Welcome to the project! Let’s examine some of the roots of this fear of being out in the world. What’s stopping us?
From the introspective exercise: Questions for you to answer (we will revisit these in a future episode):
Question 1 - If fear wasn’t in the equation, if anxiety wasn’t in the equation, where would you go first? It doesn’t have be a far off country. It can be the next state over. If you’re not someone who goes anywhere alone, it could be as simple as the next town over.
Question 2 - Why do you want to take this trip alone? What appeals to you about the idea of “solo travel”?
Question 3 - What’s stopping you from having this experience for yourself? Is it fear of men? Of loneliness? Of making mistakes on the road? Of cultural taboos? Is it something that you read on the news about the places you want to visit?
Question 4 - Ok, now let’s think about where you currently live. On a day to day basis, do you navigate your city on your own? Do you have any fears in doing so? Think about times when you were navigating your hometown on your own.
Question 5 - Are you comfortable in your solitude? Do you like to go and sit at a restaurant by yourself? Or get a drink at a bar on your own? Or have you spent a weekend entirely on your own and did you enjoy it? If not, why not?
Question 6 - Have you had any experiences in the past that made you afraid of being alone in public or living alone?
Question 7 - Now a bit of homework. I want you to research everything about this place that you indicated in Question #1. If you’re worried about safety, I want you to research safety in that place. Don’t come to any conclusions, just see what’s out there.
If you have any questions, please add them in the comments below - perhaps I can address them in future episodes.
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