The xMonks Drive

How often have you drifted from your awareness, without being attentive to it?
Have you ever heard of the No-Opponent mindset of Aikido? Can we imbibe the same in our leadership values?
This beautiful conversation with Grayson James is for all those curious pathmakers, who are here to break the conventional thread. 

About Grayson James
Grayson James is the esteemed CEO and Founder of Grayson James Consultants, LLC, a world-renowned leadership collaboration and performance firm. With over three decades of experience in coaching senior executives and their teams, Grayson is a trusted advisor for organizations seeking true organizational transformation.

Grayson's expertise and thought leadership have been instrumental in designing and delivering highly acclaimed Full Contact® Leadership and Collaboration workshops that help executives and their teams in diverse industries and cultures improve their leadership and business performance.  Additionally, Grayson is a Certified Ontological Coach and holds a 6th Dan (degree) Black Belt in Aikido. The cutting-edge approach to language, action and performance he draws upon has been practised at leading universities and Fortune 100 companies around the world. 

With deep expertise in mind-body integration, linguistic action, martial arts, conflict resolution, and adult learning, Grayson draws upon a cutting-edge approach to language, action, and performance that has been practised at leading universities and Fortune 100 companies around the world.

Under Grayson's leadership, Grayson James Consultants, LLC has become a leading force in the field of leadership collaboration and performance. Through individual and team coaching, workshops, and in-depth courses, Grayson James Consultants, LLC has helped executives and their teams achieve their full potential, delivering real-world results that have transformed organizations and their leaders.

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As a coach, motivational speaker or in any role where you are trying to persuade someone, it's common to come across statements like "I can't do it" or "I don't have enough time/money/resources". 

The natural reaction is to try and counter this statement with a disagreement frame, by saying things like "Yes, you can do it" or "It doesn't cost that much". But what if we switched to an agreement frame instead?

But what are these frames anyway? 

The episode will touch on the difference between partial agreement frames and full agreement frames, and the times when a disagreement frame can still be useful. By the end of this episode, you'll have a new perspective on how to approach communication and persuasion, and how to use agreement frames to build stronger relationships and achieve better outcomes. 

Jason and his unique perspective on the power of recognizing that every strength can also be a weakness and vice versa.  He also offers practical examples of how this approach can be applied in everyday life, from procrastination to imposter syndrome to communication challenges. 

What are the dangers of becoming too comfortable with our strengths? 
What leads to complacency and ultimately, stagnation? 

Whether you're an individual seeking personal growth or a business looking to stay ahead of the curve, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable strategies for unleashing your full potential. Tune in to learn how to approach your weaknesses with curiosity and creativity, and turn them into powerful assets for achieving your goals.

About Jason Fladlien

Jason Fladlien is known as the quarter billion dollar webinar man. His pitch webinars have set records in the information, coaching, affiliate, and software space. He draws upon his eclectic background for inspiration, from being a Hare Krsna monk and a rapper born and raised in the small town of Muscatine, Iowa.

Jason has risen to the top of several industries including information products, software, coaching, consulting, speaking and eCommerce.

Jason is often called in by 7, 8 and even 9-figure companies to help them with their marketing. To date, he is the only marketer Zoom specifically brought in to help its own users with webinars.

These days Jason spends much of his focus on Strategic Positioning – whereas other marketers try to figure out the best recipes and how to be the best chef, Jason figures out how to get the best ingredients in place first. The best victories in business are won by knowing where and when to play.

Through his company, Rapid Crush, Inc., Jason has pioneered many of the best marketing practices you see used on the web today.

As a client put it: "Jason makes millionaires."

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Join us for a thought-provoking conversation with guest Dave Ulrich, a leading expert in management, as we explore the theme of "Abundance in Uncertainty." 

In this episode, we delve into the power of uncertainty and how we can harness it, the role of identity in uncertain times, and the elements that contribute to a sense of abundance in people and organizations. With insights on embracing uncertainty and creating a life filled with purpose and meaning, this podcast is sure to leave you with a fresh perspective on navigating uncertainty and thriving in the face of change. So, grab a seat and get ready for an engaging and insightful discussion. Remember, the quality of your life depends on the quality of the questions you ask, so let's dive in!


About Dave
Dave Ulrich is a renowned author, speaker, and management expert who has made significant contributions to the field of human resources and leadership development. He is a professor at the Ross School of Business at the University of Michigan and a partner at The RBL Group, a consulting firm that helps organizations create value through leadership, talent, and HR. Dave has authored over 30 books and published hundreds of articles in prestigious journals, and he is known for his research on human resource management, leadership, and organization design. He has been named as the "#1 Management Educator & Guru" by BusinessWeek and one of the "Top 10 Influential Business Thinkers in the World" by Thinkers50. Dave has also received numerous awards for his contributions to the field, including the Lifetime Achievement Award from the World Federation of People Management Associations.

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The layoff paradox is an engaging but challenging topic to tackle. 

In a world where more and more companies are facing the need to reduce costs by cutting jobs, it is important to understand who is affected the most and who stands to gain from these layoffs. 

On the bright side, we have LinkedIn's #1 Career Coach on the latest episode, to explore the nuances of the layoff paradox to understand who is the biggest winner and loser in this situation. 

Dilip Saraf will uncover some of the hidden benefits and risks of layoff decisions, and explain why it may not always be an easy decision for companies to make. Join us as we delve deeper into this complex topic and try to find solutions that make everyone a winner.

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In this episode, we’re talking about a topic that is crucial for all leaders - having a strong second-in-command! We’re thrilled to have Cameron Herold, a former COO and business coach, join us as our guest. With over 1,000 entrepreneurs and CEOs under his belt, Cameron has a wealth of knowledge to share on this topic.

We’ll be discussing everything from what qualities to look for in a potential second-in-command, to how to communicate effectively and establish trust. And we’ll be covering the role a second-in-command plays in decision-making and problem-solving. Plus, we’ll talk about the benefits of a well-functioning second-in-command relationship for both the leader and the company.

So, if you’re a leader or entrepreneur looking to build a high-performing team and create a successful business, this episode is a must-listen! We’ll be asking Cameron questions like:

• How do you know if someone is ready to step into the role of a second-in-command?
• What are some common mistakes leaders make when working with their second-in-command?
• How can you ensure that your second-in-command is aligned with your company’s goals and vision?

Key Questions Answered In This Episode:

• How do you know if someone is ready to take on the role of a second-in-command?
• What are some common mistakes leaders make when working with their second-in-command?
• How can leaders ensure that their second-in-command is aligned with the company’s goals and vision?
• How does having a strong second-in-command impact your personal and professional growth as a leader?

This episode will be valuable for leaders and entrepreneurs who are looking to build a high-performing team and create a sustainable, successful business. Tune in for insights and practical advice from Cameron Herold on how to lead up and lead down effectively.

We’re excited to dive into this topic with Cameron and to share his insights and practical advice with you on how to lead up and lead down effectively. 

Cameron Herold is a former COO and business coach with over two decades of experience in the industry. He is known for his work with over 1,000 entrepreneurs and CEOs, helping them grow their businesses and reach their full potential. Cameron is a sought-after speaker and has been featured in numerous media outlets, including The New York Times, Forbes, and Inc. Magazine. He is the author of several books, including "Double Double" and "Meetings Suck". With his wealth of knowledge and practical experience, Cameron is considered a leading expert on business growth and leadership.

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Listen to #1 Executive Coach Marshall Goldsmith on xMonks Drive podcast.

If you're looking for a new way to get inspired and motivated, this is it!

Marshall Goldsmith is an executive coach who has worked with the CEOs of some of the world's biggest companies. His books have sold over 5 million copies worldwide, and he has been named as "the #1 Executive Coach in the world".

In this episode, Marshall talks about how he helps his clients achieve their goals by helping them understand themselves better--and then giving them tools to change their behaviour. Marshall also talks about how he became the #1 Executive Coach in the world and what he has learned over his 40+ years of coaching some of the most successful CEOs in the world.

About Marshall Goldsmith 

Marshall Goldsmith is a world-renowned leadership coach, executive educator, and author. He has more than 40 years of experience working with top leaders from around the world, including CEOs and senior executives from over 150 major corporations. He has been recognized as one of the top 10 executive coaches in the world by Forbes and has been named one of the top-ranked executive coaches by Harvard Business Review. He is the author of several bestselling books, including "What Got You Here Won't Get You There," "Triggers," and "Mojo: How to Get It, How to Keep It, How to Get It Back if You Lose It." 

He is also a keynote speaker and frequent guest on television and radio programs. His expertise in the field of leadership development is unmatched and his insights and strategies are valuable for anyone looking to improve their leadership skills.

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The workplaces have never been as generationally fragmented as they are presently. We have 5 gens working together in a mix pool. Each generation comes with their own strengths and we are surely witnessing the results. But how to keep such diverse minds aligned to a common vision. How would the future look like? Who is going to lead who? How will leaders shift? The 100th episode brings to you everything you need to understand 21st Century organizations with Eddie Turner.

About Eddie Turner

Eddie is a Certified Speaking Professional™ (CSP®) and ranked #9 on the Top 30 list of Motivational Speakers by Global Gurus. Eddie Turner is one of Marshall Goldsmith's 100 Coaches. 

Forbes recognized Eddie as the Preeminent Authority on Emerging Leaders. He is ranked #18 on the Top 25 Thought Leaders in Leadership by Thinkers 360 and ranked #32 on the Power List of the Top 200 Biggest Voices in Leadership to Watch in 2022. IFLD named Eddie one of the Top Mentors on the Globe for 2022!

He is the author of an international best-selling book, A C-Suite Advisor, and the former host of the Keep Leading!® podcast, which earned Apple Podcasts' coveted New & Noteworthy designation and reached 80 countries around the globe.

Eddie has appeared in national print, radio, and television media such as the Wall Street Journal, CNN, Fox News, PBS, NPR, and ABC. He has also worked as a national media commentator.

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Happy New Year Folks! The xMonks Drive 2023 year opener couldn't have been better!

Pandit Dasa has joined us as the first guest of the year. He is a former monk and an authority on Mindfulness, and Mental Health. Listen to the episode as Pandit brings out the best from his experience and tells us why empathy alone can not generate productive workplaces. What do modern leaders need to do more?

About Pandit Dasa

Pandit Dasa is a Mindful Leadership Expert, author, and motivational keynote speaker. His inspirational speeches aim to create a more mindful workplace culture, that increases productivity and improves retention.

He encourages leadership and co-workers to appreciate and celebrate the success and contributions of others.

This attitude fosters trust, enhances teamwork, and greatly impacts employee performance. He emphasizes the importance of leading without ego and highlights the importance of cultivating self-awareness and personal growth and development.

Pandit Dasa has spent 15 years as a monk in New York City and today he speaks on Mindful Leadership, Resilience, Mental Health, and Stress Management and helps companies transform their workplace culture to create a more collaborative and engaging environment.

#Panditdasa #mindfulleadership #urbanmonk

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Whether you are a budding podcaster or someone who wants to acquire the Art of Charm,  Jordan Harbinger in this episode has only the best pieces of advice for everyone.  An absolute force of a human, Jordan shares about his journey, a million downloads and the art of winging a conversation.

Jordan Harbinger is a Wall Street lawyer turned podcast interviewer with an approachable style and knack for securing high-profile guests. His podcast, The Jordan Harbinger Show, was selected as part of Apple’s “Best of 2018.”

Today, The Jordan Harbinger Show has over 5 million downloads per month and features a wide array of guests like Kobe Bryant, Moby, Dennis Rodman, Tip “T.I.” Harris, Tony Hawk, Cesar Millan, Simon Sinek, Eric Schmidt, and Neil deGrasse Tyson, to name a few. Jordan continues to teach his skills, for free, at 6-Minute Networking. In addition to hosting The Jordan Harbinger Show, Jordan is a consultant for law enforcement, military, and security companies and is a member of the New York State Bar Association and the Northern California Chapter of the Society of Professional Journalists.

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Jason Feifer is in the house everyone! The nonstop optimism machine as he likes to call himself talks about the illusion around identifying with your work, humble beginnings and building a tomorrow.

Jason Feifer is the editor in chief of Entrepreneur magazine and host of the podcast Problem Solvers, which is about entrepreneurs solving unexpected problems in their business. Outside of Entrepreneur, he is the author of the book Build For Tomorrow, which is an action plan for embracing change and adapting fast, as the host of the podcast Build For Tomorrow (yes, same name as the book), which is about the smartest solutions to our most misunderstood problems. He writes a newsletter about how to find opportunity in change.

He has also worked as an editor at Men's Health, Fast Company, Maxim, and Boston magazine, and has written about business and technology for the Washington Post, New York, and Slate.

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