He lost 26.5% of his body weight in 19 days. His doctor told him to quit. He went for gold anyway.
After being medically discharged from the British Army following 20+ years of service, David Jarvis was already rebuilding from scratch — new career, new city, new identity — when he was selected for the Invictus Games. Four months before competition, he was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetic ketoacidosis and told he might not have survived the weekend. Most people would have stepped back. David set a goal that was big enough to carry him through.
In this conversation, David walks us through his five-step resilience framework, what it actually looked like to train for a multi-sport international competition while injecting 40–50 times a day, and the moment Prince Harry placed a gold medal around his neck on his wife's birthday.
Why the significance of your goal has to match the scale of your challenge — and how that principle got David through the hardest moments
The 5-step problem-solving process David developed (and still uses) to move through overwhelm, one small step at a time
How perception — not willpower — is the real foundation of resilience
What Type 1 diabetes actually looks like as an elite athlete, and why the CGM changed everything overnight
Why David credits his wife Steph as the one who deserved to be on that podium with himIf this episode moved you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you haven't already, hit subscribe — it's the greatest compliment you can give a podcast.
David Jarvis is a British Army veteran, Invictus Games gold medalist, and resilience coach. You can find him on YouTube at Speaking SBC
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