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I decided to continue this episode here because this is a great issue to be addressed. Most times, the people we go out of the way for to make them happy are not really happy no matter how we try. At most, some don't even value the effort we put in, they feel it's what they are entitled to have and we spend a lot of time and days to achieve something that comes naturally and easily when we have found it ourselves. Happiness is a virtue, happiness is an attitude... Happiness is a lot of things in one. The truth remains that you can't give out what you don't have. So be happy today! And others will feel the impact of this happiness you feel. Did I VENT what you needed to hear, leave a message and tell me what it is.

Placing high expectations on your teenager can lead to rebellion. They begin to challenge your authority because you don't value the choices they make. Your teen has every right to make choices, all you have to do is show love and support as long as the choices they are making are not the wrong ones. Don't force your teen into activities you want them to do without pausing to find out if they are equal to the task. Try seeking their consent before you make your final decision. If you're teen is passionate and interested about other things, support them, help them to improve, they are definitely going to make you proud. When you place high expectations on your teenager, you make them loose focus, you make them loose passion and you bridge your relationship. Don't just make decisions based on what you think, ask what they think too. You're both in this together. Don't forget to leave a message and Comment on our social media pages @therapypoet. Thank you for giving me 5 minutes of your time

Most times in life, we try to keep up with the things we fear. We lunch into relationships after relationships because we're sacred of being single. We have grown to believe that loneliness is a disease, and this is a very wrong believe. When you do things because you're afraid of something, you end up chasing things you would never chase or you could end up going for things that are below your standard because you listen to your fears and the voices that come from your insecurities. You have to leave that toxic relationship, you have to understand that you can't change people! Unless they decided too. STOP CHASING THE WRONG HAPPINESS. Did I VENT what you needed to hear, leave a message and tell me what it is. You could also drop a comment on our Instagram page @ventin_sistas. Thank you for listening

Your wilderness is not a place for you to give up hope about your situation, it is not a place for you to give up hope about improving yourself, it is not a place for you to feel reluctant and start to wonder without a destination. In this episode, we hear the story of a different young man who had to seize the opportunity he had in the wilderness. Even though the wilderness was a place of torment and pain, he chose to be a warrior and a musician. He fought his way through, and he praised his way through. Don't be a wondering Joseph in your wilderness, be a worrier like David. You are in that wilderness so that you will be equiped with skills and knowledge to fight against your Goliath. You cannot go to the war front unprepared if you want to win the battle. No matter the pain you are passing through, submit yourself to learn that skill God wants you to learn, submit yourself to gain that experience God wants you to have. Submit yourself to gain that courage for you to move into your purpose ready to win the battle. Don't allow negative thinking and mindset to stop you from getting to that purpose God has destined for you. Leave a message and tell me what you've learnt following this podcast and also like and comment on our Instagram page @therapypoet. Thank you for giving me 5 minutes of your time

Don't be too judgemental towards people to the point of treating them like trash. The truth? You can't change people by always judging them. Everyone will not live up to your standard and everyone will not live by own principles. Instead of judging, correct with love, correct with gentleness, and correct in Kindness. Let the light that radiate from you, draw people closer to you instead of pushing them away from you because you don't know who is going to be of help to you in future. Did I VENT WHAT YOU NEEDED TO HEAR?? Leave a comment here or go to our IG handle @ventin_sistas and tell us what you think.

It wouldn't be fair if I keep talking to only the parents about building a parent-teen relationship, the teenager also has a part to play. In a relationship, it takes the efforts of two people to make the relationship work. I coined out a few advice on what I would love to tell my DEAR TEENAGERS! 1. THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU KEEP A SECRET: Not all secrets are worth keeping no matter how silly or dangerous it might sound. Most secrets that you're going to keep will/might lead to your doom or destruction, so think twice before keeping a secret from your parents. 2. MAKE YOUR PARENTS YOUR BEST FRIEND!: Just like the way you meet people you never knew and had a strong connection with them, the same thing should occur between you and your parents. You've known your parents all your life and what's more, they gave birth to you. They know what you like and what you dislike, they understand everything that is going on with you so learn to confide with them. Create a strong bond and attachment with them. If they ever talk to you in a manner you don't like, politely call them aside and tell them. They would be happy that you have finally started to be open with them. PS: I Dropped A Little Tip On This Episode For Parents! I hope this episode has been helpful so far! Don't be stingy, share it with another parent or Teenager. DON'T FORGET TO LEAVE A MESSAGE OR A COMMENT ON OUR INSTAGRAM HANDLE. Thank you for giving me 5 minutes of your time.

Just because you tired it once and it didn't work out doesn't mean you should give up on yourself. A lot of people who actually are great personalities today didn't succeed by trying it once. Failure is a part of life. It is a process that tells you that you could do better if you tried again, it is a process where you learn from your mistakes, it is process that teaches you patience if you're determined to get it right. You're not a failure. DID I VENT WHAT YOU NEEDED TO HEAR, LEAVE A MESSAGE AND TELL ME WHAT IT IS

I would be a lier if I told you that getting gold and precious stones is the easiest thing to do without telling you that you have to go through discomfort, stress, pain or even get disappointed before you get to that goal. In this journey of discovering purpose, you cannot get to your purpose, you cannot get to your destination in life, without going through pain, hatred, tough times, discomfort, stress etc. THERE IS NO WILDERNESS WITHOUT PURPOSE. That is one truth that cannot be denied. Your wilderness could be that divorce, that rejection, addiction, disappointment, that sickness, that trauma or any other thing you might be facing. God did not place you in that situation to torment you, God did not place you in that situation to destroy you. He is not a God of injustice, neither is He a good of favouritism. THAT WILDERNESS IS YOUR TRAINING GROUND. You have to be able to overcome challenges before stepping into your purpose. Stepping into your purpose without experience is like a solider who was just accepted into the military going to war without training.... A lot of people are WONDERING in their wilderness instead of learning the lessons and skills God has placed before them. A lot of people are confused about how to go in search of their purpose and there passion... Just like the story of Joseph in Genesis 37:15. Stick around a while longer as I lead you one step at a time through this journey. New episodes from this edition is published every Monday! LEAVE A MESSAGE HERE OR A COMMENT ON OUR INSTAGRAM PAGE ON HOW THIS PODCAST IS BEING OF HELP TO YOU. Thank you for giving me 5 minutes of your time

On our very first Podcast episode, we will be talking about "The best way to behave". The truth is, the best way to behave, is to ACTUALLY BEHAVE. Remember that this podcast is here to take you through the journey of life and teaching you how to avoid making decisions and taking actions that you would regret later and every decision we make is seen in our behavior. To behave, all you have to do is decide to actually behave, this includes that you're deciding to be different from others around you. What then is the best way to behave? 1. Be patient...yes, your ability to be patient tells a lot about you. 2. Be grateful for everything you have! Big or small. Remember that someone out there is praying for what you have. So, be grateful!... The rest of the tips are on the podcast. (It's not easy saying a lot in a minute

Welcome to Ventin_sistas Podcast, created as a means to voice out the various behaviors and decisions people choose to make and the consequences that follows such actions. Ventin_Sistas is here with the aim of communicating the correct standard to live with the right attitudes and the right decisions. This podcast is a subordinate of the "Therapypoet podcast" that talks about building a parent-teen relationship and a journey to discovering Purpose, which is available on anchor, Spotify, pocketcast, breaker, Google podcast and radiorepublic. Ventin_Sistas is a podcast that teaches you a lot of interesting lessons in just one minute. New episodes would be released every Tuesdays and Fridays. Don't forget to leave a comment on the lesson(s) you'll learn from each episode. Also follow our social media platforms @Ventin_sistas and @therapypoet. Thank you for giving us a minute of your time