Sometimes working with mentors/healers/coaches can leave you feeling MORE traumatized & broken.
Using discernment is usually what is shared when it comes to feeling into if you should work with someone or not... but often if we carry high levels of FEAR, ANXIETY, & TRAUMA we have trouble accessing our own channel and discernment is not fully possible. (For me years ago this was the case!)
This has been my experience and now an experience I see mirrored in the incredible humans I work with.
If your "healer"/coach/mentor/therapst/past life regressioner/psychic (add in any other thing you wish) leaves you feeling empty, confused, broken down... its time to release them and call back your power. If you have had experiences (like a past life regression) that left you open not knowing what to do next... you can fully integrate and call back your energy... from that life and the experience.
I do believe everything is a catalyst for healing (and my own experiences with this are why I am speaking on this topic.) and still...
YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO SELF HEAL. You have your own inner wisdom and knowing. You have your own unique channel and gifts. If anyone you work with makes you feel other wise you are allowed to walk away!!