“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.” — Maya Angelou

In this episode of The World Without People Podcast, Ayomide interviews Pastor Yewande Efodili, popularly known as PY, about her experiences with domestic violence and her journey to healing. They discuss the founding of PY's nonprofit organization, Touchlink, which supports victims of domestic violence irrespective of gender. 

PY shares her personal story of resilience, from a tumultuous marriage to establishing a nonprofit that aims to lift others from similar situations. The conversation also touches on the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships, the impact domestic violence has on children, and the need for therapy. Additionally, the episode highlights the activities planned by Touchlink for Domestic Violence Awareness Month and the expansion of their initiatives to Nigeria.

00:00 Introduction

02:22 Pastor Yewande's Personal Journey

03:00 The Birth of Touchlink

03:50 A Marriage Gone Wrong

05:34 Experiencing Domestic Violence

11:38 Recognizing Red Flags

23:55 Men as Victims of Domestic Violence

31:30 Healing from Pain and Shame

36:19 Impact of Domestic Violence on Children

37:23 Helping Children Cope with Domestic Violence

47:23 Touchlink's Mission and Activities

53:39 Future Plans and Expansion

57:02 Final Thoughts 

Contact TouchLink on Instagram: www.instagram.com/touch_link

Website: www.touchlink.org

“Tradition is not the worship of ashes, but the preservation of fire.” — Gustav Mahler

Join Ayomide on The World Without People Podcast as she welcomes her first author-guest, William Ifeanyi Moore. William shares insights and perspectives on the importance of cultural identity and the ways in which modern technological advancements like AI are influencing the arts. The conversation delves into the preservation of African traditions and mythology, touching on Nigerian societal issues and the complex dynamics of post-colonial African societies. William also discusses his venture into AI-generated books, emphasizing the potential benefits and the impact on creativity. 

A rich dialogue awaits listeners interested in cultural heritage, literature, and technology's role in shaping the future.

00:00 Introduction

02:51 Cultural Reflections and Traditions

05:00 The Impact of Colonization

08:12 Modern African Identity

18:17 Spiritual Practices and Misconceptions

31:04 The Role of Media in Shaping Perceptions

35:21 Exploring AI in Literature

37:37 AI's Limitations and Security Challenges

39:02 Skepticism and Initial Impressions of AI

40:26 AI's Impact on the Art Industry

44:17 AI's Role in African Creativity

56:17 Cultural Identity and National Unity

01:03:59 Challenges and Future Projects

01:09:34 Podcast Reflections and Closing Thoughts

"Sometimes the hardest part isn't letting go but rather learning to start over." — Nicole Sobon

Join Ayomide in an engaging episode of The World Without People Podcast as she converses with Stella Adjei known to her as Auntie Stella. Auntie Stella shares her “Coming to America” story, exploring the challenges of abrupt life changes and the dynamics of familial support. Together, they dive deep into the trials and tribulations of marriage, the painful reality of divorce, and the process of healing and forgiveness. Emphasizing the importance of open communication with children, setting boundaries, and seeking help, Auntie Stella highlights her resilient spirit and unwavering faith in God in her own journey through divorce. She also discusses her ministry, Oasis International Ministry, and reflects on preparing for marriage and the power of prayer in relationships. Throughout the episode, Stella's experiences offer invaluable insights into navigating life's toughest challenges with strength and hope.

00:00 Introduction

01:35 Auntie Stella's Journey to America

04:32 Life in the U.S. and Family Dynamics

11:24 Navigating Divorce and Single Parenthood

19:29 The Role of Faith and Church Support

29:14 Parenting Through Divorce

51:08 Hope Through Forgiveness

51:32 Understanding Forgiveness from a Child to Parent Perspective

53:40 Biblical Insights on Forgiveness

55:49 Practical Steps to Forgiveness

58:11 Setting Boundaries in Relationships

01:00:27 The Importance of Communication

01:13:34 The Role of Community and Mentorship

01:17:28 God's Plan and Hope for the Future

01:24:46 Final Thoughts

"Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one.'" — C.S. Lewis

Join Ayomide in an intimate conversation on The World Without People Podcast with her insightful friend Dami. The episode covers their 16-year friendship, from their first meeting at the Nigeria Entertainment Awards to supporting each other through significant life milestones. Dami opens up about losing her mother young, stepping up to responsibilities, and managing societal and family expectations. They discuss career setbacks, immigration challenges, and the emotional and financial intricacies involved. Highlights include the concept of 'black tax,' the influence of faith in overcoming life's hurdles, and the importance of intentionality in friendships. If you love a fun yet insightful conversation with friends, you’d love this!

00:00 Introduction

06:12 Growing Up Without a Mother

23:17 Navigating Friendships and Marriage

44:56 Career Challenges and Resilience

01:00:01 Understanding Personal Finance

01:21:31 Faith and Patience: Waiting Seasons in Life

01:42:59 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Future Goals

01:47:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

"Buy less, choose well, make it last." - Vivienne Westwood

Join Ayomide in this captivating episode of The World Without People Podcast as she reconnects with Tejumade Haastrup, a digital content creator and sustainable fashion advocate. They reminisce about their days in Vale College, Ibadan, and explore the importance of sustainable fashion. Tejumade shares her journey from starting a fashion blog to championing sustainability, the mental health impacts of social media, and the complexities of supporting local African brands. Tune in to get interesting insights into mindful consumption, wardrobe essentials, and the future of ethical fashion.

00:00 Introduction

05:11 The Evolution of The Discerning Stylist

07:57 Balancing Authenticity and Engagement

13:29 Navigating Social Media Pressures

28:19 The Debate on Modest Fashion

34:51 Introduction to Sustainable Fashion

37:25 Personal Journey Towards Sustainability

41:05 Promoting Sustainable Shopping Habits

59:06 Luxury Items: Investment or Extravagance?

01:06:42 Finding Joy and Fulfillment

01:08:36 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

"The unexamined life is not worth living." - Socrates

In this episode of 'The World Without People Podcast,' Ayomide is joined once again by her long-time friend Bukky Orenuga, who places Ayomide on the hot seat. The result is an exceptional conversation on several topics including family dynamics, personal growth, and societal pressures. They also delve into the complexities of relationships and marriage, each sharing personal anecdotes and views. The special episode offers a mix of humor, introspection, and valuable life insights while maintaining the podcast's signature vibe.

00:00 Introduction

01:49 Family Dynamics and Personal Reflections

04:19 Engagement and Marriage Perspectives

13:01 Social Media and Cultural Commentary

21:14 Navigating Parental Expectations

22:00 Raising Boys vs. Girls: A Cultural Perspective

23:12 The Pressure of Physical Appearance

26:10 Mothers and Their Unsolicited Opinions

30:32 The Complexity of Marriage and Relationships

36:51 Wedding Planning and Cultural Expectations

41:05 Final Thoughts and Reflections

In this episode of The World Without People Podcast, Ayomide and her longtime friend Bukky Orenuga share an engaging and authentic discussion about their high school years, friendships, and navigating life as singles within the Nigerian community. The conversation delves into the societal pressures of dating and marriage in Nigeria, the cultural expectations placed on women, and the struggles of finding a suitable partner. With humor and candidness, they also touch on the importance of self-awareness, the challenges of modern relationships, and the significance of building a supportive and understanding partnership. This heartfelt dialogue offers insights into the complexities of love, career, and personal growth in a contemporary Nigerian context.

In this episode, Ayomide welcomes back Demilade Roberts for a special collaborative episode which is part of a series of conversations titled 'The Other Sides of I Do.' They begin by reflecting on the importance of understanding oneself and building relationships grounded in spiritual principles. The conversation moves through discussions on marriage preparation, the biblical blueprint for relationships, and the essential qualities like humility and wisdom. They also address common marital challenges, emphasizing open communication and mutual respect. 

The episode concludes with an interactive segment, 'Paper Cuts of Marriage,' tackling subtle but impactful relationship issues. 

Tune in for an insightful and candid discussion about love, faith, and marriage.

"Baking is both an art and a science." — Sherry Yard

In this episode, Ayomide is joined by her cousin (no blood relation, but close enough), Bolaji "BJ" Akpoveta. They delve into her fascinating journey from being an Information Systems Technology graduate to becoming a dessert specialist and entrepreneur.

Listen in to discover how she turned her side hustle into a thriving business, creating stunning wedding cakes and delectable desserts, all while navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship.

This conversation also explores the personal side of BJ's life, her travels to Nigeria, and her thoughtful insights on social media's impact. Plus, BJ opens up about the complexities of running a solo business from home and her thoughts on potentially expanding to a storefront.

Get ready for a heartfelt and humorous conversation that highlights the importance of following your dreams, the power of communal support, and the sweet rewards of hard work.

"It takes a village to raise a child. It takes a child with autism to raise the consciousness of the village." – Coach Elaine Hall

Join Ayomide in this heartfelt episode as she dives into the inspiring journey of Ronke Aisagbonhi, a mother of two children on the autism spectrum. In an intimate and candid interview, Ronke shares her challenges and discoveries, from the early signs of autism in her first child to navigating the diagnosis and support system for her third child. This episode offers a wealth of insights into autism, highlighting the importance of community support, self-care, and the power of storytelling. Whether you're a seasoned listener or new to the podcast, this episode is a celebration of resilience and the human spirit.