Permission to Try

Have you ever waited for someone to give you permission to try something?  I know I did.  What I have discovered is the only person I  need to get permission from to try anything is myself.  When I wait for others to tell me what I can or can’t do..I stop living the life I was sent here to live.  I stop aligning my will to God’s will for me because I am trying to do what “you think I should do.”

I have been discovering the power found in words and the words you decide to put on everyday.  As Kody Bateman, from the book Promptings said, “The stories in your mind do become the stories of your life, and it’s a whole lot of fun when you create the stories you desire.”

You and I have the ability to not only change our story but step forward to create the story you have secretly desired.  What is that thing you think about changing or improving--and why are not doing it today?  Take a minute and ask yourself this question.

One way that has changed my life is by taking a few minutes each day to look for the good in that day---and focus my thoughts there.

Go to @becomingwithbecky on IG or FB and let's connect!  This month--each day I am offering a gratitude prompt and some power words to put on that will help us look to the good in our lives.  We each have so much to be grateful for and the simple redirect of our minds will make all the difference.

NOW--I have given myself permission to try something I have never done before!  And I am ready to try--and I invite you to join me!!

As we step into 2022--I am excited to announce and invite you to join me at

The Gathering Retreat this January in St. George, Utah!

https://members.becomingwithbecky.com/the-gathering-retreat/

Are you a busy mom who feels unworthy & stuck in your story most of the time?

I used to feel that way too until I discovered the power to change my story was as simple as changing my words.  No more long to do lists…the changes are found within.

I invite you to JOIN me & discover HOW TO CREATE THE SECRET DESIRES ON YOUR HEART WITH the Divine Power found in words

Attached is a link with ALL the details!  It is going to be so fabulous!

I am sharing a discount code of $500 OFF the original price with you

Use code “EARLYBIRD” through Nov 30th at checkout to get the discount!!

If you are ready to Celebrate, Connect & Create with Women, Words & Wisdom…The Gathering Retreat is for you!!

Be sure to check out the VIP night too!   If you are ready to up-level your life…join me then!  A memorable night of Favorites awaits you.

You deserve to start 2022 with the ability to create the secret desires of your heart and I am going to show you HOW!

Give yourself permission to try--what do you have to lose?  Nothing--and what you will gain---is you will stop wishing and start living the life you have always secretly desired to live.

Are you fresh out of willpower?  I was too until I discovered the simple power found in words.  Today, I intentionally choose what words I put on each day and you can too!  I choose the words that matter to me that allow me to feel the way I desire and it has made all the difference.

How do you feel today?  Ask yourself this question and become aware of how you feel each day.  I want to give you permission to change your words.  I invite you to practice putting on wonder instead of worry. 

As Dieter F. Uchtdorf said, "we need an ongoing infusion of heavenly light.  We need "times of refreshing" and times of personal restoration."  The power of words can be that very thing.  As we put on words that matter, we can become refreshed and restored, day by day.

Life doesn't go as planned, this is part of the plan yet we get to choose how we feel each day.  We will feel sadness and disappointment at times yet we want to make sure that we feel joy and love too.  

It starts by becoming aware to your feelings...and to begin to feel them.  This episode will take a deeper look on this simple approach to moving forward.

Do you even know the ride you are on?  Do you enjoy it? 

Yes, we are each on a ride of life and have the power change or redirect the direction we are headed by simply changing the words we put on each day!  If you want to change---you have the power to!

The power found in words is a blue print that allows me to enjoy my own ride---despite the things I have no control of.  Have you ever found yourself feeling despair from comparing yourself to others? I used to feel that way too--until I discovered how to put on a feeling of curiousity instead of competition.  This has allowed me to step forward and stay in my own lane!  Life would be pretty boring if we were all the same!  As Theodore Roosevelt said, "comparison is the thief of joy."  If you are not feeling joy in your life---it could be because you are putting on thoughts that cause you to feel comparison.  The great things is we can change our thoughts and this will change how we feel.  

Like I ask myself each day, What words will I put on today?  We have the power to choose!

If you are ready to discover the power found in words, I invite you to download "The One Word Way" a Free Ebook I have created that shows you the simple way to step forward from feeling unworthy and stuck by changing one word at a time.  Go to www.becomingwithbecky.com/join to download it!  

You are enough just the way you are--because you are YOU!  We are each Divine in the eyes of our creator.  It is time to enjoy our own ride!  This episode will show you simple ideas to consider as you discover the significance of you being you.  

Remember this, as Coco Chanel has said, "Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself."  

Okay friends:  I posted a podcast and thought it went out live---and see it is still in the draft file---I know it is out of order---but decided that doesn't matter.  Here are some thoughts regarding What are you reading?  Enjoy.  Xo,  Becky

What are the last 5 books you have read?  Are you taking a few minutes each day to put on words that matter?  As Jim Rohn, renowned businessman and personal development guru said, "you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with, and that means everyone in your life counts."  The great thing is---you have the power to choose.  

You also have the power to choose the words you put on each day and one way to put them on is by what we are reading and listening too.

In this episode I will share 5 reasons that as you put on words that matter through what you are reading and listening too---you will put on words that will change your life!

1.  your intellect needs to be stimulated

2.  your opinion of yourself might drastically improve

3. you might gain a mentor, or become one.

4.  you'll likely develop healthier habits, and that means looking and feeling better every day

5.  you'll attract someone positive, amazing and conscientious about all of the above

What are you reading?  I share some of the books I have been putting on in my life and why they matter with regards to the 5 reasons I just shared above.  Here are a few of them

The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks

Maybe Today by David Butler and Emily Belle Freeman

Everything is FigureOutable by Marie Forleo

First Kill all the Marriage Counselors by Laura Doyle

Accomplishing The Impossible by Russell M. Nelson

The Bench by Jen Brewer

Here are a few of my favorites right now!  I would love to hear what you are reading too!

Also, to get my free ebook, The One Word Way go to www.becomingwithbecky.com/join. This is short and simple and I will share 3 simple words that you can practice putting on daily that will help you create the life you are secretly desiring.

What are you consistent in doing?  Have you ever thought about this? As Tony Robbins said, "it's not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives.  It's what we do consistently."  Our consistent habits, routines, and words we put on matter.   

In this episode we will discover the importance of consistency and be reminded that we have the ability to change our thoughts to get the result we secretly desire too.  The key with creating and living the life you have secretly desired starts with becoming aware of what you are consistently thinking about.  

Being consistent allows you to establish awareness build trust with others and learn how to trust yourself so you can live the life you desire.   I believe the consistent awareness to the words you choose to put on each day makes all the difference. It is a simple solution that allows you to overcome any obstacle.  Check out my free Ebook, The One Word Way.  Here you will get the opportunity to practice putting on three words that matter---I invite you to become consistent with them.  I am here to guide you each step you take. Xo, Becky 

www.becomingwithbecky.com/join to get access to The One Word Way Ebook

What do the words, Easy Does It mean to you?  How often do you practice putting them on?  Let us always remember to listen to our body instead of our mind.  Our mind will keep us frazzled and in the hustle of life where our body will actually tell you what it desires---if you just learn to listen.  Let us discover how to be human beings instead of human doers!

When I start to feel overwhelmed, I love to remember to put on the thought, "easy does it". This simple phrase said over and over again, helps me remember to slow down and allow things to unfold one step at a time.  As a faith based life coach, I invite you who feel unworthy and stuck to step forward through the Divine Feminine Power found in words--so that you can create the secret desires on your heart.

We will discuss a few boundaries such as , remember to breathe, laugh out loud, and create your own happiness.  These are some of my boundaries and I share them with you and invite you choose to put them on.  Easy Does It---my friend.  Easy Does It! 

If you are ready to discover the power of words in your own life, I want to share my FREE Ebook--The One Word Way.  You can get your own digital copy by going to www.becomingwithbecky.com/join

You will be given simple and positive tools to create the life you desire one word at a time!

xo,  Becky

It is time to discover the power of our thoughts!  Once I became aware to the thoughts I was putting one, I discovered I could put on different thoughts to create different results.  You can too!!!  As Stephen Covey said, "words have been and always will be the creative force of the universe."  

What life are you creating?  Have you a desire on your heart that you continue to be stuck in.  Time is going by day after day, week after week, month after month and year after year---but you stay stuck, wishing.   If you are waiting and not taking the steps necessary to create the life you desire, I want to simply remind you that you have the power within to change this.

We have a choice, the catalyst for change is within each of us.  It starts with remembering the power of our thoughts.  I am excited to share The One Word Way.  A FREE Ebook that will begin to show you how to create the life you desire by ditching willpower and starting to put on one word at a time--that matters. d  To download go to www.becomingwithbecky.com/join

It is time to discover how to redirect your mind and focus on the good.  As Gandhi once said, "a man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks--he becomes."  Join me as we become the person we have always desired and it starts with remembering the power found in our thoughts.  Let's do it one word at a time.

Share Goodness!  I love these two simple words.   These words are ones I invite you to put on every single day.   

How do you share goodness?  Have you ever thought about it?  On this episode, we discuss the simple question you can ask yourself--How do I share goodness?  I love the idea "never suppress a generous thought."  What generous thoughts are you having?  Are you acting on them?  

Often it is the to dos of life that hold me back from sharing goodness.  I think, I will get to it when this or that is done.   It is time to become aware to how we individually decide to share goodness.  Your influence, example  and words always matters to someone else.

"Do your little bit of good where you are; it's those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world."  Desmond Tutu

We can each do a little bit and together make the world better.  As we put on goodness in our own lives, be sure to be generous and share it with someone else. 

How do you choose to look at the world?  Are you a person that looks at a glass half full or half empty?  Why is that?  It is good to remember that we have the power to change our perspective--because we have the power to change our thoughts regarding the circumstances of our life.  

In this episode we will talk more about the importance of focusing on the good! As Wayne Dyer says, "if you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."  The only way I have discovered how to change the way I look at things is through changing my thoughts.  Before I can even change my thoughts I must become aware to them and decide if they are serving me or not.

It is time to focus on the good in our individual lives and as we begin to change our perspective and see life through a new set of eyes---when we do this, everything will begin to change.

That is the power of one word!  And today we focus on perspective.  Be sure to check out my FREE Ebook that I created just for you.  It is called the One Word Way.  You will discover how to ditch willpower and put on word power as you create the life you desire.  To get your copy go to www.becomingwithbecky.com/join.  I will show you how to change three simple words that will allow your perspective to up level!   It time to create the life you desire---it time to take that first step!  I am here to show you how. 

Are you creating a life you love?  If the answer is no--why not?  We all have been given the ability to create and have the power to change our story if we desire.  When we realize we can change our story and our life with the words we put on---we unleash a freedom and ability to create a life we love.  

One little word can make all the difference.  If you are stuck in overwhelm and hustle or just plain willpower--trying to push through life...there is another way!  I have discovered that just by changing my words allows me to change everything.  I know this might sound too simple.  I used to think so too until I begin to try it.  It is a simple process but it does require effort.  Anything of value requires effort.  As my favorite quote says:

"Remember little things lead to big things, seemingly insignificant indiscretions or neglect can lead to big problems.  More importantly simple, consistent, good habits lead to a life full of bountiful blessings."  Richard G. Scott

I love this because I do feel I can do the little things---and with the power of words create consistent and good habits that matter.  I will give you a few positive and proactive tips regarding The Word Effect with the first three power words, Acknowledge, Ask and Accept.  

I also have a free gift for you.  Go to www.becomingwithbecky.com/join to get a FREE beautiful Ebook---The One Word Way!  You will be given three words that matter that will get you started on creating the life you desire.  You will be able to discover the power just one word has to let you ditch willpower and create the life you LOVE too!