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In this episode of They Come With Instructions, I sit down with one of my dearest childhood friends and lifelong confidants, Schinaeh Turner. Together, we share laughter and memories, but the heart of our conversation is centered on one powerful word—Reflection.

As a young mother, Schinaeh made decisions she firmly stood by at the time, only to later recognize the lasting impact those choices had on her four sons. Having walked the journey of single motherhood for many years, and now over two decades of marriage to a husband who also had four children, she opens up about the joys and challenges of blending two large families into one.

Her wisdom, honesty, and grace shine through as she shares what she’s learned along the way—offering valuable insight for anyone willing to listen. This episode invites us all to pause, reflect, and consider the ripple effects of our own life choices.

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In Part 2 of my conversation with Paula Adams, we go deeper into her story—sharing personal reflections on family, motherhood, and the powerful influence of her own mother. Paula opens up about the tension of feeling both grateful for and resentful of her mom’s role in helping raise her daughters, and how that shaped their family dynamic.

Beyond family, Paula also shares professional wisdom drawn from her 34+ years as a highly successful executive in the public sector. She reveals valuable lessons learned along the way, the things she might do differently today, and why she remains passionate about helping others succeed.

This episode is filled with laughter, honesty, and inspiration. Paula’s transparency about balancing motherhood, career, and personal growth will leave you both encouraged and challenged.

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In this heartfelt episode of They Come With Instructions, I sit down with one of my favorite people and longtime mentor, Paula Adams—a successful career woman who not only inspired me to pursue my professional goals, but actively helped me achieve them.

Paula shares openly about her journey to becoming a single mother of two daughters, the courage it took to go against her parents’ advice, and the strength she found in asking for help when she needed it most. She discusses how therapy, Christian counseling, and other resources became key tools in overcoming depression and finding her path to healing and success.

As a mom of four boys, I was fascinated to hear Paula’s insights on the unique joys and challenges of raising girls. Her wisdom, resilience, and authenticity will deeply resonate with single parents and anyone navigating life’s unexpected turns.

This is just Part 1 of our conversation—an episode that will inspire, uplift, and keep you eager for more.

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In this heartfelt and honest episode of They Come With Instructions, we explore the sensitive topic of absent parents—and the many reasons why some parents are not present in a child’s life. Whether due to divorce, military deployment, incarceration, or even the difficult aftermath of sexual assault, the absence of a parent leaves deep questions that deserve compassionate and truthful answers.

René Anderson offers biblical encouragement for parents navigating this space, reminding us that God is the giver of life—nothing takes Him by surprise, and His plans are never without purpose. Listeners are urged to be sensitively honest with their children, sharing age-appropriate truths rather than hiding behind well-meaning lies that only lead to deeper pain and confusion.

This episode also offers a strong call to avoid judgment. Each family’s story is unique, and we must show grace rather than assumptions—especially when we haven’t walked in their shoes. Even similar stories unfold differently from household to household and child to child.

Finally, be encouraged: you are not alone. God is near to the brokenhearted, and He equips those carrying the weight of parenthood alone. His strength, provision, and peace are real and available—so keep casting your cares on Him.

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In this episode, we make it clear: this is not about endorsing Planned Parenthood—it’s quite the opposite. We believe life begins with God, and every child is a gift, never a surprise to Him, even if unexpected by us.

“Planning for Parenthood” challenges young adults to think beyond baby names and gender reveals and instead consider the deeper responsibility of raising a child. Our children come to us as blank slates—needing instruction on everything: how to walk, talk, play kindly, and even how to understand the word “no.” Because a child who never hears “no” becomes a person who can’t handle it—even decades later.

Tune in as we explore the biblical and practical importance of preparing for parenthood with purpose. Before the celebrations, take a moment to ask yourself: What values do I want to pass on? What kind of parent do I want to be? Let’s talk about the real work—and blessing—of raising the next generation.

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In this episode of They Come With Instructions, we explore the powerful truth that children - starting as early as infancy - learn more from what they observe than what they're told. Our actions, attitudes, and habits become the blueprint our children follow. As the Bible reminds us, we are to teach by precept and example. This episode encourages parents to reflect the consistency between what we say and how we live. Because more than our words, our lives are the lessons our children carry forward.

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In Part 2 of my candid conversation with my eldest son, Duke, we go even deeper. His thoughtful pauses, raw honesty, and deep questions bring powerful insight to the realities of parenting—especially when things don’t go as planned.

Duke courageously asks a question that many parents quietly wrestle with: What do you do when you raise your children according to God’s Word, but they don’t live up to those expectations? We explore that question and more, with transparency, grace, and even some well-timed humor.

This episode is for every parent who has planted seeds in faith and may be still waiting for the harvest. It’s a reminder that parenting God’s way is not about perfection—it’s about obedience, love, and trusting that His Word never fails.

You’ll laugh, reflect, and walk away uplifted and encouraged to stay the course—because His way is still the right way.

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Conversations with the Poster Child – An Interview with My Son, Duke

In this heartfelt and candid episode, I sit down with my oldest son, Duke—the one I proudly call the "poster child" for They Come with Instructions. Though his journey hasn’t been without challenges and mistakes, Duke’s story is a powerful testament to resilience, redemption, and the fruit of biblical parenting.

With thoughtful pauses, brutal honesty, and a witty sense of humor, Duke shares his experiences with refreshing transparency. His life reflects the strength and dignity that can emerge when biblical principles are planted early and nurtured with love, discipline, and grace. Even in the face of setbacks, the seeds of godly instruction took root—and now they bear witness to the truth that parenting God’s way works.

This episode will remind and encourage parents that God's Word never returns void. It's a conversation every family should hear—filled with truth, hope, and a few good laughs along the way.

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In this episode of They Come With Instructions, we dive into the timeless value of using the Bible as your parenting guide. As our Creator, God knows us—and our children—better than anyone. Parenting His way lifts the pressure of feeling like we must have all the answers. Instead, we’re invited to seek wisdom from the One who knows all.

I share personal stories of how God's Word has given me the words to speak and the actions to take—sometimes far beyond what I could have come up with on my own. The Bible is full of practical truths and guiding principles that equip parents to lead with love, wisdom, and confidence.

You'll be encouraged to speak life over your children—even in moments of correction—and reminded that we can’t pour out what we haven’t poured in. That’s why I encourage every parent to connect with a Bible-based church, read the Word, or simply listen to it daily. When you fill yourself with the Word, it will overflow into your parenting.

Tune in and be inspired to parent with purpose, with peace, and with God at the center.

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In this special episode of They Come With Instructions, I open up and share my personal journey — the story behind the voice. I talk about the deep challenges I faced when life didn’t go as planned: the weight of single-handedly raising four sons, and the painful belief that my dreams and desires were lost along the way.

But through it all, I discovered that when you put God first and choose to do life His way, the blessings follow. What once felt like a burden and sacrifice, has now become my greatest joy and peace I could have ever imagined. God used every pain to reveal Himself in my life. God brought me through to share my story with the next person, single parent, YOU - to make it through. 

This is my testimony, and I hope it encourages you to trust that God’s plan is always worth it. Tune in and get to know the heart behind They Come With Instructions.

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