"Fine boys don't have a lot to offer. It's sad." - Fanen. The epic conclusion to a whirlwind conversation with friends Anita, Fanen, and Vanessa about men, dealing with trauma, and growing up. 

IG: @auneetah, @nadiaayede, and @nessarachi.

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The Most Powerful Thing My Therapist Said to Me

The Night She Entered Her Element

Time, Tattoos, and taking Pressure Off Yourself

"I've never been more present than I am right now." - Vanessa. An unlikely conversation with 3 young, vibrant, intelligent, beautiful, woke Nigerian women -- Vanessa, Fanene, and Anita -- about friendship, colorism, men, mental health, slut-shaming, work, and workplace racism. 

IG: @auneetah, @nadiaayede, and @nessarachi.

"Celebrating 14 years is to remind people that we have been around. We didn't start today." - Edoro Abebe, MD Vanilla. I picked the brain of one of Abuja's most successful restaurateurs. In a rare moment of vulnerability, Edoro opened up about the things he's seen running in the industry and the unique skill set it takes to thrive in one of the toughest business environments in the world. All in all, a conversation about life, food, and business.

WARNING: DO NOT LISTEN VIA LOUDSPEAKERS 

"How do we close the orgasm gap?" - Oloni asked. A very vocal group of women believe that their unremarkable sexual experiences and lack of orgasms are because...MEN. Rodney begs to differ. A monologue on sexual intelligence, the nuances of the elusive orgasm, and how men can do better.

“Perfection… if we know it’s unattainable, why do we bitch when people don’t meet it?” - Aniekan Ezekiel. A conversation about the way our flaws, feelings, and fantasies fatally combine when we pursue the perfect romantic relationship. Featuring social architect, Aniekan Ezekiel (IG: @sir_skywalker)  

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