Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend

The White Default, Bonnie Blue & Gays Dating Themselves


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Is Whiteness the Default? We dive deep into the unspoken biases that shape our perceptions of beauty, desirability, and relationships. From dating preferences to Hollywood’s beauty standards, we unpack how whiteness continues to be seen as the "default" and why that needs to change.

🔥 Topics We Cover:

💡 Why Whiteness is Still the Standard – How media and society reinforce Eurocentric beauty ideals.
💬 Dating While Brown – The challenges of navigating attraction and "preferences" in a world that favours lighter skin.
🏳️‍🌈 Colourism in the LGBTQ+ Community – How internalised biases show up on dating apps and in social circles.
📖 Challenging the Narrative – Why we need to question the standards we’ve been given and redefine beauty on our own terms.

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