I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination

Moving Beyond Inner Separation

At the heart of our core - is a deep inner split between who we are and who we think we must be to feel worthy.

This division persists due to external standards that make personal worth seem measurable and dependent on validation.

The mind, conditioned for approval, creates conflict between what is “acceptable” and what must be hidden or improved.

This inner separation fuels external division, driving an US vs. THEM mindset.

If you can’t reconcile your own trauma’s, you’ll project it onto reality as good vs. bad or worthy vs. unworthy, leading to judgment and the belief that survival relies on aligning with the right group.

Breaking this illusion starts by recognizing how deeply separation has taken root within—where do you feel divided or doubt your wholeness?

By exploring these harms, you dissolve fixing and perfectionism—the urge to prove worth—and develop self-trust and unity.

As inner unity grows, the world appears less fractured; differing perspectives no longer threaten your sense of self.

In this way, we move from separation to wholeness within ourselves and in our world.

We are moving toward truth in spirit because this entire game here is one massive, huge deception.

So....Why?

Do they - do we - separate ourselves?

To hide us from ourselves. Our Power. Our Agency.

To make us feel like we are small human beings.

To make us feel like all of this is the real thing, and this is all there is.

We are only these bodies and only these minds and only these thoughts.

That’s not true.

That’s just a minuscule, a tiny expression of who we actually are.

That is coming out.

I think if I look to the year 2035, ten, nine years from now, it is still chaotic.

There is still a lot of transformation.

But the baseline perception of what our reality is will have changed by then.

Fewer people, far fewer people, will actually view this world as solid, material, or real.

They won’t believe the current origin stories.

A lot more people will be closer to the truth at that point.

Think about how your life has changed since you have been questioning all of this.

When this happens on an even larger scale, hundreds of millions of people, we are going to see vastly different thoughts.

We will see vastly different ideas.

Nothing is going to happen overnight.

This might take a whole generation or two to really trickle out, but it is happening.

In all of this, our main focus needs to be to be as balanced, as harmonious as we can be.

We need to do the work that shows up for us.

We need to heal our old wounds.

We need to forgive ourselves.

We should not give ourselves grief about the stuff we believed in.

We need to transform the guilt and the shame.

Guilt and shame have been so ingrained into our existence.

For some people, these are constant companions throughout their lives.

Guilt and shame—they constantly feel guilty about something or ashamed of something.

It absolutely keeps them from experiencing something deeper, more profound.

That was a tactic that’s big on the religious side of things.

We are going to see everything.

Everything will be so much more visible.

If you could rewind with your current awareness, if you could go back to the year 2010 or 2008.

From that perspective, look at what we are seeing today.

It is insane.

It is literally insane.

It is unbelievable what is being talked about today on a political stage and everywhere else.

We forced that into the limelight.

There is no backing away from it.

A lot of people keep hoping that we are going to return to some level of normalcy.

For some, that is 1986—that was their level of normalcy.

For others, it is 1992 or the 70s or the 50s.

It doesn’t matter.

We are never going to return to that level of normalcy because it wasn’t normal.

The world wasn’t normal.

It was just as insane, only much better hidden.

The insanity happened more in the shadows than out in the light.

Now it is out in the light.

That is what makes it so valuable in this process.

The more you expand your awareness, the more you become that which you truly are, which is infinite.

The more of that you experience, the better your life becomes.

You begin to thrive.

At the same time, you are still going to be able to observe the insanity unfolding.

That is the challenge.

That is why we need to stay strong and centered.

That is why we need community and communication.

That is why we need to show up for each other.

That is why we need to remind each other of what is happening.

Everything is coming down.

Every last system of lies and deception is coming down.

If not today, then tomorrow.

If not tomorrow, then in a year from now or two or ten.

But it is coming down.

It is in the process already.

It is not something that needs to start happening.

It has started.

And....

Self-agency is critical and extends the idea of choice, emphasizing the power or freedom to direct oneself and act according to your own heart.

It involves the capacity for free will and the process of selecting one’s course of life.

The power of choice shapes our lives, fostering personal growth, autonomy, and self-connection.

Understanding choice dynamics and embracing ambiguity helps unlock our full potential for agency and self-determination.

Love, Kassandra

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