Self Compassion used to feel optional and oftentimes we depended on others to fill our love tank. That is no longer true. Spirit is now saying don’t depend on anyone or anything external for the lesson you yourself must learn. In order to give, you have to have something to draw from. Take this as an invitation to treat yourself as the love that you are and then you will be able to give genuinely and authentically as before and even more lovingly and abundantly.