashley continue to talk about sexual expectations influenced by gender. Be our Sugar Person: www.patreon.com/thewetseatpodcast or a one night stand (merch): www.redbubble.com/people/thewetseat/portfolio

Are expectations based on gender fucking with your sex life? Has he been faking his orgasms? Jesus camp, magic dicks, and Brett from Pornhub help Susannah, Ashley, and special guest Kai answer these questions and more while discussing masculinity and sex.

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The Wet Seat goes on location! Susannah & Ashley are joined by former roommate Maria to discuss how anxiety, in all its various forms, affects sex & relationships. Hear stories about leftover masturbation shame, managing anxiety with a partner, performance struggles, and orgasm expectations.

Episode art: Rebecca Todaro.

Everyone has at least one embarrassing sex story...or do they? While swapping stories about period sex, queefing, & blow jobs, our hosts encounter the crucial difference between embarrassing and shameful sex stories--and why that difference matters. Smash that LIKE on FB for more slippery stories. "Blood Bath" by Christian Drake (performed by Andrea Gibson and Katie Wirsing): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LqsvhGFWN94 Art: Rebecca Todaro Editing: William (Billy) Cowles Hosts: Ashley Cunningham & Susannah Wilson