I heard it said on too many times. "Aw, that's just what guys do." "We just look at what looks good." Or, "I just tell him, 'you can look, but don't touch.'" And I'm sitting there like, "Yeeeeeeah..." The scripture is explicitly clear about this subject!!" So here are my two cents on it...
If a guy or girl cannot control their eyes and mind from wandering into things that aren't godly, they don't have control over their flesh. Their flesh is dominating their conscious and, instead of MANNING UP and submitting their flesh through prayer, fasting, and a willing mind, they use the lame excuse society has sold them; "Men just look."
According to Jesus (the one they're supposed to be submitted to), if a man looks upon a woman to desire her sexually or non-sexually, he has committed adultery with her within his heart.
Pretty clear right?
So it goes back to submitting your flesh. Yes, men are turned on by what they see and it's tempting to look, but it SURE AIN'T GODLY and SURE AIN'T excusable!
So submit your flesh and don't commit "Heart Adultery"! Even if you try you'll fail because you are a fallen individual, but don't excuse yourself from the standard of the Word of God (sinlessness)!
LOVE YOU ALL!! You'll make it; no worries!