The Youngbloods Podcast

Devin and Shannon discuss cleaning and de cluttering on their house and how it actually helps with anxiety and helps you focus.

We have tried may family calendars but this has been the best one thus far! Podcoin

Parents, teachers and coaches devote countless hours into helping kids build skills that they think will help them have a brighter future. But, reading aptitude and soccer skills don’t guarantee a happy adult life.

In fact, a 2015 study published in the American Journal of Public Health found that social and emotional skills are the biggest predictors of future success. Researchers discovered that the more emotionally, mentally and socially competent kids were in kindergarten, the more likely they were to go to college and be employed full-time at age 25. Kids with the lowest social and emotional competency scores were at the highest risk for dropping out of school, legal problems and substance abuse issues.

But just because a child goes to college doesn’t mean they’ve got all the emotional skills they need to succeed. In fact, a 2015 nationwide survey of 1,502 college students found that 60 percent of first-year students felt emotionally unprepared for college and were more likely to report poor academic performance and a negative college experience.

Fortunately, social and emotional skills can be taught (I include more than 100 exercises that teach these skills in my book “13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don’t Do ”). A few simple strategies incorporated into your daily interactions with your child can make a big difference.

Here are five things smart parents do to raise successful, mentally strong kids:

1. They validate their feelings

Kids’ responses often seem out of proportion to the circumstances. But saying, “Calm down! It’s not a big deal,” or “Don’t be scared. Everything will be OK,” does them a disservice.

Their feelings — no matter how dramatic they seem — are real. Smart parents teach kids that their feelings are OK and it’s what they do with those feelings that matters. They say things like, “It’s OK to feel angry but it’s not OK to hit your brother.

When you have a family it is very difficult to get all your life’s schedule . Here are what we have done for through trial and error that we feel is the best.

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Shannon and Devin had a chance to talk to Jen Whitemore from Jenwhitmoretraining.com and the awesome Podcast Adventuring the Girl Life. You don't want to miss this one!

The pet rat Shannon bought just gave birth to 10 rat pups.

When it comes to raising kids. A clean house can help more than you actually know! Check out the article here: https://www.upworthy.com/tidying-up-can-do-more-than-spark-joy-it-can-help-your-kids-be-academic-rockstars.

Shannon confesses about her problem and it just may be getting out of control. While discussing Shannon’s issue with animals that brings up Disney movies .

This past weekend we attended our sons Rugby games as we do every weekend. But there were some issues which brought up the problem of Education and sports.

Charming, fun, and yet just the right amount of salty, curse words from the 1950s have a certain extra somethin' that many modern day insults seem to lack. Our four letter words and other caustic phrases get the point across, and they certainly have a place in our vocabulary. But it can be effective to throw in the occasional "get bent" or "oh, fudge" as well. Full article here: https://www.bustle.com/p/11-curse-words-from-the-50s-we-need-to-bring-back-16765036