In today’s conversation, Dean Sikes sits down with high school counselor Tyson Capehart to talk about what teens are really facing today.From bullying and social media pressure to self-harm and identity struggles, this episode pulls back the curtain on a reality many parents, leaders, and churches are missing.In this episode, you’ll hear:What teens are dealing with behind the scenesWhy so many feel alone (even in a full house)How parents and adults can respond the right wayThe power of simply showing up and listeningWhy one trusted adult can literally save a lifeFor more, visit our website at www.youmatter.us

So many people today quietly carry this thought: “I feel worthless.”

In this episode of The You Matter Podcast, Dean Sikes and Pastor Nathan Brown unpack where that feeling comes from—and why it’s not the truth. We live in a world that measures worth by performance, success, and comparison. What you do, how you look, how many people notice you. And when those things fall apart… it can feel like you fall apart too.

But what if your worth was never meant to be earned? Nathan shares his personal story of losing everything he built his identity on—and how that collapse became the turning point in rebuilding his life the right way. Together, we talk about identity, comparison, social pressure, and the dangerous belief that you have to prove your value.If you’ve ever questioned your worth, struggled with comparison, or felt like you’re not enough—this conversation is for you.

You are not what you produce. You don’t have to earn love. And your life matters more than you think. If this episode helped you, share it with someone who needs to hear it.

In our very first episode, Dean sits down with longtime friend Josh Guyselman, who spent 17 years as a youth pastor working closely with teenagers.

They tackle one of the biggest issues facing students today: identity in the age of smartphones and social media.

How has technology changed teenagers?
What happens when likes determine self-worth?
Why are so many students chasing public opinion instead of truth?

From online bullying and FOMO to dopamine hits from the “like” button, Dean and Josh unpack how today’s teens are being shaped by an audience instead of anchored in truth.

They also share personal stories — including Dean’s experience with bullying — and talk about where real identity and wholeness come from.

Plus, Josh shares a powerful story about a student named Jamie who walked into church needing a signature… but found something much greater.

This conversation is honest, challenging, and full of hope.

If you’re a student struggling with your value — this episode is for you.
If you care about students — this episode is for you.

You matter more than you know.

Many young people grow up without a father figure, leading to anger and deep sadness. Dean shares his successes and failures as a father, emphasizing the responsibility to pursue and support young men. He addresses the challenge of trusting a father when an earthly father doesn't care and highlights the greater reality of God's love. Join us for a heartfelt discussion on the impact and importance of fatherly presence.

Join Dean and guest Matt Rogers (American Idol 3rd season finalist; Rose Bowl Champion; television host) as Matt shares as they discuss not letting you circumstances define who you are. Dean and Matt also discuss getting back to the Word and relying on what the Word of God says about healing and walking in all God has for you! 

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Join Dean and guest Matt Rogers (American Idol 3rd Season Finalist, Rose Bowl Champion, and Television Host) as Matt shares the importance of loving the person right in front of you. He emphasizes the value of truly seeing and appreciating each individual for who they are. Sometimes, we make the Christian faith too complicated. In reality, it's much simpler: love deeply and focus on the people God places in your life. God wants you to Bring Heaven to earth.

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Join us as we explore the timeless message of God's love and His plan for your life. In this episode, we delve into John chapter six and uncover how Jesus' actions and teachings are relevant to us today. Discover three proactive steps to living by the Word of God: hearing from God, receiving His word, and acting on it. Through heartfelt discussions and real-life experiences, especially with young people on their spiritual journeys, we emphasize the importance of building a relationship with the Word. Whether you're seeking answers or strengthening your faith, this podcast offers insights and encouragement to help you walk confidently in God's plan.

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Join Dean in this episode as he speaks on the the power of a mother’s prayers and the power of her persistent faith. Dean honors the mom’s who have been faithful to God, who agree with God in prayer and believe for God to move in the lives of those around them. Dean examines the life of two moms in the Bible who believed God and prayed fervently. Tune in for an inspiring discussion that deepens faith and highlights the connection between hearing God's voice and experiencing His power in your life. 

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Welcome to a transformative journey with Dean as he delves into the topic of prayer in the life of the Christian. Brace yourself for an insightful discussion as Dean unveils the immense power encapsulated within prayer and offers practical wisdom to grow deeper with Christ.  This isn't just about strengthening your resolve; it's about surrendering to Him. Join us as we discuss the power of prayer and the importance of prayer for your life. 

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In this episode, Dean shares on how essential it is for us to examine ourselves to see if we are in the faith. Dean shares how 2 Corinthians 13:5 should serve as a wake up call for Christians to examine their walk with God to ensure they are living as Christ has called them too. Are you walking in counterfeit Christianity? Listen to build yourself up in your faith and be encouraged to examine yourself and walk the narrow road God has called us each into. 

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