#TheHersday Thursday Podcast featuring the 2Harks

Robert K. Wallace Jr. came in and sat down with me today. This is not only my best friend; this man is a brother to me. Since Miq Perry came in and blessed us on episode 6, I wanted to get an episode in and get a man’s perspective about being Single, Secure & Strong. We discussed Robs journey of a single father raising 4 kids, 2 of which are girls, after his marriage of 15 plus years ended. We discuss his challenges and how they affected him emotionally and mentally. His spiritual testament and how the ordeal challenged his faith. We further discussed raising 2 daughters in the age of social media and how raising his daughters has assisted in his growth as a man, also changing how he views women. Rob & I both detail the loss of our fathers and how their wisdom prepared us to be the men that we are today.  We both determined how important it is to better mentor our young men and connect better with grown men, because mental health is a real thing in the black community that needs to be addressed more.  I hope you enjoy.

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Intro/outro music:

 Ice Flow by Kevin MacLeod

Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3898-ice-flow License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license

Background music:

Artifact by Kevin MacLeod

Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3382-artifact License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license

Maccary Bay by Kevin MacLeod

Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4010-maccary-bay License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license

Turning my LinkedIn motivational Elephant Wisdom posts into podcast episodes.  

My personal reflection.  My need to cry and release.  Trying to find that great sounding gospel song that help with my release and remind me that God is always good.  

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Instagram: @2Harks

Twitter: @mstaj_hark

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Music

Intro: Tab Anitek - Dormouse

Background: North Oakland Extasy -Squadda B

Outro: Neo Soul Jazzy 

The 2harks discuss how independence or “self-reliance” of a single person can handicap a relationship, the behavioral traits of being single independent and single surviving.

“This is the tragedy of the double-edged sword of reliance. On the surface, it's wonderful to be independent, self-sufficient and resilient. But when you believe you must do everything for yourself, you create your own demise.”

-By Terry Gaspard, Contributor Licensed Clinical Social Worker, College Instructor, Author

Music

Intro

Ofshane - Sunset n Beachz

IG: @0fshane

Background

LIMO Recording Studio – Nice to you

Twitter: @KontaktLimo

IG: @limorecordingstudio

FB: LIMORecordingStudio

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClNWOXfkCh-jKVn42WjAGsQ

DJ Williams - A Kiss For Amanda

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6MdrFuMwhMk

Welcome to the second installment of the "A Couple of Couples" Series

We have been friends with The Clarks for a long time, we even live a couple of streets over from them.

As always we are discussing the ins and outs of their relationships, how they met & the situations they still struggle with.  Manney refers to their relationship as the Black Brady Bunch as they have both come together with children from prior relationships. Together 9 years, married 6. 

Of course we discussed The Submissive Wife: Ephesians 5: 22 - 33 and the 5 Love Languages.   

We had a great time and fun.  Enjoy!

Intro Music: Trouble by Trouble - Topher Mohr and Alex Elena

Background & Outro Music Smooth by Kevin Mcleoud http://www.theoccasionals.com/band/kevin_macleod/

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Listen to our online shows on WMVU.org “Part of the Radio Free Network: https://radiofreenetwork.com/wmvu-org/

8am 2Harks Show: Music Inspiration and Fun

6pm The 2Harks Sunday Show: Playing your favorite gospel rnb hiphop jazz & soul.

On www.gospelimpactradio.com

4pm 2Harks Show: Music Inspiration and Fun

Episode 3 

1st Episode of the series “A Couple of Couples” Hosted by the H-Duble Hark Henry, with guest Pastor Bo Burns and Pastor Aleta Burns of Greater Glory Empowerment Temple

848 East Main Street C, Columbus, OH

Visit greatergloryempowermenttemple.org to hear sermons and to sow into the ministry

$GreaterGlory848

IG: https://www.instagram.com/greaterglory848/

Twitter: @1GreaterGlory

FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Greater-Glory-Empowerment-Temple/100007659648380

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1cmqQfNPg92644wN29-QlQ

A conversation with the Burns’ about their beginning friendship, that blossomed into true love and their work in the ministry. We also get their thoughts on what makes their marriage work and what others should look out for.

Intro:

Hanging Out - Bruno E.

Video Link: https://youtu.be/SlP75I2AElg

Background Music

· Nice To You - Vibe Tracks

· Smooth Lovin by Kevin MacLeod Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4379-smooth-lovinLicense: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license

· Melting Panda - Rasmus Faber

· Sincerely by Kevin MacLeod

Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5033-sincerely

License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license

· Ketsa New Soul

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Twitter: @mstaj_hark

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Source Material:

Recommended reading.

The 2Harks discuss setting boundaries in your relationships as you move forward.  Regardless if its family or best friend, boundaries must be set in order for your relationship to function properly. What may be a norm to her may not be a norm for him or vice versa.

Nuh Na Nuh by Kevin MacLeod

Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/6429-nuh-na-nuh

License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license

Fearless First by Kevin MacLeod

Link: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3742-fearless-first

License: https://filmmusic.io/standard-license

{Siddhartha/Titles} by Twin Musicom www.twinmusicom.org

FurFunk - Text Me Records - https://www.textmerecords.com/

After watching the Netflix film Malcolm & Marie, it sparked a deep conversation between Hark Henry and #TheHer.

Hark Henry discusses thoughts of past relationships that were triggered by the film.  #TheHer gives further research insights on Toxic Relationships.  

Sponsored by Sons of SPPhillips LLP  www.sonsofspphillips.com 

References:

Music: 

Intro/Outro 

          · www.joshpan.com

          · www.instagram.com/joshpan

          · www.twitter.com/joshpan

          · https://www.youtube.com/user/thejoshpan/featured

Background

        · @tophermohr - Twitter

        · @Tophermohr – Instagram

        ·  http://www.alexelenatv.com/

        · https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RFk-tTYwPEQ

        · https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrwYF1Q780z9SUInYfpyoF2Blkz18vZL3