What's something you realized within yourself that's been holding you back?

Sometimes we be drawn. Getting in our own way..

*The start of every week what inspires you to keep going?*

I realized it is imperative that I give myself weekly/ daily goals so that way I can build more confidence in myself. And work on my discipline. peace, love, & abundance family 🧚🏾

I went on a little two week hiatus. I'm back and I missed y'all. But I will say this: One thing about life is it'll life no matter what. You finna get the good, bad, pretty and ugly.

We still must go on.

But genuinely speaking. Are you ok?

Because it's ok not to be ok.

Trauma hurts. Betrayal hurts. Hurting hurts. Peace, love, and abundance family 🧚🏾

Those tough times built the nu you. Never be embarrassed about the tough situations you been through. Those situations taught you, led you and sculpted you to who you are today.

Those April showers bring May flowers.

extra discussions:

*right now all I have is memories of my mom, good and bad. I wish I would've had more of a relationship with her. Don't let that be you.*

*Remember, it's never too late though. Make a conscious choice...Today, it's ok. I know it can be scary. *

note: * I said: "I'm not telling you to smile through the dark times.. feel every emotion.." = it's ok to experience ANGER, GRIEF, DISAPPOINTMENT. You do not need to force yourself to be HAPPY when feeling these emotions..

then I said "you gotta smile in the rain sometimes.." = IF U WANT. because you will not be there for long, nothing lasts forever. It's ok to dance in the rain!

Acting like you're HAPPY when you aren't though is complete self harm! But smiling when you REALIZE this won't last forever, will make things much more easier to grow through.

peace, love, and abundance family 🧚🏾

First things first, life is amazing and abundant. I'm so happy to experience this life shit.

But let me tell you this.. life gonna get spooky, it'll get dark.. and when that happens, you gotta turn your flashlight on and find your way through.

Find your way through baby.

Healing is an everyday, every moment journey. When you "fix" one thing you gonna have some other shit to work on... Just have some fun with life and find joy in it all.

ℑ 𝔥𝔞𝔡 𝔞 𝔟𝔞𝔡 𝔱𝔯𝔦𝔭, 𝔟𝔲𝔱 𝔦𝔱 𝔬𝔭𝔢𝔫𝔢𝔡 𝔪𝔶 𝔢𝔶𝔢𝔰

"Bad" experiences are perfect. Why? Because it teaches you things and you grow from it.

Peace, love, and abundance family 🧚🏾

Quick Rant:

We are so conditioned to think we don't need somebody sometimes.

And truth is.. we do.

Disclaimer: Choose yourself always, have boundaries always, but also realize you are where you're at right now because of yourself but ALSO some of that assistance.

It could've been some advice someone gave you, a loan, a smile, a place to stay, a job, anything..

It took two people to create us into this world...

Everybody need somebody.. but remember you don't need everybody.

And remember:

Everybody need to eat but you can't feed everybody.

Use your discernment.

Peace, love, and abundance 🌱🧚🏾

Healing can be painful at times but it's necessary. Everything always come up to the surface.

if just sitting down waiting on a blessing , you won't know what to do with it once you get it... Too busy obsessing over the idea of the finished product.... You forgot it takes the process to truly appreciate what you get and asked for.

After you get it can you KEEP it? Can you sustain it?

When you become rich do you know what you're doing with your money? Do you know how to keep money rolling in? When you get your house how you gonna keep up with it, how you gonna furnish it?

When you waiting on a husband are you preparing yourself to be with him?

While you waiting you can be working.

While you excited you can be evolving.

Those hidden Jewels 💎 are in the process. It's in the Journey..

Appreciate your journey, show gratitude to your journey.

Your journey is the classes.. and the ending product (what you waiting for) is that test you've been studying for.

Make sure you pass this test sis.

Make sure you pass this test bro.

BONUS EP: My friend accidentally called me and Interrupted my entire recording 😭 no worries! I would've probably been going on for too long anyway. But let that shit go.. I'm doing a colon cleanse on my life today. Some people are addicted to pain, are you one of them?

I said you need the strength you had when you planned out your days to execute them. WRONG. You need the WILL.

because the strength you had when you planned out everything may not be how you feel at all times.. but what pushes you to get things done?

Are you too drained and tired to do what you planned to do? Did you give yourself resting days? Are you doing too much?

Do you overwork yourself?

Man... idk! What I know is this: I need to love myself enough to take care of myself EVERYDAY.

Because right now, I'm running on E; matter fact I need an oil change.

ps: I eat healthy, but when I don't, I absolutely don't. I'll be out eating vegan chicken nuggets and fries all day w nondairy ice cream 💔 lmaoo

"thank you furniture; but it's time for some new furniture."

realize everyone isn't going where you need to go.

And that's ok. They served their purpose.

You can try and change people... to allow them room to fit into your life, but if they not changing because they want to just know that EVENTUALLY they are BOUND to go back if they WANT to.

So just drop those bags sis, drop those bags bro. It's giving you unnecessary blisters. Time = Tom

Tom be sprinting y'all... y'all better stop sleeping on him lol ps: I spelled it "Tome" at times, ignore it!