The Wider Measure with Nikki Peal

What if the goal isn’t to make work easier — but to make it healthier, more sustainable, and more human?

In this episode of The Wider Measure, I’m joined by Dr. Kat Page for a conversation about resilience, burnout, identity, and the role work plays in our wellbeing.

We talk about why resilience can sometimes become a way of tolerating problems that should actually be changed, why reducing demands isn’t always the answer, and what it means to balance the demands in our lives with the resources available to us.

We also explore something many high achievers will recognise: how easily work becomes tied to identity and self-worth — and what happens when we begin to see ourselves as more than our roles, titles, and output.

This conversation is an invitation to think differently about work — not simply as something to endure, escape, or optimise, but as something that can be designed more thoughtfully.

In this episode:

• When resilience helps — and when it becomes a problem
• The relationship between demands and resources
• Burnout, wellbeing, and sustainable performance
• Why work can become part of our identity
• Building a fuller sense of self beyond achievement
• What healthier work could actually look like

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Links & Resources

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Dr. Kat Page’s book:
Good Work can be purchased through her website or

Book link

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Episode 3: The Ordinary Advantage | Why Ordinary Life Shouldn't Require Extraordinary Effort

What if the reason life feels so hard isn't because you're doing it wrong...

What if you're simply relying on memory, motivation, and willpower to solve the same ordinary problems every single day?

In this episode, I explore a simple idea that has completely changed the way I think about work, family, health, and everyday life: The Ordinary Advantage.

We'll unpack why so many of us mistake recurring friction for personal failure, what behavioral science teaches us about habits and decision-making, and why the answer isn't becoming more disciplined—it's building simple systems that quietly do some of the heavy lifting.

You'll learn:

• Why ordinary life often feels harder than it needs to.
• The difference between relying on willpower and relying on systems.
• The science behind habits, implementation intentions, and reducing mental load.
• My EASE framework for designing simple systems that create more capacity for what matters most.
• One practical exercise you can apply this week to make everyday life feel just a little lighter.

Because the goal isn't to become someone who can carry more.

It's to become someone who has to carry less.

Download the free The Ordinary Advantage Workbook to build your first everyday system and start creating more capacity where it matters most.

If this episode resonates with you, I'd be so grateful if you'd follow the show, leave a review, or share it with someone who might need to hear it. You never know how one conversation can change someone's week—or even their life.

What if the very strengths that have helped you succeed are also the things quietly exhausting you?

Many thoughtful high achievers become the person who gets things done, remembers everything, solves the problems, and carries more than anyone realizes. But somewhere along the way, capability can become expectation—and we stop asking what it's costing us.

In this episode of The Wider Measure, Nikki explores the difference between capability and capacity, what psychology and neuroscience reveal about burnout and sustainable performance, and why protecting your energy isn't the opposite of ambition—it's what makes ambition sustainable.

You'll discover:
• Why capable people often end up carrying everything
• The hidden difference between capability and capacity
• Why recovery is part of high performance—not a reward for it
• Three questions to help you make more intentional decisions this week

Because perhaps one of the widest measures of success isn't how much you can carry...

It's whether you're still present enough to enjoy the life you're carrying it for.

Be sure to follow along at The Wider Measure

Why Being Capable Doesn't Mean You Should Carry Everything

What if the very strengths that have helped you succeed are also the things quietly exhausting you?

Many of us build our identity around being capable. We become the person who gets things done, remembers everything, solves the problems, and carries more than most people ever see. But somewhere along the way, capability can become an expectation—and we stop asking what it's costing us.

In this episode of The Wider Measure, Nikki explores the difference between capability and capacity, why protecting your energy isn't the opposite of ambition, and what psychology, neuroscience, and performance research reveal about sustainable success.

Together, we'll explore:

• Why capable people often end up carrying everything

• The hidden difference between capability and capacity

• What the World Health Organization's definition of burnout reveals about chronic stress
  
• Why elite performers prioritize recovery as part of performance—not a reward for it
  
• Three powerful questions to help you make more intentional decisions this week

Because perhaps one of the widest measures of success isn't how much you can carry...

It's whether you're still present enough to enjoy the life you're carrying it for.

📚 Research referenced in this episode

• World Health Organization (ICD-11): Burnout as an occupational phenomenon
• John Sweller – Cognitive Load Theory
• Bruce McEwen – Allostatic Load
• Jim Loehr & Tony Schwartz – The Power of Full Engagement

• James G. March – Organizational Learning & the Competence Trap

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Welcome to the first episode of The Wider Measure—the evolution of my former podcast, Plan It With Nikki.

This show is for thoughtful high achievers who are used to measuring success through productivity, achievement, and how much they can carry—but are beginning to wonder whether those are the only measures that matter.

In this episode, I share why I created The Wider Measure, what has changed since Plan It With Nikki, and the questions I want this podcast to explore: ambition, identity, health, family, purpose, and what it means to build a successful life that actually feels like your own.

If you’ve ever looked at a life that appears successful on paper and still thought, “Is this working for me?”—this conversation is for you.

In this episode:

• Why Plan It With Nikki evolved into The Wider Measure
• The limits of measuring life through productivity alone
• Why thoughtful high achievers can still feel unfulfilled
• What you can expect from future episodes

Subscribe to The Wider Measure and join the conversation.

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Today we delve into personal growth, exploring the crucial aspect of personal development: self-care and its

We discuss self-care, solo-travel, mom guilt and journaling!

How Nikki Can Help you:

David J. Greer is a 40+ year entrepreneur. At 22, he joined a young software startup, stayed 20 years, becoming co-owner, while building the company into a global powerhouse. After selling out of that business, he and his wife took a break, commissioning a sailboat in the South of France and home schooling their three children for two years while sailing 5,000 miles in the Mediterranean.

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🎙️ In this special episode, we have the privilege of diving into the incredible life and experiences of the one and only David Ciemny – a man of many talents and a beacon of positivity.

🌟 Journey to Success: A Conversation with David Ciemny

In this enlightening interview, David shares his remarkable journey from a signed musician featured in Rolling Stone Magazine to the dynamic role of a tour manager for pop sensations like Lady Gaga and Lauryn Hill. But that's just the beginning.

🎤 Episode Highlights:

🚀 Get Ready to Be Inspired!

How Nikki Can Help you:

In this compelling episode, we delve into the transformative concept of grit and its profound impact on personal and professional success. Titled "The Power of Grit," we explore the research and insights of Angela Duckworth, shedding light on how passion and perseverance can outshine innate talent.

Join us on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment as we unlock the keys to lasting achievement and fulfillment. Discover how cultivating grit can reshape your approach to goals, redefine success, and ultimately lead to a more resilient and purpose-driven life.

How Nikki Can Help you:

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Welcome to 'Unleashing Potential,' the podcast episode where we dive deep into the art of personal growth, mindset mastery, and unlocking your full potential.

Join me as we explore practical strategies and insightful guidance to empower you to break through limitations, embrace change, and propel yourself towards the life you've always envisioned.

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