What if the biggest spiritual revolution happening right now is in your emotional body?

In this episode, I'm diving deep into the emotional solar plexus with Jenn Greiner, a 3/5 emotional projector who transitioned from 10+ years as a therapist to building her coaching practice around Human Design and emotional sovereignty.

We talk about her journey from feeling guilty for existing (hello, core wound work) to embracing her gifts of anticipation and leadership through the Gene Keys as well!

This isn't your typical "feel your feelings" conversation. This is about understanding the actual energetics of how emotions work, why half the world struggles with emotional authority, and how our relationship with emotions is literally mutating as we speak.

We dive into the mechanics of emotional authority, why you don't need to wait for a "hell yes" as an emotional being, and how that subtle 60-80% feeling gets to be enough. Jenn shares specific questions to ask yourself while riding your emotional wave that will completely change how you make decisions.

The truth is...

If you have an open or undefined solar plexus, you've probably been carrying everyone else's emotional stuff without even knowing it. And if you're emotionally defined, you might be waiting way too long for clarity that feels different than what you've been told to expect.

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Ready to Go Deeper Into Your Own Design?

If this conversation sparked something in you and you're ready to do the real work of deconditioning - the kind that requires looking at your patterns, your shadows, and the ways you've been living out of alignment - I have a few spots open for 1:1 coaching.

This isn't surface-level work. This is about unraveling the conditioning that's been running your life and stepping into the fullness of who you're designed to be. If you're ready to stop playing small and start living from your authentic power, send me a DM and let's see if we're a fit to work together.

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Instagram: @thevitalJenn

Be brave, not perfect, my babe!

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Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.

Most of us have been asking the wrong question about trust in our relationship entirely. 

We focus on whether we can trust our partner to show up, to keep their word, to meet our needs- which is valid, of course, but we need to take it deeper.

Relationships are mirrors - and the real question trust is asking you is: Can you trust yourself in this relationship?

In this episode, I'm sharing the raw conversation with my friend whose partner literally left town when she was unconscious and sick for 24 hours. Instead of focusing on his abandonment, we dove deep into why she was choosing to stay and abandon herself. I'm also opening up about my 13-year relationship where I lost myself so completely that I couldn't even choose tomato sauce at the store.

This isn't about blaming yourself or excusing bad behavior. This is about recognizing that your body is constantly communicating through exhaustion, throat issues, feeling hollow, getting sick - and learning to trust that wisdom above all else.

If you've been asking "Can I trust him?" but haven't asked "Am I willing to self-abandon for this relationship?" this episode will shift everything.

Trust equals safety, and safety equals the ability to thrive. But most of us are looking for safety from our partner instead of creating it within ourselves first. When you trust yourself enough to honor your body's wisdom, speak your truth, and uphold your non-negotiables, you either create the foundation for conscious love - or you get the clarity you need to choose yourself.

Xx,

Questions to Sit With:

If you're recognizing patterns of self-abandonment in your relationship and want to build the foundation of radical self-trust but don't know where to start, my 1:1 coaching is designed for women ready to stop fragmenting themselves for love.

Together, we'll identify your specific values and non-negotiables, learn to trust your body's wisdom as sacred information, and create the conscious partnership where you feel deeply seen and supported instead of walking on eggshells. If you're ready to move from self-abandonment to self-trust and build love that honors your truth, send me a DM on IG to explore working together.

Love this episode? Screenshot and tag me @iamkaijadawn - especially if this perspective shift hit you right in the soul.

Warning: This episode is a loving but direct wake-up call. I'm speaking from my mama voice because this message needs to land. You are worthy of relationships that honor your truth, not ones that require you to fragment yourself to survive.

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Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.

There's this quiet desperation that happens in relationships that no one talks about. It's not dramatic enough to call it a crisis, but it's not subtle enough to ignore.

You're managing life together beautifully - paying bills, raising kids, checking boxes - but somewhere along the way, your souls stopped feeding each other. You've become efficient teammates instead of nourishing lovers, and your nervous system is sending you signals that something essential is missing.

In this episode, I'm naming what so many of us experience but struggle to articulate - relationship malnourishment.

This isn't about not loving each other enough. It's about feeling unconsciously starved in your relationship of the specific emotional nutrients your unique designs actually need to thrive.

In this episode, you'll discover how to recognize when you're experiencing relationship malnourishment, what nutrients you're actually craving, and how your Gene Keys Attraction Sphere reveals your unique blueprint for creating nourishing connection.

I'm breaking down the four core relational nutrients (safety & consistency, play & investment, understanding & forgiveness) and sharing how understanding your partner's Attraction Sphere can transform malnourishment into conscious nourishment.

If you've been questioning "Are we compatible?" or feeling like you're just managing logistics instead of creating magic, this episode will help you understand what's actually missing and how to feed your relationship back to aliveness.

Relationship malnourishment isn't about not loving each other enough. It's about not understanding what specific nutrients each of your nervous systems actually needs to thrive. When you start consciously feeding each other what you're actually starving for, your relationship becomes a source of energy instead of depletion.

Be sure to grab you and your partner's Gene Keys Profiles so you can dive in your Attraction Spheres and start to nourish your relationship like you're both craving. 

Xx,

If you're ready to understand the deeper blueprints that create nourishing love, The Gene Keys Book Club is where we explore how your Attraction Sphere reveals exactly what kind of connection your soul is designed to create and receive.

🎯 Grab your 3-Channel Relationship Assessment in the show notes! Discover exactly which areas of your relationship need nourishment and get a clear roadmap for feeding your connection what it actually needs.

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Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.

Would you believe me if I told you that you're ALWAYS evoking something from your partner - the question isn't whether you're doing it, but whether you're doing it consciously or unconsciously?

In this final episode of the Relationship Physics series, I'm revealing the most powerful piece - the Law of Energetic Evocation.

This is about how your energetic state is literally calling forth responses from your partner's nervous system, and how you can shift from accidentally triggering what you don't want to consciously creating what you do want.

You'll discover the concept of the "Eden Loop" - the unconscious pattern where one person's mental defense triggers the other's emotional defense, creating endless cycles of triggering each other's childhood wounds that lie with in the IQ Sphere & EQ Sphere in the Gene Keys Golden Path.

I'm breaking down real examples like the criticism-defensiveness spiral and the overwhelm-withdrawal pattern that keep couples stuck.

Most importantly, you'll learn specific strategies for consciously evoking safety during conflict, presence when they're checked out, leadership when you're overwhelmed, and connection when energy feels flat.

If you've been hoping your partner will just start responding differently, this episode shows you how to become the conscious creator of what happens between you two.

You're always contributing to the energetic field between you and your partner. When you become conscious of what you're evoking instead of being an unconscious victim of patterns, you stop hoping for better responses and start creating the conditions for deeper intimacy. It only takes one person to shift the entire dynamic.

Xx,

KD

If this series has opened up a new way of seeing your relationship, The Gene Keys Book Club is where we dive deep into understanding the unconscious patterns that either create magic or chaos in love.

Grab your 3-Channel Relationship Assessment!

Get personalized scores for your emotional, sexual, and spiritual channels plus specific next steps for the areas that need attention. Stop guessing why things feel off and get a clear roadmap for creating conscious connection.

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Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.

What if I told you that your nervous system is constantly broadcasting like a radio station, and your partner's body is tuning into that frequency and responding to it before you even speak?

In this episode, I'm diving deep into the invisible force that's shaping every interaction in your relationship - the law of energetic transmission. This is about how your cells and nervous system are listening and responding 24/7, picking up on energy that's happening beneath your conscious awareness.

You'll hear my raw story about how my Gene Key 12 Shadow of Vanity almost sabotaged my relationship with Christian in the early days - how I was terrified of losing my independence and actually told him his grounding energy felt "too much" for my hypervigilant nervous system. I'm also sharing how understanding Christian's Gene Key 60 (Shadow of Limitation) completely shifted how I respond when he brings up obstacles, instead of making him the problem.

If you've ever wondered why the same conversation can go completely sideways one day and beautifully the next, this episode reveals the energetic mechanics happening underneath that have nothing to do with your words.

Your body is constantly broadcasting and receiving energy that creates the emotional climate of your relationship. You can say the exact same words in two different conversations and get completely different responses based on your energetic state. Once you understand this invisible language, you stop wondering why conversations go sideways and start taking conscious responsibility for the frequency you're transmitting.

Xx, KD

If you're ready to understand the deeper energetic dynamics shaping your relationship, The Gene Keys Book Club is where we dive into the shadow patterns and gifts that are unconsciously running your connections.

🎯 Free Resource Alert!

Download your Body Wisdom Guide! It's perfect for regulating your nervous system and creating conscious pauses before difficult conversations.

Gene Keys Resources:

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Next Week: Episode 3 - The Law of Energetic Evocation: How to consciously create the responses you want instead of accidentally triggering what you don't.

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Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.

What if the burnout you're experiencing isn't a sign that something's wrong with you, but proof that you're trying to force yourself into an energetic design that was never meant for you?!

In this episode, I'm sitting down with my new friend Lauren Farrow, an Emotional Projector who went from collapsing on the London Underground after grueling TV production days to building a thriving business that honors her energetic design.

You'll hear Lauren's raw story of how she discovered Human Design through her sister's gift on her 30th birthday, and the exact moment she realized she'd been labeling herself as "indecisive" and "non-committal" when she was actually just honoring her emotional authority.

Lauren also breaks down the massive 2027 shift we're all moving through - from the Cross of Planning to the Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix - and why this explains the collective discomfort and uncertainty we're all feeling right now.

If you've been pushing yourself to be consistent in ways that drain you or questioning why you can't seem to commit like everyone else, this conversation will give you permission to define success on your own energetic terms.

Most of us are trying to succeed using strategies designed for different energy types. When you understand your unique energetic blueprint, you stop forcing yourself into systems that deplete you and start creating from a place of sustainable alignment. Your "inconsistency" might actually be your intuitive wisdom guiding you away from what's not meant for you.

Connect with Lauren on IG @whatsthesoultruth

She's currently recording an audio series about the 2027 shift and offers one-to-one consultancies for aligning your business with your Human Design!

Understanding your energy type and authority changes everything about how you approach work, relationships, and decision-making. Join me for HD Happy Hour where we dive deep into your chart and how to work with your design instead of against it.

Love this episode? Screenshot this and tag both @iamkaijadawn and @whatsthesoultruth!

Xx, KD

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Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.

Would you believe me if I told you that relationships actually operate by the same laws as physics?

Like, there are invisible forces constantly at play that either create magnetic attraction or complete energetic flatness, and most of us are totally unconscious of what we're broadcasting and receiving.

In this episode, I'm revealing the invisible mechanics that are either igniting passion or slowly draining the life out of your connection - and why you can feel so energetically mismatched even when you love each other deeply.

This isn't about learning better communication techniques or trying to force love into one simple box.

This is about understanding the three distinct energetic channels that are running in your relationship 24/7, and how to consciously work with these invisible forces instead of being unconscious victims of them.

You'll hear about my 13-year relationship where we felt like complete roommates despite loving each other, and the specific moment I realized we were energetically mismatched on multiple levels - both stuck in the same frequency with zero polarity.

I'm also sharing how understanding these three channels completely transformed my relationship with Christian, and why this invisible language your relationship is always speaking changes everything once you can see it.

If you've been feeling disconnected but can't name exactly what's wrong, this episode will help you diagnose exactly which energetic channel needs your attention first.

Most relationship advice treats connection like it's one thing. But your body is constantly picking up on these invisible mechanics - emotional flow versus holding, sexual surrender versus claiming, spiritual devotion versus consciousness.

When all three channels are dancing together in polarity, you create this incredible energetic current that feels like magic. When they're mismatched, you get that disconnect feeling even when you can't name why.

Xx, KD

It helps you diagnose exactly which energetic channel needs your attention first and gives you specific steps to create more conscious polarity.

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Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.

What if the hardest conversations in your relationship were actually the gateway to the deepest intimacy you've ever experienced?

In this episode, I'm getting real about the conversation I had with Christian a few months ago that could have destroyed our connection—but instead became one of our most beautiful moments of closeness.

This isn't about perfect communication scripts or avoiding conflict altogether. This is about what happens when you finally stop choosing between your truth and your relationship—and start choosing both.

You'll hear about the "sheets story" that triggered every wound I carried from my previous 13-year relationship, and how I learned to speak from my heart instead of from my hurt.

I'm also sharing the exact 3-step practice I used to keep my heart open while delivering a hard truth that needed to be said. The same practice my clients are using to transform their relationships from defensive battlegrounds into conscious partnerships.

If you've been walking on eggshells or exploding with months of built-up resentment, this episode will show you there's a third option that creates what you actually want: to be seen, heard, and felt.

What We're Covering:

• The nervous system check that prevents you from weaponizing your intelligence when you're triggered

The truth is...

You can't do this work in theory. You can't regulate your nervous system from your head. Your relationship is showing you exactly where you still have room to grow—and until you face that mirror with radical honesty, you'll keep creating the same patterns with different people.

Ready to Go Deeper?

If you're ready to stop choosing between your truth and your relationship, I have a free guide that will support you in staying grounded while you speak what's really on your heart.

It's the Body Wisdom Guide. Inside, you get the body map showing where fear lives versus where knowing lives—so you can tell if you're speaking from love or from wound. You get the 60-second practice for checking in before you respond. And you learn the generational pattern that taught you to override yourself in the first place.

This is how you speak truth from your heart instead of from your hurt.

Grab Yours Here

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Be brave, not perfect, my babe!

Xx,

KD

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046 | How To Know When It's Time To Leave or Stay In Your Relationship (And My Biggest Fear About This)

045 | How I Created Safety In An Unsafe Relationship And Ended It With Love

Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.

Being right killed my first marriage.

Not the big stuff. Not infidelity or abuse or incompatibility. The slow death that came from me needing to win every argument, having receipts for every disagreement, using my understanding of psychology and nervous systems to prove I was the more conscious one.

I'd win the fight. He'd say "you're right, I'm sorry." And intimacy would die a little more each time because when someone always has to be wrong, they stop bringing you their truth.

In this episode, I'm breaking down the addiction to being right - why your nervous system treats disagreement as survival threat, the actual chemical reward you get from "winning," and what it costs you in connection. I'm also sharing the exact practice that helped me shift from destroying relationships with my need to be correct to choosing devotion to love instead.

If you've ever felt that desperate urgency to make someone understand your perspective RIGHT NOW, this episode will show you what's actually happening in your body - and how to choose differently.

What We're Covering:

The Truth: You cannot create connection from a disconnected state. When your prefrontal cortex goes offline and you're in fight mode, your only goal is defeating the perceived threat - which is your partner's different perspective. Your nervous system state determines how your words land, not the words themselves. Intimacy dies when someone always has to be wrong. The wedge gets deeper every time you prioritize being right over being connected.

Regulate Before You Respond👇

Download the free Body Wisdom Guide - includes the 60-second practice for checking in with your body before you respond, how to tell activation from intuition, and how to stay grounded when conflict shows up. Link in show notes.

Ready to Choose Devotion Over Division?

Gene Keys Book Club is where we explore the shadow patterns that keep you fighting to win instead of fighting for love.

Interested in private coaching available for deeper support? Connect with me on Instagram and let's chat!

Be brave, not perfect, my girl!

Xx,

KD

Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.

Here's a question nobody asked me when I was in the deepest crisis of my life: What do YOU want?

Instead, I got "just pray about it" and "God has a plan" and "marriage is hard." I was asking everyone - my mom, my friends, my therapist, even God - what I should do about my relationship. Meanwhile, my body was shutting down systems trying to get me to listen.

At 23, I woke up completely deaf in my right ear. The doctors said it was sudden sensorineural hearing loss. I knew exactly what it was: my body taking away the one sense I kept using to seek everyone else's permission instead of trusting what I already knew.

In this episode, I'm sharing that story and the pattern underneath it - how women are trained from childhood to question their own reactions, seek external validation, and override their body's wisdom. And why "Am I overreacting?" is the red flag that you're about to abandon yourself.

What We're Covering:

The Truth: You weren't born needing everyone else's opinion before trusting your own. You were trained to seek external answers instead of internal knowing. Every time you ask "Am I overreacting?" you're prioritizing someone else's comfort over your own truth. Your body isn't hysterical - it's a highly sophisticated system reading people and environments with more accuracy than your conscious mind. The whispers will become screams. And if you ignore the screams, your body will shut something down to make you finally listen.

Learn to Trust Your Body: Download the free Body Wisdom Guide - get the map of where fear vs. knowing lives in your body, the 60-second check-in practice, and the questions to ask when you need clarity.

If I'd had this 12 years ago, I might still have my hearing. You don't have to wait for your body to shut something down.

Grab Yours Here

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Ready to Stop Seeking Permission? Gene Keys Book Club is where we unpack the inherited patterns that taught you to override yourself and learn to validate your own experience first.

Want private coaching available for one-on-one support, connect with me on Instagram.

Be brave, not perfect, my girl!

Xx,

KD

Disclaimer: This podcast shares personal stories, experiences, and reflections on relationships, consciousness work, and personal growth. The content is not intended as a substitute for professional mental health support, medical advice, or therapeutic treatment. If you're experiencing crisis, abuse, or severe mental health symptoms, please reach out to a qualified professional. Your journey is your own - trust yourself to know what support you need and when you need it.